"If I don't see Andy Lau, I will never marry"
This sentence came from a 16-year-old girl, but because of this sentence, her family was scattered and displaced.
This person is Yang Lijuan.
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In 1978, a little girl was born in Agan Town, Gansu Province, and her father named her Yang Lijuan.
At that time, 17-year-old Andy Lau was heavily influenced by his teacher Du Guowei and began to learn about drama.
After Yang Lijuan was born, her father Yang Qinji regarded her as a treasure.
He was a woman in his forties, and he could do anything for her daughter, and the degree of doting was extraordinary.
In 1981, Yang Qinji and his wife moved to Lanzhou City in order to create a better learning environment for their daughter.
Yang Qinji did not hesitate to spend two hours a day commuting to work.
But many people don't know that Yang Qinji is already a celebrity in his hometown.
Yang Qinji is a teacher with a good income, but he has not been married for nearly 40 years.
It wasn't that he didn't want to marry, it was that no one in the neighborhood dared to marry.
Yang Qinji had kissed several girls, but in the end they did not negotiate.
Seeing that Yang Qinji was getting older, her mother intended to let her brother's girlfriend marry Yang Qinji.
Finally the girlfriend was gone, and the brother was crazy.
Since then, Yang Qinji has not been able to find a girlfriend.
Until I met 23-year-old Tao Juying.
Yang Qinji's good conditions impressed Tao Juying's father.
The difference between the two is 14 years, and the huge age difference makes Tao Juying want to quit marriage several times.
However, under the persuasion of Tao Juying's father, the two eventually became husband and wife.
The second year after marriage, Yang Lijuan was born.
As long as it is what her daughter wants, Yang Qinji will steal it when she goes to steal it.
Even when Yang Lijuan was 20 years old, her father Yang Qinji still bathed her and rubbed her back.
Excessive doting makes Yang Lijuan grumpy, and even after adulthood, she is still brutal and willful.
But it was originally an ordinary family,
But after a dream in 1994, it changed.
16-year-old Yang Lijuan suddenly had a dream, there was a painting in the dream, the man on the painting was very handsome.
On both sides of the painting are two sentences: You are particularly close to me, and you and I have a true encounter.
In the nights that followed, Yang Lijuan had this boy in her dreams.
Sometimes they play together.
Sometimes two people will talk to each other like lovers,
Although Yang Lijuan at that time did not know who the boy was,
But in her heart, she already saw the boy as her future husband.
Until one day, she saw Andy Lau's poster at her classmate's place, and suddenly realized that the boy who had walked into her dream was a superstar.
Excited Yang Lijuan and her father said about their dreams,
I don't know if it is the love of the woman's heart, or if there is indeed something, Yang Qinji said that he also had the same dream.
It's just that
After her father said it, Yang Lijuan suddenly had the idea of dropping out of school and chasing stars in her mind.
For the next six months, Yang Lijuan struggled with her parents, and the purpose was to get her father to withdraw from school for herself.
But Yang Lijuan could not do it, Yang Qinji personally came to the school to help Yang Lijuan quit school.
Since then, the father and daughter have gone to a road of no return.
After Yang Lijuan dropped out of school, Yang Qinji also resigned, and in order to support his daughter's star chasing, he took the only 9900 yuan deposit at home to buy Andy Lau posters and tapes for Yang Lijuan.
Yang Lijuan watched all of Andy Lau's movies and hummed all of Andy Lau's songs.
In the end, a bold idea came up with it - to meet Andy Lau.
In Yang Lijuan's view, as long as Andy Lau sees himself, he will definitely marry himself.
In Yang Lijuan's heart, she has long regarded Andy Lau as her "husband".
In the year of Hong Kong's return to the motherland,
Yang Lijuan took the 10,000 yuan raised by her father and embarked on her first star chase.
"As much as the hope, the disappointment is great",
This time Yang Lijuan did not see Andy Lau.
In 2003, Yang Qinji sold the family's only house in order to support his daughter's star chasing, and he and his father lived in a cheap rental house.
