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Miyazaki said in "Listening to the Ear" that love is a matter for both parties, not one person who has taken 99 steps, and the other party is hesitant to take the first step.
In life, there are often some loves, which are taken for granted by anyone, but they are a person's heartbeat.
Gao Hun in "The Rest of Your Life Please Give More Advice" is a very good doctor, with a good family and beautiful appearance, standing with Gu Wei like a "golden child and jade girl", but he deliberately keeps a distance from her.
After knowing each other for many years, Gao Huan naturally refused to let go of this golden turtle son-in-law, and did not hesitate to take the "parent route", but he could only love "concubine intentions, Lang ruthless", and it seemed that no matter how perfect the match, it would be useless after all.
Love is not all beautiful, love is not allowed, there is no need to hang on this tree. Where is there no herb in the end of the world?
But on the contrary, some women are very unable to open.
Shin Youmei in "Blue Life and Death Love" fell in love with Yoon Joon-hee at first sight. Joon-hee has a good feeling because she said that she "wants to be a tree", and the two have been dating for a long time, and they are naturally engaged.
However, Yoo-mi does not know that Joon-hee likes Eun-hee, so he returns to China to find her. When the two finally reunite, the love makes them forget, and Joon-hee also proposes to Yoo-mi to break up.
In order to keep her fiancé, Yumi did not hesitate to commit suicide. But she kept Joon-hee's man, but she couldn't keep his heart. In the end, Eun-hee dies of illness, and Joon-hee can't survive and follows him.
Originally, she was a young beauty of Bai Fumei, with a superior family and a beautiful and talented person, but it was a pity to pay for a wrong love.
True love is not entangled.
The best way to love is to let go. Instead of suffering for a lifetime, it is better to be dashing.
Sometimes the other way around, fulfillment is also a kind of happiness.
In "Just Don't Fall in Love with the Boss", Mo Zixin had a soft spot for Lu Qian when he was young, and has been hanging the necklace he gave her around her neck.
However, Lu Que was always lukewarm to her, and when Mo Zixin finally couldn't help but take the initiative to confess, Lu Que said that he only treated her as an ordinary friend.
Unrequited love failed, and Mo Zixin was distressed for a long time. Especially seeing that Qian Wei, who is close to her sister in the same dormitory, actually fell in love with Lu Que, saying that it was impossible for her not to care and not be lost.
At the same time, Xuejie is secretly in love with Li Chongwen, while Li Chongwen only likes Qian Wei and refuses to accept her by her side.
Therefore, Xuejie wanted to join forces with Mo Zixin to ruin Qian Wei's reputation.
Mo Zixin sent a message in advance to tell Lu Qian, crushing Xuejie's plan. When Xuejie reprimanded Mo Zixin, she said passionately: "Even if I can only be the second female number, I absolutely cannot let the villain succeed." ”
Although the loss of love is painful, it is entangled, and even doing some hurtful and elegant actions behind the scenes is even more intolerable. I have to say that Mo Zixin's sobriety is worth learning from many women who love but cannot.
It is not one's fault not to be loved by one, and one does not have to punish oneself with these and force oneself into an evil person. After all, there is not only love in life, but many better things.
Unfortunately, not all people in this world can live so soberly.
Haruki Murakami said: If I love you, and you happen to love me. When your hair is messed up, I will smile and pluck it for you, and then, with my hand still lingering on your hair, for a few more seconds; if I love you and you don't love me by chance. Your hair is messy, I will only gently tell you that your hair is messy.
Love is a beautiful thing, even if it is not accepted by the other party, silently like it in your heart, it is also an encouragement to yourself.
But if you don't get it because of love, you make something out of nothing, and eventually make each other unhappy, which goes against the original intention of love.
Wang Xiaobo said in his love letter to Li Yinhe: "If you want, I will always love you!" If you don't want to, I'll miss each other forever. ”
Love is not coercion, not coercion and seduction, but a matter of mutual pleasure. Dirty because of love, it is really impossible.
There are often some women in life who always feel that they have paid, and they must be rewarded, otherwise they are sorry for themselves.
However, how can a person be happy with everything in this lifetime?
Investment may fail, doing business may lose costs, work so hard may not be rewarding... Love is the same, when you meet someone who doesn't have you in your heart, it is useless to pay twelve points of enthusiasm.
And those who are not willing, it is better to become the driving force of life, from the other side to achieve their own.
In "The Forced Landing of Love", Xu Dan, a rich woman, was engaged to the second generation of officials Li Zhenghe for many years, but she never succeeded in cultivating positive results. She lowered her body to see him in Switzerland, and Lee Jung-hyuk couldn't even remember her face.
At first, she was not willing to wait for so many years, but finally she got the answer that he wanted to dissolve the marriage contract. But then I put it down. Compared to a long life, being able to make yourself happy is the most important thing.
Man, I am afraid that I will not be able to live with myself.
Knowing that there is no hopeless love, but always thinking of fighting for yourself again, so that in the end it becomes an obsession, harming others and harming yourself.
Rather, let go freely, wave your hand to confess, and complete the other party.
True love does not necessarily have to be owned by the other person. In fact, he is happy, and you will be happy for him.
Don't be overwhelmed by love, look around for reasons, know that love is not so complicated.
As Zhang Ailing said, no matter how bad your conditions are, there will always be someone who loves you. No matter how good your conditions are, there will always be someone who doesn't love you.
He doesn't love you, it's not your fault.
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