Being alone is an advanced option that will make people happy
A person also lives well
A group of people will not lose themselves
I don't know if you've ever had this thought: "Sometimes I just want to be alone for a while." ”
I tried to change a city and go to a place where no one knew me, and it was good to change my mood.
But after staying in the city for a long time, I think I am very independent, but the reality has become different.
Before that, I didn't know what it was like to be homesick, and I always thought that sooner or later I would have to leave this home and hold up a piece of the sky.
Now that I think about it, I feel that I am simply stupid, but isn't that the child's simple heart?
At this time, you will think of the smell of your hometown, which is the smell that can heal the loneliness of your heart.
Because, after staying out for a long time, the most is when I am alone. Even if you have friends around you, you feel as if you are living alone in this world, and everything around you is not what you want.
No one understands you, no one wants to take the time to really get close to you. Maybe everyone is busy, and sometimes they don't have time to take care of your feelings.
In the confusion at this time, I don't even know which river the distant dream is moored in.
The previous few days of hard work, follow-up seems to soon have no energy to practice, is not going to fall into a deep confusion.
Everything seems to be just like that, with the passage of time, time passes in a hurry, not at all let people taste slowly, but the hair and eyebrows have been light and the rain is lingering with the fragrance of bees and butterflies.
So, it seems that people always have two kinds of appearances. When one person is one person, it is another way, extroversion is a social need, and quiet is self-healing.
The older you get, the lonelier you get, and in a way it's a reality that's hard to avoid.
The previous carnival was a joke for several years, but today's carnival is more like the loneliness of a group of people.
In the past, when I finished the complicated work or was not in a good mood, I would like to go shopping and buy a lot of things.
But then it was found that the momentary pleasure was always a greater emptiness, but when it was time to make a transition for himself without hurrying, what he gained in his heart was a long peace and abundance.
So in recent years, my favorite thing to do is to take the computer to the coffee shop and sit down, often staying all day.
Long tables and high chairs by the window, computer screens with their backs to the crowd. There are slow-paced songs in the headphones, and it seems that the crowd is rushing to keep those moments that touch me in the document.
In fact, the best state of life is that a person also lives a good life, and a group of people will not lose themselves.
Someone loves when they hug each other
Nor do we forget to look for ourselves
There is a saying: "If a person learns to accompany himself, he learns one of the most important life skills in life." ”
In fact, sometimes we confuse the definitions of loneliness and solitude, in fact, loneliness emphasizes a psychological feeling, while solitude is more like a spontaneous choice.
It's good to stay quiet with yourself, listen to songs, do things, watch a niche movie, go out for a walk, it will be easier to open your mind, and then sort out some things that are accumulated in your head.
Loneliness may be the norm in life, and being alone is an advanced option that will make people happy.
It does not mean that every minute and every second is accompanied by someone who will not feel lonely, nor does it mean that most of the time is spent by yourself, and you will definitely feel bored and difficult.
When you are alone, focus on yourself and live seriously; when someone loves, hug each other, and do not forget to look for yourself.
Find your true expectations and love so that you can truly live for yourself.
Now is not a person
Don't forget to set aside "one person's time"
Sometimes I think that there is very little time left for ourselves in this life, and we always have to deal with other things first, and then we can think of ourselves last. But in fact, pleasing yourself is the most important thing.
So, whether you're alone or not, don't forget to set aside "one-person time." First of all, learn to get along with yourself, in order to better face life and get along with people outside of yourself.
Life is never determined by one thing, but by the attitudes and choices you have always had.
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