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Recently, some netizens broke the news that the nursery of a confinement center in Shiyan, Hubei Province, abused the baby, resulting in a fracture of the baby born 28 days ago.
The nurseryist roughly twisted the baby's head and body while caring for the baby, ignoring the baby's discomfort and forcibly feeding, and after the baby spit up the milk, she also forcibly pinched her nose and poured it in.
What is even more shocking is that this confinement center is not a wild road sub-institution, but a local tertiary hospital is responsible for operation and management.
At present, the local health commission is already following up on the relevant incidents, and the public security organs have also intervened in the investigation.
The police also revealed that the nurseryman involved in the abuse of the baby was a mother-to-be who was 4 months pregnant and could not be detained by the public security organs because she was pregnant.
The concept of consumption is constantly upgrading, scientific parenting is receiving more and more attention, and offline maternal and child services have become the choice of many families.
Postpartum rehabilitation, confinement center, confinement, childcare... When mothers pay money, they think that this will reduce the pressure of parenting for themselves and their families.
Excellent confinement clubhouse, postpartum care institutions help mothers adapt to the role of mothers faster and their bodies recover to a better state.
However, there are also good and uneven institutions and services mixed with the maternal and infant industry, and the "professional services" bought at high prices may become a sharp blade to hurt children.
The list owner wrote this article, took stock of the cat, summed up the experience, helped the mother not to spend money unjustly, eat less dumb losses, and hand over the child to a truly reliable person.
At the end of the article, direct guidance to the selection of lightning protection for institutions.
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Confinement Center:
Environmental health is worrying, "aunt" becomes "doctor"
Compared with the traditional "confinement at home" is a great advantage, the staff has undergone professional training, whether it is the baby or the mother can get more reliable care, to a certain extent, can also avoid the family conflicts brought about by the birth of the baby.
However, the market supervision of the yuezi center is not perfect, and the quality of merchants is uneven.
Advertisements before check-in are blown out of the sky, and mothers regret it after check-in, and some even seriously affect the safety and health of mothers and babies!
(1) Safety and hygiene are not in place
Newborns are easily infected by bacteria and viruses due to their imperfect immune system, so they have strict requirements for daily necessities, such as bottles, clothing and environmental hygiene.
However, some confinement centers do not put the vital baby safety and infection prevention and control measures in the first place, and GoldenEye has exposed that a confinement center has wiped all the items with a rag and wiped the table and wiped the bottle, such a health situation is really difficult to protect the health of the baby.
Image source: 1818 GoldenEye Weibo
Central air conditioning circulation infection, poor room ventilation caused by formaldehyde exceeding the standard is also a common problem of the confinement center, before signing the contract to understand clearly with the business.
During field trips, mothers can also assess health safety from the following points:
Is there enough pitch between cribs?
Are babies sleeping, milking, and changing diapers separate?
Is there a standard disinfection process for mother and baby products, and will they be mixed?
(2) The nutrition confinement meal is not on the board
Some confinement centers claim that dietitians will customize personalized diets based on various physical indicators of their mothers, and "meals are not the same."
In fact, the so-called private customization may only ask about the taste taboos, and it is difficult to match exclusive nutritious meals according to the maternal constitution.
Moreover, the health of the confinement restaurants in some confinement centers is worrying.
According to Mango City, the back kitchen hygiene of a confinement center in Changsha is disgusting! Used dishes and chopsticks were soaked in the pool, and the piled up garbage was surrounded by flies, even crawling directly on the mothers' pastries.
Image source: Screenshot of Mango City Video
The chef in charge of preparing the confinement meal has poor hygiene awareness, irregular operation, does not wear a mask or gloves, cuts vegetables while talking, and ignores the flies next to him.
Many confinement centers outsource confinement meals to other institutions, and there is no guarantee whether the food production site is clean or not, and whether it is contaminated in the process of delivering the meal.
(3) IQ tax service cut leeks
The market competition is becoming more and more fierce, in order to highlight the cost performance, merchants often include a variety of "can, but not necessary" services in the package, such as parent-child photo, postpartum yoga, baby birthday party and so on.
Be careful, if you don't pay attention, you will buy a bunch of IQ tax services at a high price.
Full moon sweating, milk hypnosis, milk discharge, ovarian maintenance, pelvic repair, rapid weight loss, perineal whitening... Any confinement center that over-markets these services can basically be blocked.
Postpartum prosthetic treatment must be based on an institution with evidence-based medical support and a medical qualification background
Without professional training guidance, symptomatic repair may also cause diseases and sequelae due to improper operation.
