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01 Wang Xiaofei Weibo finally closed the big S!
When I saw the hot search, I only had one sigh: things are not human, and their feelings can never go back to the past.
In fact, as early as last May and June, when the marriage storm occurred, the big S Weibo had already closed Wang Xiaofei, but at that time Wang Xiaofei also sent a Weibo "Love all the family, my wife is the first", he also sweetly confessed big S, denying divorce.
Everyone also thinks that they can't get a divorce, after all, they are two children, and they are still so young, is it because of a little thing that they get divorced? As for? Besides, didn't you just celebrate your 10th anniversary in March? How it changes so fast.
At that time, everyone felt that the big S shouting Wang Xiaofei's divorce was just a crisis public relations, in order to divert everyone's attention.
But who expected them to eventually divorce, and the two of them have come to this point today.
Wang Xiaofei Weibo should have recently cancelled his attention to Big S, and last year, Big S Weibo canceled his attention to him, but he still followed her. Wang Xiaofei Weibo also changed his name, once changed his name to "Wang Shaofei" in November last year, some netizens interpreted that it was he who could finally no longer fly back and forth after his divorce, so it was Shaofei.
Nowadays, he not only took the big S on Weibo, but also changed his Weibo name from "Wang Shaofei" back to "Wang Xiaofei". This time it should be Wang Xiaofei who completely said goodbye to Big S, and in the past there was still a glimmer of possibility, but now, the two people are no longer related.
Even if you have two children, they are caught in the middle, and it will become strange and delicate because of your relationship.
I am quite sympathetic to Wang Xiaofei, he and Big S will actually get into this step today because of last year's events.
But at the same time, I have a little worry: two people are really going back to the trouble of breaking the jar like this. If you really still have feelings for each other, you really shouldn't use this way. At any time, we must leave room for each other, especially when quarrelling, and we must leave room for it, and we must not make such a desperate fight, otherwise, as soon as the divorce is said, you will probably not be able to go back to the past.
Compared with Wang Xiaofei, big S seems to have been immersed in the sweet love of the newlywed, and she recently posted photos on the Internet with S and K, which is not a clear reference to her and her newlywed husband, Ju Junye?
Perhaps Wang Xiaofei was really uncomfortable after seeing this news, so he finally made up his mind to take the big S.
Adults' mutual deletion is their own well-being, Wang Xiaofei Weibo this time to take off the big S, should be broken, no longer have any expectations for her. Wang Xiaofei loved her daughter Yue'er so much, and she didn't know if she could see her so easily in the future.
Here, we borrow Wang Xiaofei's Weibo to take guan da S and talk to you about a topic: After divorce, will you delete your ex's contact information?
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Say no contact, but because I have children, I still have to contact
After divorce, most people take it for granted that since they are divorced, why should they contact each other, simply delete the contact information as if they have never known each other.
I think so, but doing it is another matter.
Divorce is not like a breakup, if two people do not have children, divorce is very simple, after dividing the property can be separated from each other, from then on the end of the world into passers-by. But if you have children, you must be connected because of children, and you have no right and right to deprive children of full fatherly and maternal love. If after your divorce, you stop the child from seeing your ex, then I think you are quite selfish, you will also cause a lot of psychological pressure to the child, in the long run, the child's mental health will be greatly affected.
Divorced, verbally said no contact, but because you have children you still have to contact.
Remember the Korean drama "The World of Couples"? Chi Shanyu had a hard time driving her cheating ex-husband out of her life with her son, and when they first decided to divorce, they were also very unhappy. However, the stable days were only two years, and the ex-husband Li Taiwu still returned with a third party, Lu Duojing.
Li Taiwu is very concerned about his son, I remember there is a plot, when their son is threatened, they can not get through the son's phone, they are both frightened to varying degrees, originally have very important things to solve, but for the sake of the son, do not care about anything.
Even though he was divorced, he still couldn't stay out of the matter when he encountered problems related to his son.
That's the children of the two of you, and you once loved the children you raised, and even if your feelings are gone, you still love your children.
Just like Wang Xiaofei and Big S, I don't know how they explained all this to their children, the two people celebrated their tenth wedding anniversary in March last year, Wang Xiaofei also lamented that Yue'er had grown into a big girl, and as a result, it was only two months, and the two of them were in a fight. How should children understand, what happened to their parents, how to say that they do not love, do not love.
Although some of her supporters have said that she is sassy and lives too much like an idol drama heroine since Big S announced her remarriage, I still want to say that her decision to remarry is very irrational and is likely to hurt two children of this small age. From the child's point of view, inexplicably the father and the mother divorced, and somehow they had to call another man as the father.
They are children, can they really understand all this?
Will you delete your ex's contact details after a divorce?
If you have children, there is no way to completely break off the relationship. I hope that Big S will not deprive Wang Xiaofei of his right to be a father, after all, he is the father of two children and the closest person to them. Divorce is a problem with your relationship, not a parent-child relationship, I hope Big S can understand this.
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Write at the end
I wrote an article a few days ago because I saw that big S still had so many records of love with Wang Xiaofei in his past Weibo. Big S confessed that Wang Xiaofei's Weibo has a lot, at that time her life was all around her husband and children, from her description, Wang Xiaofei is a good husband and father who loves his wife and hurts his children.
And they recorded "Happiness Trio" in 2018, when they flirted, how loving. It's only been a few years now, has everything changed? Why is the shelf life of love so short. I admit that in recent years, everyone's lifestyle has changed a lot because of the epidemic, but the more difficult it is, the more we should not keep our original intentions? How can it be that there is no original intention?
All the couples dispersed as they walked, because they had more differences of opinion on the road together and forgot their determination to be together. Two people quarreling must leave room for each other, what is wrong with saying a soft word, if it is to the point of making a quarrel that cannot be ended, you two will regret it too late.
Like Wang Xiaofei and Big S, I always feel that they are just gambling gas, gambling gas divorced, gambling gas remarried again. Two people have been in love and killing each other, what good is it? In addition to hurting each other or hurting each other.
It must be said that big S is really quite cruel, the average girl said that divorce will be because of the consideration of children and not willing, they will be in a very weak position in marriage; but big S is different, she has always been so confident, she said that divorce is divorced, but Wang Xiaofei is afraid. How to judge their marriage?
Things are not human, a dream comes and goes, and I don't know if she will remember her marriage with Wang Xiaofei when she dreams back in the middle of the night, when she is frustrated in the marriage between Big S and Gu Junye. I hope that she and Wang Xiaofei handle the relationship well, after all, for children, they are the closest people to children.
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