People who love you will put you in their hearts, and those who don't love you will not have you in their hearts
Like a person, wish, the other person and themselves get along with the same frequency.
Information, there are comings and goings; love, there are pay and harvest; cherish, there are you and me.
But there are always some people who give without gain, give without return, not because they are not good, but because they have not met the right person.
When the person you like is always hot and cold to you; when the person you take the initiative is always high,000, leaving you overwhelmed and not knowing whether to continue or let go? Don't worry.
You have to calm yourself down, and then use a calm mind, in the process of you getting along, from your feelings to analyze the problem between you, what is the end of the problem, and then make a decision whether to make up for it or let go.
First, the person you like, not at all active
I don't know if you have ever met someone you like, who is not active at all.
Say he doesn't like you, and sometimes he says he likes it.
Say you like it, sometimes, even WeChat does not reply.
Anyway, no matter how you ask him, he can answer them one by one, so that you can't find a reason to blame him.
You want to give up, but you feel that he loves himself and wants to continue, but he never takes the initiative.
A look of love and disregard, it is really unbearable.
Some people say that if he treats you with this attitude, she doesn't really love you.
The person who truly loves you will put you in their hearts, love, think, heartache, and worry.
If you love you, you will take the initiative to care about you; if you think of you, you will take the initiative to see you, take the initiative to call, and take the initiative to send you a message; if you are distressed, you will not let you spoil your mood in that love of gain and loss; if you are worried about you, you will worry about your cold and warm, worry about your three meals a day, have you eaten well? Have you had enough to eat?
If the person you like is not active at all, it is obvious that they do not love you, but it is like a spare tire.
If a person never puts you in his eyes and never takes the initiative to care for you, this person, no matter how much you like it, must learn to put away his obsession and don't let himself fall into the depths.
Second, love is an attitude, and not loving is also an attitude
People who love you will treat you with the best attitude and be gentle to you.
The message you send him, he will reply to you, WeChat chat, he will be enthusiastic to accompany you, you want to chat as long as you want to chat, you don't say goodbye, he will not hang up.
The person who doesn't love you, the message you send, he can reply to or not reply.
Don't reply back? When to reply, it is up to your mood.
Even if you take the initiative to find him, he can ignore you.
Because he doesn't love you, he doesn't need you to care or what your feelings of loss feel like.
A look that you can do it, and there is nothing to lose without you, is not to put you in the eyes, otherwise he would not use this attitude towards you.
As people say, a person's attitude toward you can tell if they really love you.
The extent to which he loves you depends entirely on his attitude towards you.
If his attitude towards you is always unbearable, then ask yourself, what do you really like about him? What do you want in him? As long as you think clearly, think clearly, whether to continue, or let go, you naturally have a number in mind.
Third, love is a one-person thing, and love is a two-way street.
You pay a little, I pay a little, you take the initiative, I take the initiative, two people, two hearts, are getting closer and closer, that love is more and more touching, that love, is more and more warm.
A person's love is too laborious, too tiring, and it is not good.
If you like people, do not take the initiative to enter your life, do not take the initiative to care about your warmth and cold, do not take the initiative to care about your sadness and joy. Well, your initiative is redundant.
As the saying goes, people who can't wake up and pretend to sleep can't touch people who don't love you.
One person's love has no meaning; the love of two people is warm and sweet.
It is not surprising that a person's enthusiasm is to go in both directions, and the future can be expected.
Whether you are a slow-heat type of person or an introverted person who is not good at expressing, you are all thoughtful people.
As the saying goes, think about yourself in the first half of the night, think about others in the second half of the night, even if you don't know how to express your inner feelings, but you can take the initiative to walk into the side of the person you like and like you, use your actions to show your love, let the other party feel the real warmth, so that you will not live up to the fate of your encounter, will not live up to the person who likes you, will not live up to his waiting and expectations for you.
Believe in yourself, believe in love, believe in the person who loves you, he cares about you, not anything else.
If you really love him, even if the wine is strong and courageous, you must be brave, even if you are red-faced, you must say the love in your heart, so that the other party knows that you really like him and really love him.
If you don't love, don't let him have any expectations for you emotionally, so as not to let him fall into the world of loving you, hurt his heart, and disturb you.