(4) Packaged out of the professional
"Professional" is the most attractive pain point for mothers, and it is also the selling point that Yuezi Center is best at packaging.
Professional instruments, professional doctors, professional nurses, professional sisters-in-law... It's true? target? Do you?
I believe that many mothers have also seen the confinement center advertise that they have professional medical equipment, which can give jaundice babies blue light and can do rehabilitation treatment for pregnant women.
According to national regulations, the use of medical devices must be assessed and certified.
Medical devices are handed over to non-professionals to operate, and the gains outweigh the losses.
Some confinement centers will set up a "doctor wall" to hang out the profiles and photos of doctors who cooperate with the company.
They claim to have specialist physicians who sit regularly, but most of these doctors may be part-time. This kind of "edge ball" propaganda makes mothers mistakenly think that they can really spend money to buy peace of mind.
Image source: CCTV
The report bluntly said that many nursing staff in confinement centers were transferred from the staff of the housekeeping company, and many of them did not have relevant qualifications and did not have professional training.
The so-called professional nurses, gold medal sisters-in-law may also be trained in crash courses, most of them are not highly educated, enter the confinement center, receive the "old with the new" training, directly on the job, while doing and learning, it is simply "taking children to practice".
The list owner has to emphasize: we signed a "nursing service" contract with the confinement center, and the "medical service" provided by the medical institution is completely different, for the "professional" advertised by the business, we must boldly question and carefully check.
Seeing this, some people may say: There are so many problems in the confinement center, we will pay for the confinement sister-in-law, nursery or nanny to come to the house to help!
Beware, that's another big pit at a deep water depth!
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Sister-in-law, child-rearing sister-in-law:
500 yuan to buy a fake certificate, 7 days to work quickly
In 2019, a piece of news titled "A 9-month-old baby girl was deliberately killed by a 33-year-old nursery" was on the hot search.
In the news, Ms. Hong of Xiamen, Fujian Province, through the housekeeping company to find a "senior nursery" Wu Mou to take care of her daughter, but the nursery teacher actually threw her daughter to death.
Image source: Red Star News
Nursery teacher Wu Mou was arrested on suspicion of intentional injury.
Through the court's indictment, we learned that the reason why Wu killed the baby girl was only because the baby cried incessantly, which made her feel irritable, in order to make the baby stop crying, she carried the baby to the bathroom and beat her many times...
Isn't it normal for a 9-month-old baby to cry to express his needs?
As a "senior nursery", doesn't Wu Mou still understand the temper habits of infants and young children?
What is unexpected is that Wu's "senior nurseryman" turned out to be a fake certificate purchased for 500 yuan.
In Wu's interrogation record, she confessed that she was burdened with the economic pressure of her children's further education and repayment of mortgages, and in order to gain a foothold in the nursery industry and earn high remuneration, she spent 500 yuan to apply for a fake "senior nursery" certificate.
Similar cases, the Internet grabbed a handful:
Behind these cases, it is reflected that there are now two big pits waiting for us in the mother and baby service personnel such as nursery teachers, confinement sisters-in-law, prolactinators, and pediatric massage nurses:
(1) The documents are forged, and the gold content is doubtful
Highest gold content: Professional qualification certificate issued by the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security, such as nurseryman/nurseryman/nurseryman/health care masseuse
These certificates are officially recognized occupations that require the vocational certification examination of the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security!
The award of health masseurs has been cancelled after 2017, but those awarded before 2017 are still valid.
The Certificate of Parenting can be divided into Level 3 (Nursery Teacher), Level 4 (Senior Nursery) and Level 5 (NurseryMan).
Vocational qualification certificates, which can only be issued by the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security (Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security), have the highest gold content.
Gold content is secondary: special vocational ability certificate issued by the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security, such as maternal and infant care / pediatric massage / prolactin / postpartum rehabilitation / Chinese medicine rehabilitation physiotherapy...
The monthly sister-in-law can only be regarded as a "folk profession", we often say that the mother-in-law induction certificate refers to the maternal and infant care certificate, which is a national special ability certificate, and the training content is relative to the foundation of the nursery teacher, but it will involve the knowledge training of taking care of the mother.
There is no grade distinction in the special vocational skills certificate certified by the state, so from the perspective of vocational qualification recognition, there is no so-called "senior concubine", but there will be a certificate certified by the industry association.
Vocational qualification certificates and special vocational ability certificates are recognized by the state, you can check the authenticity of the website of the Human Resources and Social Security Bureau, how to do it specifically, the end of the text to tell you.
Gold content third: industry association certificate, such as sister-in-law certificate / senior sister-in-law certificate / pediatric massage therapist / prolactinator / breastfeeding guidance / early teacher...
