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Quiet life and wisdom. A person's success begins with learning to be "quiet".
The Tao Te Ching says that jing is the king of impatience. This means that jing can overcome the impatience in a person.
"University" said: "Quiet and then can be safe, safe and then can worry, worry and then can get." It can be seen that stillness is the basis for stability, contemplation, and gain.
The older you get, the more you will understand that Jing is a great wisdom and a fertile ground for more wisdom. Whether a person can succeed or not often begins with learning to be a quiet person.
Especially in the unit, the really powerful people are often very quiet and have a very stable heart.
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Quiet, low-key and calm, be a powerful "marginal person".
In the unit, the most unfair and common phenomenon is that those who can work will always have endless work, and those who will be lazy will always enjoy endless leisure time. The "polarization" is so serious that some people love to express themselves too much and are too "noisy".
Colleague Ayu, although she is more than forty years old, is still like a little girl who has not yet grown up, and she has to ask the leader for instructions on a small matter. She is very responsible for her work, pursues perfection everywhere, and after every request for instructions and reports, the leader will give higher requirements.
Ayu is strict with herself, and even the colleagues she works with must reach the "same height" as her. Over time, everyone openly and secretly accused her of "good performance" and "love to toss", unwilling to cooperate with her, and she was left alone.
As a result, Ayu became the busiest person in the unit, except for the number one. Leaders and colleagues joked with her: Treat work as if it were her own home. In fact, she teased her regardless of the weight and did not know how to choose.
Such hard work did not bring promotion and salary increases, but only became a "tool man" that everyone could use, and Ayu was really stupid.
In fact, if you want to win the recognition of leaders and the support of colleagues, you are a "marginal person" like a "sweeping monk". They will not easily reveal their best kung fu, but as long as they make a shot, they are very methodical and effective, and they can easily dissolve problems that others cannot solve.
Usually, they seem to "come and go without a trace", quietly going to work, leaving work, only doing their own work, unless the leader rolls names, otherwise, they will never participate in the discussion of work among colleagues, gossip about life, and even, even greeting, they are very clever to avoid.
Such a person is like a unit's "fixed sea god needle", the leader also has to respect the three points, some miscellaneous things will not be arranged for them at all, and as long as they "go out of the mountain" and do a little thing, the leader will give them enough rewards.
It can be seen that being a person whose words and deeds are very quiet is not equivalent to "not doing things" and "picking a pick", but waiting for the price to sell, "when it is time to sell". In this way, we can continue to consolidate our "position".
Be quiet, look down on fame and fortune, and be a person who "has a sea of heart".
Small units are the epitome of society. The intrigue and the warmth of human feelings are all vividly displayed.
If you are in a closed small city, the role of the rules allows the inner influence of the circle, the ability to be solid gives way to various nepotism, even if you try your best, you still can't get rid of the encounter of being "degraded and excluded".
In this regard, some people are depressed and do not see a smile all day; some people go with the flow, complain about themselves, and lose their fighting spirit and vitality. Such people, even if they are not old, are all very "greasy", and as soon as they open their mouths, they are full of "negative energy", which makes people avoid it.
Those who live freely have already jumped out, taking the dilemma in front of them as the cultivation of life, swallowing grievances and expanding the pattern.
As the Graded Blossoms writes, "The Buddha said that the root of all suffering lies in our long-standing deep-seated misunderstanding of ourselves and the external world. ”
Those who are "as quiet as water" in the face of open competition in the workplace have realized that the fame and fortune they have devoted themselves to pursuing does not mean much to life.
In contrast, inner peace and prosperity, family harmony and satisfaction, friendship honesty and undeceived, and the continuous development of self-hobbies are the pursuits they yearn for more.
So, they work on it, and
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Quiet people can not be shocked and insulted.
Only a quiet person can stabilize his position, plan countermeasures, and make the choice that is most conducive to his own development in the rapid changes.
During the Warring States period, Mao Sui was a protégé of the Zhao State Pingyuan Jun, and for many years, he was not appreciated. Once, the State of Zhao was attacked by the State of Qin, and Pingyuan Jun was ordered by King Zhao to go to the State of Chu for help, and Pingyuan Jun selected nineteen people, and there was still one person left, but he did not take a fancy to Mao Sui.
Therefore, Mao Sui recommended himself on the grounds of "cone in the bag", impressed Pingyuan Jun, and took him to the Chu Kingdom with him.
During the meeting with the King of Chu, Pingyuan Jun and the King of Chu negotiated for half a day without success, so Mao Sui walked up to the King of Chu with a sword in hand, stated the strong relationship, and forced the King of Chu to immediately agree to send troops to save Zhao, thus helping Pingyuan Jun to make a great contribution.
The reason why Mao Sui was so calm and calm was that he had a clear understanding of his own strengths, a unique insight into the reasons why Pingyuan Jun and the King of Chu could not reach an agreement for a long time, and he had always been calm and relaxed, objectively and calmly carrying out analysis, and only later did he have the action of not being afraid of personal safety, stating the powerful relationship in the temple, and forcing the King of Chu to obey.
It can be seen from this that people in the unit, a person who can keep quiet, often has the vision and pattern of "looking at the overall situation and fixing the overall situation", no matter how urgent and dangerous the situation is, it can be dealt with unchanged.
In the face of the final outcome, success is gratifying, and defeat can be accepted calmly. Because, in their opinion, if they try their best, they will have no shame.
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Conclusion:
People in the unit, when you have not yet established a firm foothold, you may as well be a "quiet" person honestly.
Don't argue with people, don't rush to show your position and attitude, even if it is a display of self-talent, don't show it.
After all, the road knows the horsepower and sees people's hearts for a long time. You have to let the years become your witnesses, and let the self-precipitation block the mouths of the people. Real gold is not afraid of fire refining, it is a real celebrity from the wind.
Author: Like the wind is light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessings.
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