Love is a wonderful thing, two similar people often love and kill each other, and different people are fascinated by each other, just like some people compromise in love, and some people talk about winning and losing in love.
Others think that they have nothing to do with each other, but they can spend their lives together, but the gods and immortals in the eyes of others have parted ways. So, what are the signs that even if you like you, you have to pay attention to a winning or losing sign?
01 Leo
There's always been a saying on the Internet that people like me aren't suitable for love because love awakens my possessiveness, suspicion, and ticks off my narrowness, selfishness, and sensitivity, making me and the people I love miserable.
Almost everyone is difficult to control in their feelings, because love is selfish, and the person they like is robbed by others at a glance.
Leo, on the other hand, loses some of his self-control when he first falls in love with someone.
Because I like it, I become casual, domineering, and bold.
But the pride and indomitability in the bones are innate. Therefore, Leo who likes to be in the later stage will become more self-centered, and also like the other party to listen to his own words, so Leo can be said to be a sign with a strong desire to control emotionally.
For lions, love is important, and winning or losing is also important! Leo likes a person who likes to have the courage of King's Landing and the pride of King's Landing.
"Why are you so disobedient", "If you love me, let me win".
These may all be Leo mantras.
02 Gemini
Gemini, you think he's very casual, but he really likes the feeling of being in control.
In Gemini's eyes, I can control you, I can control you, but you can't control me. Because Gemini doesn't want to be held back by anyone at all, that kind of feeling is boring and uninteresting.
And what Gemini likes is the feeling of freedom, the vivid feeling. The desire to control will make Gemini feel at ease in feelings, so people who can give Gemini space and freedom are the conditions for Gemini's heartbeat. "Well, she knows me very well", when Gemini made such an exclamation, Gemini became deeply interested in each other.
Some people like unobstructed openness, and some people like deep perseverance. For the interpretation of love, everyone has everyone's definition. Liking you and giving you freedom is also a kind of love, liking you and wanting to control you is also a kind of love. Love, no matter how high or low, no matter how noble or low!
03 Virgo
We always say that love is not about winning or losing, but in fact, in every relationship, there is always a person who dominates, leading the direction of this relationship and determining the progress and rhythm of this relationship.
Virgo does not look at his indifferent appearance, very reserved, but in the relationship, is also a very possessive and controlling person.
This kind of person, even if he likes a person very much, will not be humble, even if he loves you enough to be willing to go to the soup for you, he must also talk about winning or losing. So Virgo is emotionally awkward.
On the one hand, you want to love him, you want to be good to him, on the other hand, you also have to talk about face, like you, and you also want to talk about winning and losing, so Virgo often thinks: If you love me, then let me win. If I win, I'll let you win.
Maybe the Virgo who is attacked by love, as long as the other party gives a little confidence and security, it is enough for Virgo to give her all.
04 Cancer
Cancer, as a healer, often comforts and comforts others invisibly, often unable to heal himself.
Cancer is fragile, so he has to choose his audience very carefully, love is a gamble and risky.
Imagination and feeling, in Cancer is often very strong, when Cancer to a person's heart, will feel the softness of the heart, want to love, but at the same time their defense mechanism is also very strong, just like the name of Cancer, hiding in a hard shell, lonely and helpless, want to love can not love.
Therefore, Cancer often involuntarily wants to control, control their impulse to love, and control the progress of each other's love. If you're in love with a Cancer, then be sure to take your time, and if you're in love with a Cancer, then you let her win. It's not just the desire to win, it's also the sense of security.
Maybe winning or losing doesn't matter compared to love. The important thing is that when you know the other person wants to win, are you willing to give in? Love is a willing sinking, when I don't love you, winning is instinctive, and when I'm in love with you, letting you win is my instinctive reaction. This is the best love, and the most rare love!