The difference between people is always very large.
Some people from beginning to end, never easily blackmail anyone, even if there are contradictions with each other, even if they do not like, even if there will be no contact in the future, they will still be relatively calm, and there will be no excessive behavior.
Contrary to such people, there are always some people who will pull all kinds of blackouts if they don't agree.
For people who are not so important, it is easy to block the contact information of the other party, and look like they do not want to have any contact.
Even if you like it more, and the person you are in love with, you will always blacken each other from time to time, and you can't hold your breath at all.
Every time there is a little emotion, it will quickly pull black, when the gas is gone, even if you promise that the other party will not do this again in the future, it will not be able to do it at all, and the next time it will still be ignored.
Especially like to block others, but also often repeatedly block a person, many people may not understand such behavior, and such a person, in fact, there is nothing difficult to understand.
More emotional, not controlled.
A more sensible person, even if she is more angry, she is often able to control her behavior.
She never does something that will hurt anyone because of a momentary emotion, which will affect things in the future.
But whenever she still needs to contact a person, there will be some intersection, she will not easily delete, will not easily block, only when she feels that there is indeed no longer any contact between them, she will go to block a person.
And when a person is not so rational and is always easily controlled by her own emotions, she is not so wise.
Even if she knows very well that it is not good for her to blackmail the other party, even if she understands very well that the person is the person she likes very much, the blackmail will make each other embarrassed, and at the moment of emotion, she still can't calm down, she will only be angry.
For her, when she was more emotional, she couldn't care about anything else, she only knew that at that moment, she really didn't want to see the other person at all, even if she just saw the other person in her address book, she couldn't tolerate it.
Over the years, she was always prone to act impulsively, no matter what happened later, she was impulsive first.
Although she often pays a high price because of her emotions, even so, she still goes her own way and has no way to restrain herself well.
Immature enough, the heart is more fragile.
Usually, when a person is more mature, she will be able to be more tolerant.
Be able to tolerate the opposite of what you want, and you can also tolerate the people around you who do not come according to their own wishes.
In the face of those things, her heart will always be stronger, she will be able to accept, and she will be able to handle it well. Never embarrassing each other on the surface, neither of them get off the stage.
And if a person is not so mature, the whole person is also very fragile, for many people, for some things, even if it is just a little thing, her mentality will directly collapse, become particularly depressed, become particularly mindful.
At that moment, even for a long time to come, I would always think about this thing, and there was no way to do something else, and then the more I thought about it, the more I felt that there was no way to just leave it like this, and the more I would become very extreme.
Then, thinking that she is not bothered by the eyes, she will directly start to block the pattern, blocking all the contact information of the other party.
In this way, let the other party not find themselves, so that they do not have to face each other, give yourself some time, to slowly restore their calm, so that they can digest those things, no longer so unable to let go.
In life, she is always particularly easy to think straight, and a little thing in the eyes of others will become a big thing in her opinion.
Love and hate are clear, and it is simple to compare people.
Many people's emotions are relatively diluted, there will be no particularly strong love, and they will not hate anyone too much.
Most of the time, I am in a relatively calm state, able to face all the occurrences relatively calmly.
Not too indifferent, but after experiencing a lot of things, I understand it, live a more sober, and more intelligent.
Everyone wants to be able to achieve that state, but not everyone can have that understanding, and they can really see everything so clearly and not force it.
Compared with such people, there are still too many people, even if they are not young and have experienced many things, they are still relatively young.
Always put likes and dislikes on the mouth, always will love and hate all written on their faces, love will be willing to be very hard, all kinds of pay, but once not in love, obviously sad, provoked by the other party, you can change your face in an instant.
Her mood will always be externalized, and she will always make others aware of her attitude through her own words and deeds. It's like you're angry, sad, angry, and you don't care so much, you just block it first.
It seems that her mood will always seem to fluctuate, like her temper is not very good, in fact, she is just simpler than too many people, living more real, completely unwilling to hide herself, and do not know how to hide.
Like to black, it is reasonable to say that this is a person's own behavior, others are not good at saying anything.
However, if we can, we had better not always behave in this way.
Easily block colleagues, blacken friends, block people with connections, and need to contact later, which will be very troublesome.
Often blackout the person you love, which will make the other party very anxious, very affect the relationship between each other.
On this road of life, we can live according to the way we want, and we don't have to care too much about the eyes of others, but there are some behaviors that are not so good, and we should also recognize that we should make some changes.
Keep yourself, but also set yourself in a better direction.
That will make us a better person, and it will make us have better relationships and better love.
Text/Tan Meng
Pictures/network