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01. Preface
On the road of life, "money" is a crutch on the dirt road, it is a flashlight in the dark night, in the face of difficulties and setbacks, money can protect you, can let you have more choices.
Learning to hold on to money is a skill.
It's not easy to make money, it's hard to save money, and it's even harder to keep it. Smart women, in trivial life, know how to "poor" themselves and save a sum of money for themselves.
There is a kind of poverty called "exquisite poverty", squandering all the money in his hands, dressing himself up very "exquisite", and calling it "rich" himself.
In fact, the real "enrichment" of oneself does not come from material satisfaction, but from spiritual satisfaction.
Learn to "keep" money, leave yourself a sense of confidence and dignity, leave yourself a sense of security and self-confidence, it seems to be "poor" yourself, and it is not a kind of "rich support".
Women, no matter how much money you have, learn to "lean" yourself.
02, don't squander money
People are born simple, like a white paper, and all kinds of people or things around them slowly color this white paper and gradually become a base color.
Getting along with each other is always easy to produce the psychology of comparison. People live all their lives, they all live for themselves, women please don't live in the world of comparison.
Comparison will make a person develop the habit of squandering money, and will have a particularly unhappy life.
Money, although it is not omnipotent, can make a person live a more decent life, live a more comfortable life, and live a happier life.
Keeping the money is keeping your own dignity.
In life, "poor and exquisite" everyone will look down on you. Only when you learn to rely on yourself will you be able to live with confidence.
Living in this world is only a few short decades, and you don't have to compare yourself with others, and you don't have to squander money to satisfy your vanity.
Learn to "poor" yourself, don't squander money easily, learn to spend money on the blade, learn to invest in yourself, or use money in more meaningful places, life will become more generous, will become more abundant.
03, stay lonely, read more
On the road of life, don't indulge yourself too much, learn to suffer hardships, learn to "poor" yourself, and learn to improve yourself.
Carlisle put it: "Money can do a lot of things, but it can't do everything." We should know its field and limit it there; when he wants to develop further it is, even to kick them back. ”
When people live, they must learn to abandon their desires, properly control themselves, and do not blindly immerse themselves in material enjoyment.
On the road of life, learn to enrich yourself. If you want to make yourself truly stand in this society, it is not enough to have money, but more often, you need to improve yourself and make your ability and cultivation a higher level.
Instead of constantly pursuing the emptiness that money brings to you, it is better to go to books and find the "wealth" that really belongs to you.
As the saying goes: "There is a house of gold in the book, and there is a beautiful jade in the book." ”
Learning to "impoverish" oneself and quit "material desires" is a manifestation of maturity.
Woman, when you quit "material desire" and can constantly improve yourself from knowledge and inner cultivation, your whole person will exude self-confidence.
04, escape from the comfort zone, you win
At any time, women please do not rely on others to live, learn to "poor" themselves, let themselves learn to be independent.
If a person has been standing still, then sooner or later, society will abandon her. In this world, everyone is constantly running forward.
On the road of life, don't always indulge yourself, don't make excuses for yourself, don't let yourself live too "comfortable". The "comfort zone" is often like a pot of warm boiling water, making people forget to struggle when danger comes.
Women, please learn to "poor" yourself, learn to let yourself suffer, learn to constantly strengthen yourself.
In this world, the only person you can really rely on is yourself.
Milk tea sister Zhang Zetian married Liu Qiangdong after graduation that year, and when everyone thought she was going to become a rich wife, she chose to go abroad for further study.
After returning to China, Zhang Zetian used the knowledge he learned abroad to continuously invest in himself.
With her clever INTELLIGENCE and her own efforts, she is now the youngest woman on the Forbes billionaire list.
Women, please give up your "comfort zone" and learn to constantly challenge yourself, challenge life, and become a better version of yourself.
05. Summary
Women, please "poor" yourself, let yourself get more skills and knowledge, open your eyes.
On the road of life, don't easily squander your money in order to enjoy life. Life is a long and bumpy road, please learn to save a sum of money for yourself, so that you can live calmly and confidently at any time.
Instead of squandering money, people should learn to invest in themselves.
If you have a dream, try it; if you have a new idea, learn it. Only by constantly trying can people continue to become stronger. At any time, don't give up on moving forward for the sake of "comfort".
Women, please learn to "poor" yourself and keep making yourself strong.
Calm down, learn the skills and knowledge, become an independent woman, you will live a more exciting and happy life.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.