I don't know if you have found that no matter how high and cold a man is, when he is completely emotional about a woman, he will become different, and people around him can see this abnormality at a glance.
When I can't see her, I think of what she said when we were together, her expression and small movements, the corners of the man's mouth involuntarily rise, the whole person is brisk and clear; when he sees her, the man's gaze is all about her, and the eyes are deep affection that cannot be hidden.
Love is elusive, two people may not have known each other for a long time, they have not yet fully understood, but at a certain moment they suddenly moved, and it is difficult to extricate themselves.
As Tang Xianzu wrote in "Peony Pavilion": Love does not know what to do, and it goes deep.
Men are not introverted at all, and in the face of the overtures of the opposite sex, he is calm, restrained, and keeps a distance, not because he is naturally cold, but because he does not like it.
Just like Gu Wei in the TV series "The Rest of Your Life, Please Give More Advice", and Gao Wei from classmates to colleagues, the two have known each other for many years, in the face of Gao Huan's active confession and proximity, Gu Wei has always responded lightly and deliberately pulled away the distance between them.
Even if the colleagues around them coaxed, saying that they were a lang and a woman, and their family background was similar, very well matched, Gu Wei never crossed the line half a step, and only regarded Gao Huan as a classmate and colleague.
Colleagues all felt that Gu Wei did not smile and was a little cold, as if he was born to be such a person.
But since Gu Wei met Lin Zhixue, everything had become different, he loved to laugh and talk more.
The power of love is so strong that men are completely emotional, and the transformation will be obvious. Therefore, the woman does not have to deliberately tempt, his love and non-love, has long been expressed through every move.
Men who are emotional about you will become very careful
The public's stereotype of men is mostly "careless", can not perceive the delicate emotions of women, and even when releasing care, it is difficult to care about ideas.
As a result, everyone feels that it is normal for men to be careless in love, after all, they are such a creature.
In fact, if a man is careless in front of you, does not pay attention to your emotions, does not pay attention to your physical health, and never shows a delicate side, it can only show that this man does not love you.
Once he meets the woman he likes, the man is completely like a changed person, and unlike before, his carefulness may even make women ashamed of themselves.
Gu Wei's transformation in front of Lin Zhi's school just showed this point.
After Lin Zhixue fell asleep in the lounge, he woke up in the morning with a warm little tip left by Gu Wei and an ice pack;
During Teacher Lin's hospitalization, Lin Zhi's school kept vigil and fell asleep, and Gu Wei intimately went to the ward to check and help Lin Zhi's school cover clothes;
Teacher Lin "fled" the hospital, Lin Zhixue almost cried, Gu Wei drove with her slowly to find, and then encountered lin school physiological period, Gu Wei carefully went to buy tampons, and asked the female clerk how to deal with the general girl's stomach pain during menstruation, and then bought hot drinks and warm babies. There is a detail that is very touching, in order to make the warm baby heat up as soon as possible, Gu Wei tore open the warm baby and rubbed it before handing it to Lin Zhi school;
Lin Zhi school because of excessive practice wrist injury, Gu Wei first found out, and quietly helped Lin Zhi school hang up the expert number, worried that Lin School did not follow the doctor's instructions to secretly practice the piano, trying to distract the energy of Lin School;
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In front of Lin Zhixue, Gu Wei became warm and caring, whether it was the ability to perceive each other's emotions or the degree of care, it made people feel that Gu Wei was the perfect boyfriend image.
The so-called "perfect boyfriend" is only because he met the girl who wanted to be good and serious.
One of the most obvious changes in the man who has been emotional to you is to become attentive and caring. It's an unconscious act, just because it's you, so you want to be nice to you.
Men who are emotional about you will become very active
Some people say that men are more passive in the face of love, do not easily show their likes, and will not easily pour out their hearts.
If you get along with a man you like, active everywhere, and he is passive, it can only mean that the man's heart is not on you.
Men really like a woman, can not hide the emotions that spew out, do not need you, you can feel the love and care from him. He will become very active, take the initiative to care about your body, take the initiative to care about the people and things you care about, take the initiative to break the siege for you, and take the initiative to reveal his true self to you.