Some community organizations and national public institutions will also issue job skills certificates.
Social organizations such as the China Employment Promotion Association, the China Adult Education Association, the China Women's Development Foundation, and the International Lactation Consultant Organization;
Public institutions such as the China Chamber of Commerce Business Vocational Skills Appraisal and Guidance Center, China Employment Training Technical Guidance Center.
The certification certificates of these industry associations are learned about the relevant information through the website on the certificate, and it is also recommended that mothers first go to the company's search websites such as enterprise check and tianyan check to find out the background of the institution.
Lowest gold content: various certificates issued by various enterprises themselves
At present, many of the "senior/senior/gold/five-star sister-in-law certificates" that are common in the market are only training certificates handled internally by various housekeeping companies or intermediaries, and are not vocational qualification certificates issued by the government.
Grading is only an internal act of the institution, and there is a lot of room for watering and counterfeiting.
The names of these certificate authorities and certificate names look the same, but in fact, the gold content is very low.
Some confinement centers or intermediaries will use this kind of certificate as a job certificate, but it is more like the "on-the-job certificate" of this confinement sister-in-law, which does not mean that professional skills have been possessed.
(2) Lying and stealing, character is difficult to control
NetEase News once reported such a bizarre news, in the news, Ms. Lin of Kaohsiung, Taiwan, hired a nanny to take care of the baby during the confinement period, but the nanny stole the breast milk she left for the baby.
Because of the surveillance installed in the home, after being discovered, the nanny still had no remorse, and sly argued that she was anemic, and drinking breast milk could make up for it: drinking a pound of milk is equivalent to making up a pound of blood for herself!
Other cases abound, some nannies, nurserymen, not only drink breast milk, but also steal things, and even abuse children, such as because they are tired of children crying, feeding sleeping pills, desperately shaking children's heads.....
Without exhaustive background checks, employer evaluations, and probationary observations, it is difficult to truly understand the character of confinement and parenting sisters-in-law just by the end of the interview.
Giving them free access to the house and handing over their children to their personal care is undoubtedly handing knives to the devil.
To avoid these problems, it is necessary to check in the areas of institutional training and domestic intermediaries.
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Training Market:
Self-production and self-sales, training, certification, employment one-stop
Some intermediary agencies directly arrange training and recommend employment, issue certificates to a group of "sisters-in-law" and "child-rearing sisters-in-law" who lack skills and knowledge, and even have no experience in child-rearing, packaged as professionals, and recommended to families seeking help.
In 2017, the CCTV 3.15 evening party was exposed, and there are many random certification phenomena in the current maternal and infant training market.
Some housekeeping companies claim that they can directly apply for a monthly employment certificate without participating in training; some provide one-stop services for training, certification, and employment recommendation, and claim that the documents they issue are common throughout the country.
Source: CCTV Finance
In fact, most of these training institutions do not have training qualifications, let alone certificates.
The so-called primary, middle, high, special, gold medal, ace and other different levels are set by these companies themselves, and it is impossible to know how capable they are and how their character is.
Some training institutions have developed controversial courses, such as sleep training, to exploit parental anxiety for profit.
Some even use the guise of low academic requirements, package certificates, package employment, etc., and in turn cheat the money of the trainers, and issue a water certificate to take away a large amount of tuition fees.
As long as they have money, anyone can sign up for training. Students have a low threshold to enter the high renewal fee, but also accept the ladder management of micro-business.
The so-called training instructors may just be old students who have taken classes, and their parenting experience comes only from their own children, and everything cannot withstand scrutiny.
Since there are so many problems in the current maternal and infant service market, how should we consider it when we "please help"? How to choose it?
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Reliable institutions, aunts look for this!
The list owner vomited blood to sort out the following tukas, everyone must collect !!!
Let's first take a look at how to choose a reliable confinement center:
Image source: Made yourself
What should a mother who does not go to the confinement center and chooses to ask "aunt" to come to the house to help?
In the face of the mirror of parenting knowledge, all the chaos of mothers and babies is nowhere to be seen.
Therefore, in addition to mastering the above strategies, the most reliable way is for parents to make knowledge reserves related to raising children in advance.
After all, we ourselves are the main force in raising babies, the others are auxiliaries, and the strength of the main force is hard enough to make accurate judgments on the issue of parenting, and not to step on the thunder and not to fall into the pit.
What pits did you encounter when choosing the confinement center and the confinement sister-in-law, and did you have any experience to share with other mothers?
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Editors of this issue: Mu Xiaoke, Tsui Mom.