People are destined to meet two people in this life, one is to amaze the time, and the other is to be gentle with the years. I have seen many people forward this sentence, these people may have encountered enough amazing time, people who are waiting for gentle years, and there are also people who have been gentle over the years, but feel that life lacks passion, silently waiting for amazing times! If you have met these two kinds of people in this life, then you must be satisfied, and the thousands of flavors of love can be summed up as nothing more than these two. You will secretly miss the person who stunned your time, just as one day you will get tired of the person who tenderly touched your years.
Short-lived love, beautiful lovers, heartwarming sexual encounters, occasional romantic encounters, too many characters in life can be classified as people who have stunned the time. They will give you a passionate, crazy and free experience, as if it only exists in the movie of a wonderful experience of excitement and romance, but no matter how obsessive they are at that time, how romantic, how vigorously you love, regardless of yourself, in the end it is just a passer-by in your life. Because people who have amazed the time will not stop around you, otherwise, they will not be called amazing.
But if you want to be gentle with the people of your years, it is really a marathon that combines wisdom and physical strength, and consumes youth and life, because they must stay by your side for a long time, so long that you are bored, so long that you want to shake off her hand one day to hold your hand, so long that you try your best to avoid her line of sight, but she still stays by your side without mercy, let you nag, let you complain, let you dislike, she is stubbornly believing, without her you will be wronged, without her around you, you will feel helpless when you are frustrated When you fail, no one can quietly stay by your side like her, paranoid to the point of almost inexplicably accompanying you until the gentle years of your tenderness!
In this world, some people can amaze your time, and they are only willing to amaze your time, but few people are willing to stay by your side, there may be only one person in your life, quietly guarding you without complaint, until you slowly soften your years, if you miss this person, I am afraid that you will not have it again in this life. In today's noisy times, who would be willing to be gentle with a person's years? That is not half a year, a year can wait, maybe five years, seven years, or even more than ten years of marathon love can be cultivated, not to mention, who will not doubt, jealous, I sacrificed my youth for this person, even if it is gentle his years, can I finally cultivate the right results? In reality, there are too many columns to prove that most people have learned how to love, how to bear, how to cherish, and become the mentor of his love in life, and after using their own scaly wounds to pull out all the thorns on their bodies, the other party turned around and made a beautiful wedding dress for the next stranger. People who have been gentle with the years, too bitter and tired, and the ending always seems to be so confusing, this may be a bad gamble.
People who amaze the time, they will also greet you on the surface, will accompany you to talk and laugh, will accompany you to play until you are tired, but they will not restrain you, will accompany you to enjoy crazy time, and give you enough pleasure and stimulation physically and mentally. And the people who have tendered your years, they will take care of you, sometimes they will accompany you crazy, but sometimes they will be angry and noisy with you, and will give you a little restraint, because they don't just want you to be happy, but more want to make you live a healthier life. Compared with those who just amaze you with time, they will quietly accompany you when you fail and despair, maybe you will lose your temper for no reason, unreasonable trouble, but only the gentle years of her can tolerate you, understand you, and comfort you!
Taiwanese female writer Zhu Tianxin's "Love in the Lotus Period in Early Summer" is to write the love ending of all men and women with one stroke, telling you that not all love stories are complete in the end, and only by seeing its cruelty can you know how to stay together. There is one of the most hurtful words in this book: "Honey, people will change." "Yes, the person who has a stunning time will eventually leave you after the passion, and will not leave you, only the person who has silently softened the years for you." If there is a person who stays by your side, the feelings will never change, but you don't know how to cherish, and finally said this to her, "Honey, wake up, people will change!" "As an excuse for abandonment, I can only say: this is your sadness, because you have never figured out who is the one who can soften your years!"
Thank you to those who have stopped in your life for a period of time and amazed you for a short time, but you must cherish it, sincerely wait for you, look forward to spending a lifetime with you, until you have softened your years, she is the irreplaceable person in your life. A glimpse is a wonderful encounter of life, the long stream of thin water is a kind of idyllic happiness, with a season of peach blossoms, for a lifetime of keeping, abandon a moment of amazement, for a lifetime of gentleness, love a person, you have to accompany him to see the long stream of thin water. The problem is actually very simple: may everyone in the world cherish it, the person in life who would rather be gentle for you for years!