Author: Xuan Xiaolei
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Two people living in different fields, if they like each other, it is not easy to be together, because they will have low self-esteem, feel that they cannot integrate into each other's lives, do not understand each other's profession and work, and have no common topic or direction.
It is also not easy to understand and understand each other's life rules and habitual ways, just like Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue in "The Rest of Your Life, Please Give More Advice".
Originally, I liked each other, but I gradually found that the other person's work, study and life areas were completely different from their own, and it was difficult to integrate, and it was not something that could be learned overnight.
For example, Lin Zhixue was originally looking forward to the night of staying at Gu Wei's house, but found that he was busy with work and wanted to help, but found that they were all medical professional terms, and they couldn't understand it at all, and it was estimated that many words were not recognized.
I wanted to wait until he was done, but found that he was too busy to have time, and he could be called by the hospital for surgery or emergency treatment at any time.
This is the doctor's living state and work form, and she seems to be completely unable to intervene in the school, so she feels very lost.
At that time, she must have felt that she was very useless and could not help him in any way, and at the same time, she would feel that maybe Gao Huan was more suitable for him.
Because they are classmates, colleagues, know the roots, door to door, professional, can help each other.
At the beginning of the Lin School, he was inferior and lost, and it was Gu Wei's turn again, because the love enemy had returned.
Lin Zhixue's brother, probably her first love, or the former White Moonlight, grew up together, and the two parents were also friends.
Because of the master brother, she chose the music major, the master brother plays the violin, she plays the cello, it seems that it is also a variety of matches, the appearance of the piano and the sound.
Gu Wei listened to Lin Zhi's school talk about her brother, very excited and very happy, she felt that she was happier with her brother and brother, so she also felt inferior and retreated.
In addition to the difference in this general direction, the two people also have many differences in living habits, such as Gu Wei has a cleaning habit, because he is a gastroenterologist, so he also has many requirements for diet, such as less oil and less salt, and a light diet.
And young people like Lin Zhixue are just casual and casual age groups, and they definitely like heavy taste things, such as spicy and hot pot.
It sounds like all kinds of obstacles, all kinds of inappropriate, but really like, any real problem can be solved and run-in.
They will be close to each other, and if they can't fit in, they will respect each other. The same is true of living habits, giving in to each other and changing each other, it is really not okay, and it is no problem to call each other.
As long as you really like it, these differences are not a problem, you can tolerate, you can slowly understand and get close to each other, after all, you can't say that only "peers" are suitable for love together.
For example, I go out with my husband, often can't eat together, because of gastrointestinal problems, I dare not eat spicy, but he is not spicy and unhappy, so often go to the street together, but each into the restaurant, eat their own.
It's easier to eat at home, prepare some spicy dishes, some that are not spicy, and you can do it.
As long as you respect each other's habits and try your best to satisfy each other's habits, there will be no big conflict, but changing your habits for the sake of each other is a manifestation of love.
For example, Gu Wei, who began to like Lin Zhi school, found that her cleanliness in front of her was not serious, and she did not dislike it when she got tears and snot on her clothes.
At the same time, she likes to eat heavy flavors such as hot pot, and he will try to try it with her.
In fact, whether the lifestyle is healthy or not does not necessarily have to worry about what food to eat occasionally.
As long as this is "occasional" and not overnight or every day, as long as it is not a physical problem that needs to be avoided, there will be a variety of ways to maintain health problems at other times.
For example, in addition to paying attention to food, there is rest and sleep, Gu Wei, a gastroenterologist, although there are many provisions on dietary requirements, but he can't sleep regularly, because of his professional relationship, often stay up late, and even be called up in the middle of the night to work to save people, which is a common thing. Speaking of which, this is also a sign of unhealthiness.
Therefore, if you want to be healthy, you can also develop more ways together, such as running, such as going to the gym.
If you want someone you like to be healthy and develop good living habits, you can go for a run together. I can draw in feelings and train my physical strength.
A healthy and energetic couple will feel much better together, after all, the world is so big, they have to enjoy life together.
Go to more places together, experience more tastes of life together, and feel the beauty of life together.
The premise of these is to have a good body, which is why after liking a person, you will subconsciously care about the other person's health problems.
For example, Gu Wei's school for Lin, in addition to the professional habits of doctors, is more sincerely hoping that she will be healthier.
Even if you are not afraid that your lover's poor health will become a burden for yourself, you will hope that he will see the world with him healthily.
Only in this way can there be quality and momentum. While caring for each other, you must also take good care of your body, so that you have the ability and energy to protect and love the people you love.
It can be seen that the relationship between love and health is also complementary, and developing good living habits with lovers is the embodiment of love and the performance of being responsible for each other.