In the TV series "The Temptation to Go Home", Lin Pinru can turn the tables against the wind, replace Gao Shanshan's identity, go to Hong Shixian and Ellie to settle accounts, and seek justice for himself, which is inseparable from the help of two people, that is, Gao Wenyan and Gao Hong.
Lin Pinru fell into the sea, Gao Wenyan was looking for Gao Shanshan, who chose to take his own life due to the emotional collapse of his wife, and happened to meet Lin Pinru, rescued him, and sent him to the hospital where his friend was.
Lin Pinru's identity is unknown, Gao Wenyan's friends refuse to treat him, gao Wenyan repeatedly pleaded, only to save Lin Pinru.
Gao Wenyan is Gao Hong's adopted son, and it was with his help that Lin Pinru met Gao Hong. Learning of What happened to Lin Pinru, Gao Hong decided to avenge him.
The reason why Gao Hong wanted to help Lin Pinru deal with the Hong Shixian family was not only because he sympathized with Lin Pinru, but also because he had a deep hatred with Hong Shixian's father, Hong Guorong. Destroying the Hong family and taking revenge on Hong Guorong is her goal, and she helps Lin Pinru, but also helps herself.
Gao Hong was originally a rich woman, and when she was young, she and Hong Guorong were a pair of lovers, and the two were happy with each other and loved very deeply. However, Gao Hong's father opposed this family affair, believing that Hong Guorong was not worthy of his daughter.
Gao Hong was stubborn and refused to break up, but in the end, the two people also fell out.
In Gao Hong's view, Hong Guorong not only failed himself and married someone else, but also killed their daughter Min Min, stole her father's property, and caused her father to die of depression.
However, Lin Pinru found that Min Min did not die and was raised by Hong Guorong in the name of her niece, it was Hong Baolian, although she had a low intellect, like a child, but she grew up.
Although Hong Guorong raised Min Min, he was still unqualified as a husband and father, and he was not a good man.
01. In terms of being a father, he failed to educate his son Hong Shixian well, and he was sorry for his daughter Min Min;
It is true that he loves Min Min very much and raises Min Min, but he deprives Min Min of enjoying the care of his biological mother.
Min Min had always thought that she did not know that she was not Hong Guorong's niece, that her uncle who had been shouting for more than thirty years was actually her biological father, and that her mother was still alive, that is, Gao Hong. This is unfair to Min Min.
No matter how good her uncle and aunt are, they can't replace the role that her parents should have, not to mention, her parents are still alive and love her, why did Hong Guorong deprive Min Min of the right to enjoy the love of her parents by her own ideas?
In addition, Hong Guorong's son Hong Shixian is a playboy, which is inseparable from Hong Guorong's absence of his son's education.
As the only son of the Hong family and the heir of Xufeng Construction, what did Hong Shixian do? In addition to being a troublemaker, he did not take marriage seriously, married three times, divorced twice, successively failed Ellie and Lin Pinru, and harmed them, and did not look like a successor at all.
In fact, with Hong Shixian's style, there is no need for Gao Hong and Lin Pinru to retaliate against them, and Xufeng Construction will collapse sooner or later.
The reason why Hong Shixian became a playboy is not only because of the doting of his mother Bai Feng, but also because his father Hong Guorong did not fulfill his responsibilities, did not discipline his son well, and did not cultivate him well.
If you can't raise a godfather, your parents will work hard again, and there is a golden mountain and silver mountain in the family, which is not as good as the loser.
02. In terms of personal feelings, he is also unqualified.
For his wife Bai Feng, Hong Guorong is tolerant of everything, although he does not look up to Bai Feng's unreasonableness, bullying his daughter-in-law, gambling well, and educating his son badly, but as long as Bai Feng is messing around, he will feel a headache, and he will not care, so that Bai Feng will become more and more arrogant.
In the matter of Pauline, he deceived Bai Feng, concealed the fact that Pauline was his own daughter, and let Bai Feng raise her, he lied about this lie, and he was sorry for his wife.
Although in the end, Hong Guorong reconciled with Gao Hong, this cannot deny the fact that he is a scumbag. He owed Gao Hong an explanation for the original matter, if he had not said goodbye, deceived Gao Hong Minmin that he was dead, and let Gao Hong suffer from the pain of bereavement, Gao Hong would not have hated him so much.
In the end, Hong Guorong also paid the price, experienced a bankruptcy crisis, and lost his son Hong Shixian. At this point, he regretted it too late.
03. Be a person, don't be too selfish, always self-righteous, and don't care about the feelings of others.
I think of a quote from the book I'm Divorced: "We really don't want to see young men 'do' too much and not take the people around them seriously." In the jianghu, it is inevitable that people will suffer involuntarily, but if they are not enough in judgment and concentration, it is easy to be doomed. ”
No matter what kind of hardships you have, no matter how difficult it is to work hard, it is not a reason for you to ignore the family, miss the role of husband and father, nor is it a reason for you to deceive your wife and children. If the family wants to prosper, it must educate its children and grandchildren, otherwise it can only prosper for one generation. Husbands and wives are originally the same forest birds, and they should be in the same boat to share the ups and downs of life.
If a man is not qualified for the role of husband and father, no matter how well he works hard, he is not qualified.
When you are old, nostalgic for family affection and eager to be cared for by your spouse and children, your children and spouses do not have much affection for you, and at that time, if you regret it, it will be too late to regret it.
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