Fate, like the wind that rises at first.
When it appears, it is often invisible.
With the passage of time, after the two people have a further understanding and the relationship becomes familiar, both parties will realize that the other party is an interesting person, and the willingness to interact with each other will gradually be reflected.
For men, if they are emotional, they tend to take the first step.
Driven by love, men will pluck up the courage to boldly confess to the girls they love. Because love is genuine, at the same time, men are often ready to be tested.
However, love is not something that one person can control.
When men have sincerity and action, whether the fate of two people can be implemented or not, girls need to give certain feedback. If the signal of love is not received, the man will also become discouraged and give up the relationship.
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The love of girls is cryptic.
If you are not moved, you will express it bravely.
In the transmission of emotions, there are many differences between the two sexes.
For example, when a man encounters love, he will put down his face and become very brave. But girls, however, will maintain a reserved side, hoping that men can be more active.
This means that if men do not understand the girl's heart, it is easy to miss each other's fate.
However, love will make rational men become emotional.
If they are not careful, they are prone to make wrong judgments or fail to grasp the hints conveyed by women. As a result, even if two people are related, they are prone to lose the confidence of loving each other in many misunderstandings.
Women are emotional species, but are good at hiding their hearts.
In the world of love, men should be a discerning person, grasp the subconscious of girls through details, in order to strengthen their love, in an orderly manner, into the heart of girls.
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Love your signal, don't ignore it.
If you really fall in love, how can you hide it?
From the perspective of love psychology, even if girls are cautious and lock their own hearts.
If one day, when you meet a boy who is bright in front of you, you have a willingness to communicate in your heart, from this time on, a woman's subconscious will give birth to the will to complete love.
Although, they will guard their own hearts.
But the feeling of this thing, really can not be hidden. Sometimes, the more a girl tries to hide something, her words and deeds will give people a feeling of wanting to cover up.
So, as a big grinning boy, how to grasp the emotional psychology of girls?
You know, men and women get along, often follow a certain "sense of boundaries", if a girl, across these three "boundaries", is often a proof of love for you.
There are no boundaries in speaking.
When men and women interact, there are some things that cannot be said.
As attentive women, they are often able to be aware of these.
Of course, there is one person who is an exception for them.
And that person is often a man who has long been recognized by the girl's subconscious. When two people are together, the girl is happy in her heart, and she will appear very relaxed, and even her words and deeds will break through the bottom line of herself.
For example, giving a man an ambiguous title is actually a manifestation of admiration. Common names are: baby, pig's head, stingy ghost and so on.
Are there girls around you who treat you like this?
If there is such a person of the opposite sex, it is happy to associate with you, and in the process of communication, these names will often appear. As a boy, you must understand that the other party has already accepted you, and will take the initiative to cross the line.
If you also care about her, you may wish to seize the opportunity to complete the love of two people in the hot iron.
Items have no boundaries.
There are often invisible boundaries between people.
For example, in the use of objects, everyone will unconsciously separate.
We don't want others to mess with their own things, especially some items that are used alone, and everyone is more reluctant to be used and occupied by others at will.
From this point of view, if you want to see through whether the girl is interested in you, you may wish to find clues from the boundaries of the item.
If a girl takes the initiative to share an item with you, such as a cup. This signal is enough to show that this girl is admiring you, and interacting with you will automatically ignore the sense of boundaries.
Psychologically, there is a "cup effect" that can illustrate the relationship between two people.
When the two sexes are dating together, if each other's cup is close, there is no feeling of diaphragm response to each other, and the cup will not be deliberately separated, indicating that the relationship between the two parties has developed qualitatively.
On the contrary, if one party deliberately distances the cup, it means that the relationship between the two people is still very distant.
When a girl is willing to use a man's cup, the subconscious mind shows a fact, she has no defense against this boy, and even takes the initiative to accept each other, so there is no boundary in the use of the cup.
Time knows no bounds.
Good interpersonal relationship is inseparable from the grasp of time.
If a person is really busy and you keep bothering, it's easy to leave a bad impression on the other person.
The relationship between two people will also create a rift.
As a girl, how can you not understand the reasoning? But there is a boy who will make girls can't help but miss, and even make them involuntarily disturb.
That is the man who touches the hearts of girls and makes them unable to put it down.
From the perspective of time, how to judge whether there is a boy's position in the girl's heart?
Everyone should know that in interpersonal communication, there will be a time limit. For example, in the dead of night, it is often our time to rest, and we are not willing to spend this time on an insignificant person.
At this time, if a girl thinks of you frequently, and contact you. In fact, the other party breaks the boundaries of time and sends a signal of love to you.
In interpersonal relationships, a certain sense of boundaries is required.
In this way, we can not only let everyone guard their privacy, but also find a certain sense of security.
But love represents an intimate relationship.
Driven by love, everyone can't help but move closer to each other, and if they are not careful, they will break through many boundaries, but they do not know it. Of course, both parties who love each other are willing to give up these boundaries.
As a boy, how do you judge a girl's attitude towards you? Everyone should know that in the intersex relationship, taking the initiative to cross the three "boundaries" is a hint that women admire you. If you want to achieve love, don't ignore it.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.