swindler? angel! 73 years old neighbor grandpa took care of the 19-year-old pocket girl for 7 years...

The family of Xiao Pan, a 19-year-old Loudi girl, has some special characteristics, her father died four years ago, her mother suffered from uterine fibroids, her brother had congenital intellectual disabilities, and her sister suffered from rheumatic heart disease... She herself suffers from osteogenesis imperfecta, and seven years ago her legs became X-shaped and she was unable to walk.

After the diagnosis, Xiao Pan underwent 9 surgeries in 6 years. After the operation, she can walk normally, but her height is fixed at about 1 meter 2.

In this difficult 7 years, the companion who did not abandon her was xiao Zunwei, the neighbor's grandfather.

Limited by physical reasons, Xiao Pan understood early on that reading was his only way out. In this year's college entrance examination, she was admitted to Hunan University of Science and Technology with a score of 560 points, becoming a freshman in the School of Law and Public Administration.

Xiao Zunwei also followed Xiao Pan to the university and continued to accompany him. Asked how he could last seven years to care for an unrelated child from a neighbor's family, Mr. Xiao, 73, said: "I know she's not my relative, and I don't have that obligation." But since you helped, you must help to the end, and giving up halfway is to harm this child. ”

(Xiao Zunwei and Xiao Pan in the hospital)

He did not ask Xiao to return the favor in the future, but only hoped to improve her future life, "now that she is admitted to college, it is the greatest hope."

6 years, 9 surgeries

Xiao Pan first found out that something was wrong with his leg in elementary school.

At first, she was just a little shorter than her peers. In the fifth or sixth grade, she found herself walking with pain in her bones and her two feet limping unsteadily.

At that time, Dad was busy at work, Mom was working at home, and no one came to pick her up from school. There were always children on the road who laughed at her, "How can she be so short, how can she walk like this?"

Gradually, her legs became more and more untenable. Dad took her to Changsha to see a doctor, but did not find out the specific cause, only knew that "it may be rickets."

(Seven years ago, Xiao Pan's legs gradually became X-shaped.)

In 2014, xiao Pan was in the first year of junior high school and could hardly walk. One day, the teachers and students left the school to participate in the activity, and the teacher left Xiao Pan, who had limited mobility, in the school guard room and asked her family to come and pick her up. But at that time, Xiao Pan's father was almost paralyzed due to illness, and xiao Pan's mother sought medical treatment in Wuhan together, and they could only call and entrust their neighbor Xiao Zunwei to help.

Xiao Zunwei still remembers the scene when he arrived at the school. Xiao Pan sat alone in a chair, covering his mouth, tears falling in large drops, and his school bag fell to the side, "Anyone who sees that situation is not happy."

Xiao Zunwei and Xiao Pan live together in Damu Village, Qixing Town, Lianyuan City, and the two families are not far apart. He used to watch Xiao Pan sitting alone in the doorway of the house, "The little one, strange and pitiful, can't move."

(Xiao Zunwei and Xiao Pan in their hometown)

That Spring Festival, Xiao Zunwei found that this cute neighbor child could no longer go out to visit the New Year. Xiao Zunwei decided to take her to Changsha to see, "If the hospital says it can be cured, then I will do nothing, I will help her raise funds to cure this disease."

Xiao Zunwei used to make a living mainly by buying and selling Chinese medicinal materials, and he was out all year round. He is enthusiastic and knowledgeable, and the people in the village love to ask him for help when they have things.

After several hospitals, the grandchildren met professors Zhu Fuping and Lu Min at the Hunan Provincial Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine. Professor Zhu Fuping said that when she saw Xiao Pan, she was unable to walk, and was diagnosed with osteogenesis by X-ray and required multiple surgeries for treatment.

(Xiao Pan is doing rehabilitation)

Xiao Pan hardly felt the nervousness of using money, thanks to Xiao Zunwei's fundraising for him day after day. After the diagnosis, because there was no savings at home, they found the media and a number of charitable foundations in Changsha, and scraped together more than half a million yuan for the operation.

In July 2015, Xiao Pan underwent his first surgery.

