In the face of the people they like, everyone will show their own magic and show their own housekeeping skills. I always want to make the other party impressed with me, make the other party feel good, and continue to communicate.
I have to say that in today's society, "plucking" is a particularly important skill. So, how do you grab each other's hearts?
Do men prefer gentle or a little cold women, and do women prefer to be considerate or domineering president types? When we know the type of the other party likes, we can better "pick" the other party. Otherwise, it is self-defeating, but it leaves a bad impression.
Want a man to spoil you alone and give him freedom
There were no traces of birds in the sky, but I had already flown by—Tagore
Freedom is what everyone aspires to, flying freely like a bird, uninhibited. Men are more eager for this freedom, and most men are nervous.
They are not as delicate and sensitive as women, and they do not like the feeling of being bound even more. They believe that only by letting go of their hands and feet can they use their skills.
But because women are inherently insecure, they want men to pay attention to themselves all the time. Therefore, it often interferes with the freedom of the partner, and the woman's greasy crookedness often makes the man mess up.
But if you want a man to pamper you more, you must release him to freedom. Let go in moderation and let him be free to chase his dreams. If women do this, make men think you are understanding and instead love you more and more.
Want men to spoil you and take the initiative
Love is never found, but love comes out, which is why it is called a lover. In love, a woman can't wait all the time, but must take the initiative appropriately.
Too active in exchange for too much indifference, and the appropriate initiative has become a kind of interest. Make men impressed with you and want to know more about you.
In love, everyone subtly believes that the suitor should be the man's initiative first. But when you really meet someone you like, women can take the initiative to pursue love appropriately.
Women take the initiative appropriately, one to let men understand your intentions. Knock on the side and tell the man that he has a good feeling for him and can try to get involved.
The second is to add freshness to the feelings. Men are used to taking the initiative, and your sudden counterattack makes the other party interested. The woman's initiative makes the other party feel special.
If a relationship is as stable as a pool of stagnant water, then a little wave may give it wonderful vitality. Men are more up-and-coming and pampering you more and more.
I want men to spoil you and cultivate your heart
The cultivation of temperament is not for others, but for oneself to enhance the ability to live.
In reality, not only do women like handsome and golden little brothers, but also men belong to the appearance association and like delicate and beautiful little sisters.
In the eyes of men, they not only like the refinement of the appearance, but also the refinement of the inside. Men think that the refinement of the appearance belongs to self-discipline, but only self-discipline is not enough, and it is also necessary to cultivate the heart.
The beauty of temperament comes not so much from the cultivation of the heart as it comes from an ability to appreciate beautiful things. This appreciation makes a person's speech and behavior different.
The so-called love at first sight of men is attracted by the beauty revealed by women. If you want a man to pamper you, you must cultivate both inside and outside, so that he can not forget his love for you.
All the laws are born from the heart, the mind is born of nothing, the law has no dwelling, and the mind is the root of everything. If you want to set men's favor in one, you must know how to "stir" men's hearts.
Because of your love, when you think about what you can do for you, your heart is happy, and I think this is the magic of love, the stirring of love's heartstrings.
May you be what you like
Don't complain, don't settle, there is freedom and light
Author: Chen Fei Emotion
Follow my words and go into your heart.