The poet Kitajima said: Life is a transfer. When you receive it, rejoice and rejoice, and when you send it, you are sad and sad.
We always sigh too late to say goodbye, always regret that it is too late to do certain things, but rarely when we have time to do these things, we seriously complete them.
I once met a like-minded friend at work, and we didn't spend a long time together, but we were all deeply attracted to each other's three views. Only later she went to a better platform for development.
At that time, I thought that she was just changing places to work, and it would not be too difficult to see each other in the future, so before she had time to say goodbye, she left in a hurry.
When she first entered the new unit, she was busy late every day, not to mention the party, and we even had few opportunities to chat. But at that time, we always felt that coming to Japan was long, and we delayed it again and again. Until half a year after she went to the new unit, her physique was not too good, coupled with days of fatigue, overdraft, and finally accumulated into a disease.
The illness came so quickly and so violently that before I could see her, she was hurriedly taken back to her hometown by her parents. Soon after, what I didn't expect was that when she left the company, her hasty goodbye was the last time we got together...
Looking back now, my heart is still full of regret.
Xi Murong told a story about her and her grandmother in "Little Red Gate", when she was going to go abroad, and the tears on her grandmother's face kept flowing. Although she herself was full of reluctance for her grandmother, the joy of going abroad filled part of her sorrow, especially at that time, she was convinced that when she returned from her studies, her grandmother would definitely wait for her in the little red door.
She felt that she would be back soon, and that Grandma would not cry for long.
Yes, Grandma did not cry for a long time, because after she left, her grandmother left, and she looked at the "Respect for Mr. Jingtao of Lele", Princess Bao Guanglian", and suddenly her hands and feet were cold. It turns out that many people, as soon as they turn around, are never goodbye.
As she herself later wrote in the book: You think that since the days come by day by day, of course, they should also pass day by day. Yesterday, today and tomorrow should be no different, but there will be a time when you let go and turn around, and some things will change completely.
The sun goes down, and before it rises again, some people will never say goodbye to you.
Michael Jackson didn't have time to say goodbye, heath ledger failed to cherish the humanity of love, but we still have time to do the things we always wanted to do and didn't have the courage to do before it was really too late, and to say the things that we didn't dare to say.
Dong Qing said in "Readers": Farewell is the end, but also the beginning, is the pain, but also the hope. Life is so fragile and so short, we don't know which parting time will not be seen again, but we can only grasp each meeting and hug each other well.
The best way to face goodbye is to say goodbye.
Author: Shanshan Li