Before Gu Wei met Lin Zhi's school, he gave the impression of being cold and not very close, even Gao Huan, who had been a classmate and colleague for many years, could not enter Gu Wei's heart, especially in the face of psychological obstacles left by surgery, Gu Wei never took the initiative to mention it, even if Gao Huan was worried that he wanted to talk to him, he was also a attitude of refusing to let people go thousands of miles away.
When facing Lin Zhi school, Gu Wei became active.
Lin Zhixue was worried about Teacher Lin's body and asked Gu Wei to be Teacher Lin's chief surgeon, and Gu Wei took the initiative to tell Lin Zhixue from refusing to being frank and taking the initiative to tell Lin Zhixue that he did not want to do surgery, but that he could not do it. Later, Gu Wei, who wanted to transfer to another department, tried to overcome the psychological obstacles, and after careful consideration, told Lin Zhixue that he was willing to be The chief surgeon of Teacher Lin, and asked her to rest assured that the operation would be successful;
Teacher Lin could not eat after chemotherapy, and even Gu Wei, who was rotating, was so busy that he did not even have time to go to the toilet, but after knowing the situation, he took the initiative to go to the ward to care for Teacher Lin and help him screen what he could eat and wanted to eat;
Before the opening of the concert, Lin Zhixue was forced to change from the cellist position to knock the triangle iron, and Gu Wei, who sat in the audience, took the initiative to go to the stage to comfort Lin Zhixue at the end of the concert, and when she was ridiculed, she stepped forward to help Lin Zhixue break the siege;
Afraid that Lin Zhixue would misunderstand his relationship with Gao Huan, Gu Wei took the initiative to explain that they were just classmates and colleagues and would not develop feelings other than friendship.
Perhaps even Gu Wei himself had never realized that since he met Lin Zhixiao, he seemed to have changed into a person.
Isn't that what love is all about? Because I care about you, I will become active, it seems to be an instinct, I want to cherish every day with you, and I want to do my best to make you happy.
The man is completely moved by you, no matter how busy he is, he has time to care about you, no matter how tired he is willing to talk with you, for you he is willing to overcome all difficulties, no matter how you are, in his eyes the heart is the best.
Touching people who are emotional to you will change their habits because of you
I often hear people complain that the hardest part of an intimate relationship is to change a partner.
For example: girls don't like boys to smoke, say it over and over again, the boy says I changed, but never put it into action; two people often quarrel because of different eating habits, and feel that if you love me, you have to cater to my preferences; because of the different life schedules, gradually estranged and cold to each other.
In conventional thinking, we always feel that it is too difficult for one person to change another person.
As everyone knows, if that person really loves you and doesn't need you to change him, he will also take the initiative to change some of his life habits in order to cater to you.
As a gastroenterologist, Gu Wei attaches great importance to daily diet, less sugar and less oil, and is extremely self-disciplined. Lin Zhixue is different, she likes to drink Coke, eat hot pot, have happy unhappiness, a can of Coke under the belly, everything becomes beautiful.
Influenced by Lin Zhi School, Gu Wei, who only drank soy milk for breakfast, bought Coke for the first time in the world, and felt that Coke was quite delicious; Gu Wei, who had a light diet, took the initiative to take Lin Zhi School to eat hot pot; Gu Wei, who only liked the simple style, accepted Lin Zhi's suggestions for the layout of the room, and those cute cups, pillows, and placemats made the cold room cute.
Gu Wei's change was willing, no one forced him, and in getting along with Lin Zhixue, it was slowly like a different person.
This change comes from the power of love.
Men are emotional about you, in the face of differences with you, will change their living habits to cater to you, this pandering is not flattery, but love and care.
Changing habits for many years is not easy, especially when faced with personal preferences, such as dressing style, eating habits, etc., if you meet the person who is willing to change for you, it means that he loves you more than expected.
The man is completely emotional, the change will be obvious, and the people around him may be curious - how he suddenly became smiling, I didn't expect him to have a careful side.
In fact, it's just his attitude towards you, which is the special treatment he gives you.
If you meet someone who is willing to change himself for you, cherish him.
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