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What kind of self are you
What kind of love will meet!
Last year, the sweet pet drama "The Next Stop is Happiness" starring Song Qian and Song Weilong exploded, and the female boss He Fanxing successfully harvested the intern Yuan Song, who was 12 years younger than herself, why can she still harvest sweet love at the age of 32?
In the eyes of most people, she is an older leftover woman, but she is full of yearning for love, and after getting drunk, she mentioned the topic of love to Yuan Song and said the sentence "Can you talk to me about love?"
Cute and independent, likable, even the domineering president launched an offensive against her.
In her eyes, she never felt that she was the older woman who was selected by the man, who had a successful career and did not need to choose between love and bread, which instead reduced some pressure and eventually harvested love.
Some people say that idol dramas are all deceitful, and sister-brother love is unreliable:
Ma Yili and the article, he is eight years younger than her, promised to love her for the rest of his life, but cheated during pregnancy, and the two eventually went to a broken end;
When Hong Xin and Zhang Danfeng met in Weiwei, the man was photographed by the media and was ambiguous with his assistant, and was speculated by everyone that the marriage was unhappy.....
But some lovers can break through the barriers and sweetly accompany each other:
Huo Siyan fell in love with Du Jiang, who was 5 years younger than himself, and was spoiled as a princess, envious of others.
Have you ever thought: the same is in love, why some people can easily harvest good love, some people's love road is difficult?
Yu Dan once said a very classic sentence:
What kind of self you are, what kind of love will meet!
Come to think of it, it is your personality that determines the life you live, including, of course, love.
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What kind of character are you,
Decide the life you live
There is a saying that we often hear, "Character determines destiny.". It is not difficult to find in life that even after experiencing the same thing, everyone's attitudes and decisions are very different:
The same is in the face of lost love, some girls cry a lot, travel to relax and scatter their hearts can get out of the pain, quickly into the next relationship;
And some girls lose love, on the surface it seems that it does not matter, but the heart is scarred, indulging in the past, afraid of love.
Or in marriage, when faced with the same pressure of child-rearing, some people can always guide their husbands to take care of their children, while others take care of everything and are crushed by the pressure.
In fact, it's all about the "character undertone".
Psychologist Carol Ryff believes that different people will show very different attitudes, behavior styles, and unique personality tones for the same thing, which is called "personality background".
Although personality is affected by innate physiological factors, more and more experiments have proved that a large part of the formation of a person's personality also depends on the growth process and environment of TA, and the original family plays the greatest role.
For example, He Fanxing, who won the "little milk dog", is a typical red representative, her original family is warm, there is a father and mother who prefer her, and a brother who has always guarded her.
Therefore, she can always give people a sense of affinity and steadfastness, and she believes that no matter what difficulties and dangers she encounters, there are people around her who can be trusted and relied upon. She is willing to open her heart to someone, let others enter her heart, and believe that others will respond warmly.
In reality, Huo Siyan, like He Fanxing, bravely pursues true love, and eventually meets du Jiang, who is also excellent.
Her personality is yellow, her heart is full of hope, like a sunflower, she has a positive attitude, and in the face of the 5-year-old age gap, she can still bravely pursue the happiness she wants.
In contrast, Hong Xin is a typical green personality, dependent and docile, not aggressive, but lacking a position, and even losing the ability to be kind to himself in the face of various pressures, constraints or sacrifices. Therefore, in the face of the ambiguity between her husband and assistant, she still did not dare to withdraw.
In addition to these background colors, there are blue colors that represent cold and quiet, gray that represents restraint and suppression. Different people have different personality backgrounds.
Some people may ask, my personality is like this, can I only let the character defect accompany my life?
In fact, no, psychologist Jung said that for ordinary people, the most important lesson in life is to learn to accept our imperfect selves, what we have to do is to know ourselves and accept ourselves.
The early growth experience determines the basic background of our personality, but which color to turn our lives into is something we can change as adults. Because it is not others who hold the brush of destiny, but yourself.
Eight authoritative psychologists have jointly developed the "Personality Background Test", which helps you evaluate your personality background from a psychological point of view and help you better understand yourself.
This assessment will be based on 6 basic attitudes such as dependence, criticism, and repression, from a total of 27 background colors such as blue, pastoral green, begonia red, etc., to evaluate the one that best suits you, to help you understand its potential impact and causes, and how to get rid of the influence of the background color, so that you can take fewer detours and have a more harmonious and beautiful life.
-Personality Base Color Test-
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Test Questions: 37 Questions 丨 Test Report: 7 pages
After the test is complete, the generated report is saved permanently
-What will you get? -
"Part of the following presentation report"
01丨 Generate your character background
02丨 Analyze the influence of personality background on you
03 丨 Analysis of the causes of the occurrence of the base color
04 丨 Give professional advice