Anchor | Jianning Text | Weiyang
Good to see your circle of friends
China Eastern AIRLINES MU5735 crashed. Ms. Zhou's classmates were on this flight. My classmate didn't originally take the flight, but he changed his visa and boarded the MU5735.
This classmate was the most handsome boy in the class, and it was also the same birthday as Ms. Zhou, but on the eve of his birthday, he left.
On the third day after the plane crash, it was their birthday, Ms. Zhou listened to the message to the classmates at night, saying: "Received the news that you changed your visa to the plane, my legs are soft, I really hope this is a fake news; looking through the chat records with you, I really regret that I have not asked you to meet, so it is delayed."
Today is the birthday of both of us, and I hope to wish each other a happy birthday as in previous years! I also hope that the circle of friends that you can see for three days is no longer three days, but when we miss you, we can look at your past and look forward to your reply on WeChat. Our class grass classmates. ”
Reading this message, I can't help but cry, and a listener said: "The circle of friends suddenly does not want to set up three days to be visible, afraid that if there is an accident in the future, when my parents and children think of me, they can't see my circle of friends, how sad!" After all, the circle of friends is the only flowing diary for me to record my life and mood. ”
Less than 3 hours after this message was sent, 14,000 listeners liked and supported it at night.
They have canceled the circle of friends setting for three days to see.
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The circle of friends can be seen for three days, which seems to be just a gray horizontal line.
But what separates it is our distance from the people around us, and even from the world.
So, if you can, don't set the circle of friends for three days to be visible.
Don't block out people who really love you
The circle of friends is set up for three days to be visible, blocking actually those who really want to understand you and want to care about you.
Because only people who care about and care about you will open your circle of friends, and they want to get some of your life and your mood from your dynamics.
When there is very little small talk, the dynamics in your circle of friends are the only way for them to understand and care about you.
But if you set up three days of visibility, the horizontal line that you think doesn't care about becomes a wall separating you from them.
The people inside the wall don't want to go out, and the people outside the wall can't get in.
A few days ago, there was such a news on the Internet. When a girl in Heze, Shandong Province, fell asleep at three o'clock in the morning, she accidentally touched her mobile phone and mistakenly dialed her mother's phone.
Mom mistakenly thought something was wrong with her and was overwhelmed with anxiety.
When the girl woke up in the morning, she found that her mother called every 5 minutes, sent her 38 messages and 22 phone voice calls in 3 hours.
Mom asked anxiously on WeChat: "Mommy's baby, what's wrong with you?" Can you reply with a word? ”
The girl said that her mobile phone was in silent mode, and when she woke up, she immediately called her mother, who cried and said, "It's all right."
A netizen left a message saying: "Touched by the great mother's love." When I saw this news, I quietly canceled the only three days of visibility set by the circle of friends for parents.
Not around our parents, the way our parents understand us seems to be only the circle of friends, they can see our dynamics, their hearts are solid. Keeping my parents' hearts steady is my greatest filial piety! ”
Someone said:
"The circle of friends can be seen for three days, it's like you're at home, but you put a lock on the door."
In the places you can't see, in fact, from time to time, someone clicks on your circle of friends.
They may be your parents, they may be your lovers, they may be your relatives and friends.
But seeing that you set it visible for three days, they could only silently withdraw from it.
You shield yourself from the chaos and noise of the outside world, and you also shield the people who love you from caring about you.
Why should you set up three days of visibility
I wonder, why do so many people like to set the circle of friends to be visible for three days?
Some people say that because of the content that can be seen in three days, there are too many things that do not want to be seen by others, and can only be tasted by one person.
Some people also say that it is because they do not want to vent their emotions at the moment, which affects the people who brush the circle of friends.
In the adult world, even sending a circle of friends dynamics must take into account the mood of others.
In the variety show "Friends Please Listen Well", Yi Qianxi also said this problem.
He said that after the three-day visible function was launched, he set it up as soon as possible.
After setting the permissions, he will also pay special attention to the content of the circle of friends updates.
Usually, it is rarely sent, and if it is sent, it is only sent some scenic photos.
I don't intentionally express my emotions in the circle of friends, especially some bad emotions.
I have a friend next to me who is the same way.
When she used to be single, she would post something in the circle of friends almost every day.
What delicious food was eaten today, where to play, and how mood it was.
Sometimes I even hear a good song and I share it.
But since getting married, she's updating her updates less and less.
One day when she was idle, she clicked into her circle of friends, and only one word was left to remind:
"Friends only show the circle of friends for the last three days.".
In a private chat, asked why, she said:
"Once, because I was in a bad mood, I sent a very sad message in the middle of the night, and I was seen by my family, and then the next day I received a long enlightenment.
Another time, because four or five groups of photos of children were sent out in a row in a day, someone left a message saying that it was a show of dolls and show off wealth.
In fact, I don't mean it that way, I just want to share or vent.
But since it has caused a misunderstanding, it is better not to disclose it. ”
In the circle of friends of adults, even the expression of emotions has gradually lost its freedom.
Many people are more and more afraid to send a circle of friends at will, and they think twice before sending it, and it can be seen immediately after sending it out for three days.
After a short vent, the next second sober self will hate the previous second of temperament.
But there is a passage that says:
"People who used to think that the circle of friends could be seen for three days were cool, but later they figured it out, and the people who dared to open the circle of friends in a generous way were actually cooler."
Because they dare to face and face themselves, but also accept themselves.
They don't care what happened in the past, they just live in the present and look into the future.
They also don't care what others think, because the people who love me naturally understand me, and I don't care about the people who don't love me!
Let the people who care about you see your circle of friends
I know there is a question asking:
"Would you set the circle of friends to be visible for three days?" Why? ”
One answer said:
"I won't, because people who want to know you will take a look." People who like you will finish it seriously.
People who don't care about you won't click on at all. So why block the way for those who care about you to understand you. And why be sentimental for those who have nothing to do with you? ”
Deeply.
Instead of being visible for three days and closing your life off, it is better to go out and share the beauty.
If you can, I hope that everyone can record their lives more, update the circle of friends, and don't let your circle of friends be cold and leave a blank.
Also don't set three days to be visible and hide yourself.
Because you never know how lost and regretful the person who wants to care about you but is blocked by the three-day visible prompt is.
Night listening believes that even the slightest emotion is worth seeing and cherishing. May we all learn to reconcile with ourselves and with life. You can not live in the circle of friends, but you do not have to give up the circle of friends.
Light up at the end of the article to watch, with friends to encourage.
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