After the operation, she could not sit still, but could only lie flat, her legs were erected by a steel frame, and she was placed straight on the bed, and two people needed to carry her every time she got out of bed.

(Photo of Xiao Pan after his first surgery)

For Xiao Pan, the most difficult thing is the endless pain after waking up from the anesthesia, "I haven't slept for two or three months." Because she was afraid of dependence on painkillers, she could only endure the pain of her whole body. It didn't take long for her to have eczema on her body again, but because her legs were full of wounds, she couldn't tickle them, "I felt more pain than pain."

Xiao Zunwei could only keep comforting her on the side, asking her to insist on it a little longer: "Your legs have become straight, and after this time it will be fine." ”

(Xiao Zunwei and Xiao Pan)

In 6 years, Xiao Pan underwent 9 surgeries to restore her normal walking ability, and she also lost many opportunities to reunite with her family, leaving some regrets.

The day of his father's death was on the eve of Xiao Pan's fifth surgery.

That night, Xiao Zunwei was on the phone in the corridor, Xiao Pan heard a sentence "There is an accident at home", felt bad, and cried while asking if there was an accident with his father.

Xiao Zunwei said that if something really happened, he would definitely take her home. She believed it and stayed in the hospital to undergo the operation with peace of mind.

A month later, Xiao Pan was discharged from the hospital. When the car drove up a steep slope not far from home, Xiao Zunwei reached out and hugged Xiao Pan and told her the news that her father had died. Xiao Pan scolded, "Liar." ”

7 years of companionship

Because it required multiple surgeries and a long period of rehabilitation, Xiao Pan took a year off from school after finishing the first year of junior high school.

Originally, Xiao Pan was always in the top three in elementary school, but in the first exam of junior high school, she fell to thirty or forty. During her suspension, she repeatedly reviewed the contents of the first year of junior high school. Back at school a year later, she was at the top again.

Xiao Pan likes to learn. On the one hand, the good grades she gets after hard work will motivate her to go further; on the other hand, she feels that "only in school, I am a normal person."

(Xiao Pan's wall is plastered with her awards)

Just after returning from her first surgery, her tripod was on a steel frame and she could not walk. At that time, Xiao Pan's father was paralyzed in bed, and his mother could not ride a bicycle. Since the second year of junior high school, Xiao Zunwei has transported her to and from school and delivered meals every day until she is admitted to college.

Because he could not take the physical education test, Xiao Pan's total score in the middle school entrance examination was 100 points less, and he was still five or six points away from the score line of Lianyuan High School. Xiao Zunwei went to the Education Bureau and Lianyuan High School to reflect on her special situation, and finally Xiao Pan was able to enroll in the special recruitment.

Lianyuan High School is dozens of kilometers away from home, and they rent a room outside the school for 3,000 yuan a year. Every day at 6 o'clock, Xiao Zunwei took Xiao Pan on a motorcycle to school, and then picked her up at 10 p.m. to take her home.

(Xiao Pan's middle school)

Every day at about 7:20, Xiao Zunwei will send breakfast to Xiao Pan, lunch at 11:30 a.m., and dinner at 5:30 p.m. I spent money to buy vegetables and cook, rain or shine for three years.

Biology teacher Tan Wencai often teaches the last class in the morning, and can always see Xiao Zunwei waiting outside the window before class has finished. At first, she thought he was Xiao Pan's grandfather, and was very surprised when she learned that Xiao Zunwei was Xiao Pan's neighbor.

Because of his small stature, Xiao Pan could not reach the desk when he sat on a chair. "Grandpa" went to Lianyuan's market to buy a smaller chair, removed the backrest, and tied the four corners to the chair to make a special high chair.

When he was a freshman in high school, Xiao Pan could only sit in a wheelchair all day after surgery, and he couldn't wear pants, so he took a blanket around his lower body. It is okay to sit and study on weekdays, but it is inconvenient to go to the toilet. Xiao Zunwei rushed to the school every time when the recess exercises began at 10 o'clock in the morning, pushed Xiao Pan to a corner in the door of the women's toilet, put the urinal on the wheelchair, and carried her up. When Xiao Pan finished going to the toilet, he took the urinal to the men's toilet to wash it.

