Why do many couples do "Dink"? In addition to the stress of life, there are 2 other reasons
From 2016, when the two-child policy was fully liberalized, to 2021, when the three-child policy was implemented, the period was only 5 years apart, and it is true that the state's adjustment of the birth policy has a consideration in the general environment, but it is scattered to individuals, but it is a different kind of ukiyo-e. In this context, there is a word that seems inappropriate but is often remembered, it is "dink", and the meaning and phenomenon under this word are still not understood by most people.
"Dink", a transliteration of the English "Double Incomes No Kids" abbreviation "DINK", literally translates to "two incomes without children", referring to those married, fertile couples who actively choose not to have children. Couples who choose "Dink", they choose a very different way of life from our traditions, and why do they do "Dink"? In addition to the pressure of life, there are actually these two reasons.
Needless to say, today's young people, as soon as they graduate, face a variety of real life pressures, buying a house and a car, chai rice oil and salt. The development of society is changing with each passing day, and the pressure brought to people is also endless, especially for contemporary young people, the increasingly inflated material and spiritual life needs, so that they run around in their basic lives all day, and having children has become a luxury. In addition to these two reasons, it is more frustrating.
One is character. In a society of free marriage, both spouses have more autonomy to choose the way of life that both are willing to accept, and "Dink" is only one of the various ways of life. Some people naturally do not like to get along with children, and when they see other people's children, they will feel troublesome and resistant, which will affect their enthusiasm for having children. When two people with the same ideas come together, most of them will choose to be a pair of "Dinks".
The second is the family. The family here refers to the negative impact of the original family, that is, the parents and mothers, such family factors are various and very common in TV movies, such as the differential treatment of children by reorganizing the family, such as the adverse effects of parental conflicts on children. Parents are the best teachers for children, and the differences between parents will affect children and sometimes even accompany the children for a lifetime.
The data shows that in the past 2021, China's population birth rate fell to 7.52%, and the annual birth rate was 10.62 million, setting a record for the lowest in New China. There is no doubt that the "Dink family" has played a great role in the emergence of this phenomenon, and this situation may have a great negative impact on the development of the country and social stability. And the "second child birth" is fruitless, but also let more people begin to think: how to make young people "do not do dink"?