When misfortune and calamity come, some people are miserable, self-destructive, chaotic, and completely lose their reason and strength.
Others, on the other hand, are calm and methodical in cleaning up the mess, dealing with the aftermath, and begin to think about the next step.
This kind of calm and calm in the face of danger shows a person's wisdom and pattern, because not to be happy with things and not to be sad with oneself is the supreme realm of being a human being.
Some people achieve a little success and start to show off everywhere, and some people do a little good deed and send a circle of friends.
Some people have been wronged and want to get them back immediately, and some people have suffered losses and hate that the people of the whole world cannot compensate him.
And people who really have a pattern will never do these meaningless things, they will only laugh and do what they have to do.
There are no wonders in the world, but there are very few people who can really see openly, put it down, and live a real and peaceful life.
Calm and calm is a person's supreme realm, and it is often difficult to do without going through hardships and accumulated hardships.
You know, success is not arrogant, defeat is not discouraged, proud and not forget the form, frustrated and not depressed, is a person's best state and performance.
Man does not live to be angry and corrupt, but to be at peace, and if the heart is small, small things will become big things; if the heart is big, big things will become small things.
Don't pay too much attention to other people's opinions and ideas, otherwise you will live a miserable life, lose your heart, and lose yourself.
In life, it is inevitable to take the wrong road several times and do some wrong things, and it is inevitable to correct the attitude and correct the mistakes.
People live to see for themselves, not to live to see others, and they live comfortably and happily.
We should maintain a peaceful mind as much as possible, accept our shortcomings with an open mind, and strive to change.
The road is wide, the heavens and the earth are open, the heart is wide and the sun is shining, be a person with a broad heart, live out the true self, live a rich self, and live a wonderful life.
Life is a rally, winning and losing are temporary, do not have to worry too much about the immediate gains and losses, everything looks far away, think high.
No matter what setbacks you encounter, you are not impatient, not humble, and firmly believe that as long as you work hard, as long as you don't give up, everything will be fine.
Walking in the complex world, we must have a calm and calm heart, calmly face everything that comes to us, and live a beautiful life.
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Wen Ling, a freelance writer, has her works in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is the author's original and reprinted with the author's permission.