(The house Xiao Pan rented when he was in high school)

At the age of seventy, Xiao Zunwei was not always physically tough.

When Xiao Pan was in his sophomore year of high school, he had a chest water. Every morning after two bottles of liquid, he went back to the rental house to give Xiao Pan a meal and sent it, and then went to infuse two bottles of liquid in the afternoon. In order not to disturb Xiao Pan's study, Xiao Zunwei waited until the late stage of treatment to tell her. He remembers xiao pan's red eyes at that time, "She said let me go to the infusion first and eat in the canteen myself." But Xiao Zunwei was worried that she would have difficulty going up and down the stairs, so he insisted on delivering food, "Anyway, it is the same after losing twice."

"Grandpa just played the role of an angel and changed my life." Xiao Pan understood that this unrelated old man was willing to help himself, on the one hand, he felt that he was "pitiful", on the other hand, his serious study also gave his grandfather motivation. Occasionally, when the test results were bad, he was more upset than himself, and she was worried that grandpa would be disappointed in her.

(Xiao Zunwei)

What impressed the class teacher, Mr. Zeng, was that Xiao Pan never deserted in class, continued to read books after class, and almost never didzed on the table like other students.

Because of her health, she understood that she could not engage in manual labor in the future, only the way to read a good book. Xiao Pan admits that if she is healthy, she will not necessarily study as hard as she is now.

"Hope" wants to grow up

Although he was admitted to college, Xiao Pan was a little distressed that he was still treated as a child. Grandpa and Mom never let her hang out alone with friends. As long as she goes out with her friends, Xiao Zunwei must insist on following her.

This summer, she told her mother that she was "playing at a friend's house" and then went to the county town on a motorcycle with her friend. This was the first time she had grown up to "go out alone" and arrived home before dinner without being discovered by her mother.

She always aspired to be independent. She knows that if one day grandpa is away, she will not adapt, but she also wants to one day truly "grow up".

(Xiao Pan also longs for independence)

On September 16, Xiao Zunwei and Xiao Pan reported to Hunan University of Science and Technology together. The university arranged a separate eight-person dormitory, located on the first floor, with two bunk beds in two compartments, bookcases, tables, and plenty of room for the washing machine and other appliances they brought.

Originally, Xiao Zunwei planned to continue to cook some "nutritious" meals for Xiao Pan at the university, but when he learned that the school dormitory could not meet the conditions for cooking, he did not bring the refrigerator. However, the school meal only costs 2 cents 5 yuan, and the cost is not much.

(Xiao Pan and Xiao Zunwei eat in the canteen)

Someone will always ask Xiao Zunwei why he would accompany a girl who has no family relationship to treat her illness and study for seven years. Xiao Zunwei's family has been out of town, and at first they expressed understanding of his approach, but as time has passed, they no longer support it.

After Xiao Pan's first surgery, Xiao Zunwei struggled with whether to continue to help, but he was reluctant to give Xiao Pan hope and give up on her.

"I know she's not my loved one, and I don't have that obligation. But if I don't help her cure her illness, I can't live in my conscience. Since you have helped, you must help to the end, and giving up halfway is to harm this child. ”

(Xiao Zunwei accompanied Xiao Pan to practice)

In the seven years, what he was most pleased about was that Xiao Pan was well-behaved and sensible, studied seriously, and never had to worry about him. He didn't care what he had gained in the past seven years, he was preoccupied with how to improve Xiao Pan's future life. Now that Xiao Pan has gotten back on his feet and been admitted to a good university, for him, "everything he did was worth it."

When he was a child, Xiao Pan also had a desire to become a doctor or translator. Now, she just wants to continue graduate school after graduation and find a "job that can sit in the office" in the future. In the future, she hopes that the family and the neighbor's grandfather will be healthy and healthy, and she will have the opportunity to take them on a trip.

And Xiao Zunwei does not have much planning for the future, only hoping to accompany Xiao Pan until the day when she can really live independently.

Director: Yang Shuhuai | Photo: Zhang Jiayu, Yang Shuhuai

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