Gao Shanshan, the daughter of Gao Hong, because she made a fuss about Gao Wenyan's marriage, pretended to jump into the sea to commit suicide, causing everyone to think that Gao Shanshan was dead. In order to retaliate for disappointing his predecessor Hong Guorong, Gao Hong cooperated with Lin Pinru and let Lin Pinru replace Gao Shanshan's identity and go close to Hong Shixian to complete the revenge plan.
In fact, Gao Shanshan did not die, she did not really end her life. When Lin Pinru was about to collapse the Hong family, Gao Shanshan returned, and she and Ellie colluded to help Ellie deal with Lin Pinru, causing Lin Pinru a lot of trouble.
The reason why Gao Shanshan targeted Lin Pinru was not because Lin Pinru occupied her identity, but because Lin Pinru was her love enemy.
Gao Shanshan's love for Gao Wenyan went deep into the bone marrow and enchanted her. She desperately loves Gao Wenyan, even if Gao Wenyan told her many times that she has always treated her as a sister, there is only affection and no love for her, Gao Hong has also persuaded Gao Shanshan many times, but Gao Shanshan is obsessed and hysterical, after finding out that Gao Wenyan likes Lin Pinru, she went crazy against Lin Pinru, and even conspired with Ellie, designed to frame Lin Pinru, and in the end, in order to achieve the purpose of becoming Gao Wenyan's wife, she actually took her life as a weight in exchange for her marriage with Gao Wenyan. Became Gao Wenyan's wife.
However, although she became Gao Wenyan's wife as she wished, but the twisted melon was not sweet, Gao Wenyan still did not love her, and this marriage not only made Gao Wenyan feel pain, but also made her feel pain.
Moreover, she lost herself for this marriage, and did a lot of wrong things at the instigation of Ellie, which disappointed her mother Gao Hong, who had always loved her, and hurt Lin Pinru and Gao Wenyan even more, leaving her alone at home, almost rebelling.
After the incident, Gao Shanshan thoroughly understood and agreed to divorce Gao Wenyan, let Gao Wenyan be free, and complete Gao Wenyan and Lin Pinru.
I remember Zhou Guoping once said: When we like a person who doesn't like ourselves, we are actually looking for abuse, because we can't get that good feeling. But we like to go to abuse, and the reason is that we idealize each other.
Through Gao Shanshan's story, "The Temptation to Go Home" tells women a truth, a twisted melon, really not sweet, you have to marry a person who doesn't like you, in fact, you are looking for abuse, pit people and pit yourself.
01. Behind Gao Shanshan's wayward behavior, it is inseparable from Gao Hong's excessive pampering of her daughter;
The reason why Gao Shanshan will develop a wayward and arrogant character is directly related to her mother Gao Hong. For this daughter, Gao Hong loves it in her bones and responds to her needs.
In fact, Gao Hong's behavior is understandable, after all, it is not easy for her to be a mother.
Originally, Gao Hong and Hong Guorong fell in love, but they were opposed by their father, who believed that Hong Guorong was not worthy of Gao Hong. Gao Hong is young and vigorous, does not listen to his father's words, has always loved Hong Guorong, and has a daughter Min Min with him.
However, the good times did not last long, Hong Guorong failed Gao Hong, not only left Gao Hong, but also took Gao Hong's daughter Min Min, and what is even more excessive is that he has been deceiving Gao Hong, making Gao Hong think that his daughter Min Min has died prematurely.
Grieving the loss of his beloved daughter, Gao Hong suffered a huge blow and hated Hong Guorong to the bone. Later, she adopted Gao Wenyan, married someone, and gave birth to Gao Shanshan. That is to say, Gao Shanshan is the only flesh and bone that Gao Hong thinks she is still alive, and naturally regards it as a treasure.
When Gao Shanshan was messing around and had to marry Gao Wenyan, Gao Hongming knew that Gao Wenyan did not have Gao Shanshan in his heart, but still forced Gao Wenyan to break up with his girlfriend and marry Gao Shanshan on the grounds of breaking off the relationship.
Gao Shanshan dares to act recklessly, and her mother Gao Hong's doting and responsiveness to her needs is a big confidence for her. She took Advantage of Gao Hong's favor and knew that Gao Hong was not willing to lose her daughter, so she used her own life as a weight to blackmail Gao Hong, so that Gao Hong had to force Gao Wenyan to obey for her safety.
There is nothing wrong with loving her children, but you can't be too pampered, and you can't follow her in everything, otherwise, she will have no fear, do things completely only consider her own ideas, do not care about the feelings of relatives, and let relatives fall into a dilemma.
02. On the one hand is Gao Hong, the adoptive mother who has great kindness to herself, and on the other hand, her lover, Gao Wenyan is tortured by Gao Shanshan;
Gao Shanshan forced Gao Wenyan to marry, not only suffering herself, but also suffering Gao Wenyan.
In the face of The unreasonable, obsessively trying to marry Gao Shanshan, Gao Wenyan felt very powerless. On the one hand, he knew very well that he only had brother and sister feelings for Gao Shanshan, no love for men and women, and it was impossible to treat her as a wife, to love her, to marry Gao Shanshan, not only forced himself, but also wronged Gao Shanshan. On the other hand, the adoptive mother Gao Hong has kindness to herself, adopted herself, and raised herself, this kindness he must repay, he also cares about the mother-son relationship with Gao Hong, and Gao Shanshan's position in Gao Hong's heart, Gao Wenyan is very clear, not willing to hurt Gao Shanshan, even more unwilling to hurt Gao Hong.
In order to marry Gao Wenyan, Gao Shanshan broke up Gao Wenyan's first relationship, and then embarrassed Gao Wenyan's sweetheart Lin Pinru, forced Gao Wenyan to marry her, and used her own life as a weight to blackmail Gao Wenyan, so that both of them were very miserable.
In the end, Gao Wenyan couldn't bear it anymore and made plans to go away with Lin Pinru. Fortunately, in the end, Gao Shanshan finally woke up and decided to let go, and he also got a good ending.
03. A twisted melon is not only not sweet, but it will also completely make your relationship worse.
As the sentence in "To the Youth We Will Eventually Pass Away": "A lifetime is so long, a day does not reach the end, you do not know a day, who can accompany you to the end, sometimes meet a person, think it is him, in fact, he is just a passer-by in your life." Maybe there's no end at all, maybe your end point has disappeared at some point in the past.
True love is never unrequited love, but two loves. Only when two people truly love each other, have the same goal in life, are willing to share hardships and hardships, and grow old with white heads, can they truly exert the effect of husband and wife working together, 1+1>2.
If you love someone, be bold and confess, don't hide it, otherwise, how do you know his mind? Even if you are rejected, there is nothing to be sad about, even if you know his intentions, you can put it down in time to find your happiness.
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