One writer said, "Let's see ourselves as a flower." Incense to the world. If the world cannot appreciate us, we must also open up quietly and solemnly, listen to the call of the land, and gaze at the world with affection..."
As a woman, no matter how old you are, you must be as beautiful as a flower, do not deliberately show beauty to anyone, but naturally attract the attention of the world.
But anyone who is willing to stop for you is fate, if someone stays for you, then smile and live up to his obsession with you.
It is said that women are like flowers, so you learn the character of flowers, enhance charm, and let people who love you love you more.
01
Like a rose, the fragrance carries "thorns".
In Persia, there is a beautiful legend. Whenever the roses are in full bloom, the nightingales begin to sing to express their love for the roses.
After a few days and nights, the nightingale was particularly tired and fell under the rose tree. Then there are rose petals that fall like a drizzle. Some of the petals fell on the nightingale, like a woman's tears of lovesickness.
We often say, "Bow down under the roses." ”
Men buy a lot of roses in order to please women; women hold a large bouquet of roses in order to become beautiful.
In real life, in order to love beauty, we always ignore the fact that roses have thorns. Only when a woman is angry can she really show itself.
There is a saying that goes: "Being a man is like a rose, you can only look at it from a distance, but you cannot play closely." ”
In any kind of feeling, distance produces beauty. The woman who has always retained the "thorn" makes people a little afraid, and therefore let her beauty be preserved, so that people who like her have always liked.
02
Like a lotus flower, it comes out of the mud without staining.
Zhou Dunyi wrote in "The Saying of Eilean": "Out of the mud without staining, Mao Qing lian without demon." ”
The lotus flower is the embodiment of cleanliness, beauty from within and outside. Even in the mud, it is still beautiful, or the mud makes the lotus flower cleaner.
Likes to dress up, it's a woman's nature. If you can be like a lotus, thick makeup is always appropriate, then you are really dressed up. Too thick, too charming, too light, and unable to set off their own temperament.
Women who are confident enough are plain-faced, and they don't dress themselves much. Usually interacting with people, smiling, it is particularly good-looking. As the saying goes, a smile hides the ugliness.
03
Like plum blossoms, Ling Han bloomed alone.
There is a poem as evidence: "Mei Susun snow is three points white, but the snow loses plum incense." ”
If there is no snow in winter, then this winter is lonely; if there is no plum in the snow, then the snow is lonely.
Beauty needs to complement each other, and it also needs to be compared. Otherwise, you won't find a way to continue to be beautiful.
In the cold wind, someone stepped on the snow to see a plum. Maybe even Mei herself didn't think that there would be such an encounter.
During the Song Dynasty, Donghai County had a rule: "Late at night, people can't go out and move around." ”
There is a reader who, because he is studying in the academy, forgets the time. I left the school in the early hours of the morning and hurried home.
The patrolling men arrested the readers and sent them to the Taishou. Taishou said, "How can punishing a person who reads a book be a political achievement?" Let it go. ”
Cold window hard reading for decades, in one fell swoop became famous in the world.
Women like plums are clearly testing themselves, surviving the darkest moments of life and ushering in the next spring.
04
Like peanut flowers, it grows downwards and nourishes the land.
There is a patriotic scholar Xu Dishan, who wrote in the article: "The most valuable thing about the peanut is that the fruit is buried in the ground, and you see that it grows low on the ground, and when it is ripe, you can't immediately distinguish whether it has fruit or not, and you must dig it up to know." ”
A good woman, who does not show off the books she has read, nor does she show off her achievements, but just silently takes root.
When a woman matures, she will give birth to a new life and make the world more vigorous. Just like peanut flowers, suck the sun and rain dew hard, and then bring the fertilizer into the roots, so that the ground under your feet is more and more fertile.
During the Western Han Dynasty, there was a woman named Heng Shaojun, who was born into a rich family, but insisted on marrying a poor scholar Bao Xuan.
In order not to reveal his nobility, Heng Shaojun put away his gorgeous clothes, put on coarse cloth clothes to see his in-laws and work with her husband.
Later, her husband Bao Xuan became the "Counselor" of the Han Dynasty.
The woman who can take root is Kenuchisuke, a hero like Mulan. No matter who it is, as long as you are with her, life is particularly solid and the vitality is particularly strong.
05
Like an orchid, in the valley, I know how to be lonely and self-congratulatory.
There is a sentence in the "Collection of Aphorisms": "The room has a clear smell of Zhilan, and the chest has the width of the city government and the heavens and the earth." ”
The true character of the orchid is not only the fragrance, but also the big pattern.
If you are looking for a particularly valuable orchid, you can't go to the flower market to find it, but go deep in the mountains to find it.
The truly precious orchid cannot be kept in captivity, it is untamed. Even if you nourish it with the most expensive air conditioner and put it in the best bedroom, it won't work.
Beauty, in the deep boudoir, is more attractive.
Perhaps, some orchids have not been discovered in their entire lives. But it never chafed, every year will bloom, beauty to show themselves, to those who look for it, to leave a beautiful legend, and a faint regret.
06
Like dandelions, they can make a home from all over the world and can also take root.
Dandelion's words are— unstoppable love.
How many women, because of love, accompany men to drift around; how many women, choose to marry far away, without complaint or regret.
If you don't feel sorry for each other, how can you love so intoxicated? Put your life on a wandering sailing ship.
The firmness of a woman, always amazing. As the ancients said: "A woman is weak, but a mother is strong." "Motherhood turns a woman into an eagle that can fly into the clouds and protect her own family.
07
Yang Erche Nam said: "Women are beautiful, it is better to live beautifully." ”
I hope that every woman will pick a seed, plant it in her heart, and silently nurture the beauty of life.
Perhaps, the seed is not real, but it is an unchanging pursuit, and whenever life is dark, it will give you strength, warmth and hope.
Even if life is very hard, we still have to try to bloom.
If you are fragrant, butterflies come.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.