Flowers are a representative of the endowed with emotions, but also a mood or a transmission of love, if each other is truly liked, girls will have telepathy with you. As the saying goes, "feelings have to pay, pay will have gains", people's feelings are produced in the payment. In today's life, girls are divided into two categories, one is romantic, they like boys to take the initiative to send flowers to themselves; the other is realistic, they will think in their hearts that sending flowers is too wasteful of money, it is better to use the money elsewhere to be real. In fact, in the face of this kind of woman's thoughts, it is also half pushed and half done, because when girls receive the flowers of their favorite boys, they will have a sense of joy in their hearts, which can be expressed from their expressions and eyes.
Why do girls like boys to send flowers to her?
Men must understand that women yearn for romance, love flowers, and look forward to the beloved man to send flowers to her. In offices with many young people, flower delivery is more and more popular, and girls are extremely sensitive to the flowers sent in, more or less will have some comparison, a little vanity. First than whether there are flowers received in the festival, and then than whose flowers are beautiful and whose luxury. Of course, some girls pay more attention to affection: the person I love has sent me flowers, even if there is only one, it is very satisfied. I received flowers of my own, and I didn't need to compare with others. People who are a little more subtle feel that sending flowers is a matter between the two of us, and do not want to exhibit in public, often ask each other out and give flowers to her in places where there are no acquaintances. In fact, the best way to send flowers is to send flowers in a free state, without paying attention to any special festivals or occasions. When I saw beautiful flowers shopping, I liked them very much, I was very happy, so I bought them for her and said, "This has to be given to you, I am very happy today." The man went to buy flowers, and did not feel embarrassed, a big man, walking down the street with a beautiful bouquet of flowers, very nice, very gentlemanly. Why do girls like boys to send flowers to her? Women yearn for romance, love flowers, flowers are fine, tender, beautiful, and women, let people feel that women are like flowers. How can it not be touched and satisfied to give her what belongs to her and let her feel this pampering?
Although flowers are waste, they have a military-like effect on women
Many people's first reaction is that women like romance. This statement is really debatable. At least in the current psychological research on women and men who are more romantic than whom, there is no evidence that women are superior to men in this regard, and there are people who say that men and women are similar, or that men are more romantic than women, in such views as whether they believe in love at first sight, whether to overcome all difficulties just to get true love.
On the contrary, women's love of flowers is likely to be motivated by a particularly pragmatic mentality. Psychologist Alan? Miller and Tetsu Kanazawa's book, "The Psychology of Evolution," says women like useless and expensive gifts like flowers and diamonds because they help them distinguish between what they are ideal for and what isn't.
It is precisely because diamonds and flowers are not only expensive, but also lack intrinsic value, so the two often partner, appear on the occasion of the promise, and more importantly, they are a perfect gift of love. In fact, no one, including men and women, is very interested in the diamonds and flowers themselves, neither like a car can be driven, nor like a house can be inhabited, in terms of practicality is almost useless. And it's this connotationless trait that conveys a message that women value and need: If a man is willing to buy such a crap for you, it is in some way indicating that he is definitely willing to invest resources in you. Although what the man gives to the lady is not practical, it is enough to convince the woman that when there is a need for practicality, there is no need to worry.
From another point of view, you can save money to buy money and use flowers to please the lady
Although a woman's romantic feelings may not be as strong as we think, it does not mean that women are completely indifferent to romance, and it also partly explains why women like flowers. Experiments by psychologists at the University of Southern Brittany in France show that flowers still have an unshakable place in impressing women's hearts.
The research team selected five handsome men to talk to more than 600 women in different locations. It turned out that men standing in front of the florist were more likely to get women's phone numbers and dating opportunities; This is followed by men in the vicinity of bakeries and malls; At the bottom of the line were men outside the station and shoe store. Researchers have analyzed that places where flowers bloom will make women feel more romantic.
In another survey, female subjects were assigned to watch a video of a man introducing themselves, with half of the participants watching a vase filled with flowers on the table in front of the man, while the other half watched a video without flowers as props. After watching, compared with the latter, more people in the former part of the subject expressed their favor for the man, willing to develop friendship, and even later when they were arranged to be alone with the boy, more of the female subjects in this group gave him their phone numbers according to the man's request.
The research team believes that flowers always represent certain emotions and moods in people, and they often convey emotions such as sympathy, regret, joy and love. Psychology expert Dr. Tom Buchanan says that flowers are associated with romance, and when women see flowers, thinking, speaking or acting begins to behave in a romantic way, their hearts become softer and more affectionate, and they are willing to accept men's love.
As for what flowers are given romantic feelings, that is a long time. In ancient Greece, people used to offer beautiful flowers as gifts to the gods. This wind spreads and spreads continuously. By the 18th century, Europeans were keen to write books on "flower language", and different flowers represented different emotions and allegories for specific occasions. Although the meaning of each flower in different books is not necessarily the same, their common role is to strengthen the emotional identity of the flower in people's hearts and become the embodiment of romance.
Why is it that the red rose is the most popular?
Speaking of romance, the flower that has to be mentioned is the rose. In ancient Greek mythology, rose-like flowers symbolized all the gods of love, beauty, pleasure and beauty, and in medieval Europe, the literati inkers chanted the rose and made the rose more the embodiment of love.
And from a scientific point of view, scholars have also given an explanation of why women are particularly fond of roses, and red roses. Scholars at Newcastle University in the United Kingdom designed experiments on women's color preferences, and found that although we generally prefer blue, women prefer red.
They believe that this may stem from the different divisions of labor between men and women in ancient times, and female figures mainly look for ripe yellow fruits and red edible leaves in the green plants, resulting in a high sensitivity and preference for this color. One survey also showed that the more feminine the temperament, the higher the proportion of women who prefer red.
Women like flowers because of the charm of the flowers themselves, second because of the current fashion trends, and third, because of the precipitation of history. Of course, not all women like flowers, and it is also a good choice for women who are married or emotionally stable to send practical gifts plus a flower she likes.