Author: Muzi sister
The road of life is a journey of fighting monsters and upgrading.
Every time we reach a level, there are always large and small demons that come out to disturb us, we are not Tang monks, and there are no three disciples to help exorcise demons.
You have to rely on yourself for everything.
The Way is:
Ask for everything outwardly, and ask for nothing; ask for everything inward, and have everything.
When encountering problems, it is better to seek others than to seek oneself.
Wang Yangming said that I am self-sufficient and do not ask for anything.
Everyone has a treasure mine waiting to be mined, which contains infinite energy and infinite wisdom.
I personally like meditation, and meditation is the golden shovel I mine for treasure mines.
Through meditation, I can clear my mind and find answers to my questions.
01 Parent-child issues
At work, I want to break through myself, and I try my best and rack my brain to find ways and channels.
Almost all of my mind is on this matter, and when I get home, I don't forget to take my mobile phone to find information, so I completely ignore my children, and even sometimes I get tired of them and avoid them from afar.
A phrase that was once very popular on the Internet:
Holding you, there is no money to support you; letting go of you, can not accompany you.
There is a voice inside:
Wait for me, wait until I get things done, I'll have fun with you.
However, when things can be done well, when is a head, I have no bottom in my heart.
The desire is not stopping, the running is not stopping.
I perceive that this is not a healthy parent-child state, and I should not be like this, but""
I know, but I can't do it. Perhaps, this is also a common problem for many people.
Fortunately, I have a good habit of meditating.
02 Find your own answers
While meditating this morning, I thought that I was currently focusing all my attention on what I thought was important.
Suddenly, a picture appeared in my mind:
One stage where my family and I were the performers on it. While I was performing, the lights shone on me and the rest of the place was dark.
This is undoubtedly my current state.
Suddenly, it was suddenly enlightened.
Life is like a stage play, and the lighting needs to switch back and forth between different characters.
When the protagonist is performing, the lights shine on him, and when others perform, the lights shine on others.
If only the protagonist is always acting, it is just a one-man show.
I go to work during the day and the lights shine on me.
Evening is family time, children need to be accompanied, and the lights need to shine on children.
03 Deep awareness
I am deeply aware of:
If you don't accompany your child now, then let him grow up a little longer, you don't blame him, holding a mobile phone to play all day.
Now he asks for the company of his parents, if we can't do it, when you grow up, you don't blame him for not accompanying you and not listening to you.
Now is a good time to cultivate in the child's heart, if you do not cultivate now, do not blame the child for achieving nothing in the future.
What a profound realization.
The weight of which is more important is clear at a glance.
This time ""!
[Than the heart] give it a thumbs up, and encourage it.
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