When Yang Lijuan was still planning how to meet Andy Lau, she suddenly learned a good news.
In 2004, the filming of "No Thief in the World" began, the crew was going to Gansu to shoot, and Andy Lau would also appear as the main actor.
Yang Lijuan stood outside the window every day for this reason, looking forward to the arrival of Andy Lau.
However, the dream of seeing Andy Lau was shattered again, and until the crew left, she could not see Andy Lau.
It has been 10 years since Yang Lijuan began to chase stars.
Yang Lijuan also grew from 16 years old to 26 years old,
Yang Lijuan's spirit is also on the verge of collapse, she often loses her temper with her father, and even asks his father: "Why didn't she come to see me?" ”
In desperation, Father Yang heard that Andy Lau was going to hold a concert in Beijing.
He took the only one thousand yuan to buy a Zone A ticket for his daughter.
But Yang Lijuan went to the scene and found that she was too far away from the stage and could not get the opportunity to contact Andy Lau.
Unwillingly, Yang Lijuan also took her father to the hotel where Andy Lau lived.
In the end, he was still disappointed.
Just when Yang Lijuan was still immersed in her dream of chasing stars, a bad news came,
Yang Lijuan's mother smashed her leg, and his father took Yang Lijuan's mother to the rental house.
After that, the three of them twisted into a rope together, looking like they didn't give up without seeing Andy Lau.
And Yang Lijuan has also said many times: You don't care about me now, and when I follow Andy Lau, I won't care about you.
Seeing that the situation at home was getting worse and worse, Yang Father did not have much spare money for Yang Lijuan to squander.
So, he thought of selling a kidney to support his daughter's star chasing.
However, after Yang Lijuan knew about this, she did not wake up to this, but said lightly: "I hope you better borrow it."
"Father sells shen for his daughter's dream of chasing stars" A big headline has attracted the attention of the public.
Even when the media interviewed Yang Qinji, Yang Qinji also said: "Remove one, I am still alive, so that I can get a sum of money to meet the doll to find Andy Lau." ”
Therefore, Yang Lijuan's star and Andy Lau have attracted media attention,
Some media have made a big fuss about Yang's father", and some media have begun to squat in Andy Lau's residence.
Seeing that the incident is getting more and more intense,
Andy Lau's agent found Yang Lijuan overnight and persuaded Yang Lijuan to chase the stars rationally.
Andy Lau also publicly responded to this matter: "Asking my father to sell his house and sell Shen to see me is unfaithful and filial piety." ”
But Yang Lijuan did not stop her star-chasing path,
A month later, Yang Lijuan forced her parents to compromise that she must see Andy Lau.
In 2007, with the help of the media, Yang Lijuan finally met Andy Lau.
At Andy Lau's singers' meeting, Yang Lijuan and Andy Lau stood shoulder to shoulder and took photos.
However, the meeting lasted only a few seconds, and Andy Lau did not fall in love with her at first sight.
After Yang Lijuan returned home, she expressed her dissatisfaction and still forced her parents to find a way to see Andy Lau again.
Yang Qinji borrowed the media's lens to shout to Andy Lau again: "Meet with my daughter alone."
But Andy Lau refused this request, and then Yang Qinji actually made a crazy decision: "light life."
The originally peaceful day became complicated by Yang Qinji's death.
Yang Qinji left a suicide note of tens of thousands of words, and Andy Lau's character was also questioned.
Yang Qinji's suicide note mentioned: After 13 years of blood and tears, almost all the lives have been put on, parents for their children to realize this little wish to see you, has given everything they have, debts are high, you have not moved, are you still human?
In a lot of discussion, Andy Lau's career was in a slump, and many people called and scolded Andy Lau for being cruel.
Yang Mu even claimed that her husband could not die in vain.
Andy Lau also held a press conference afterwards, saying that this matter had a great impact on him and was seeing a psychologist, but Yang Lijuan, he would not see again in this life.
Perhaps it was her father's death and Andy Lau's attitude that woke up Yang Lijuan, and she finally returned to her hometown in Lanzhou with her mother, and burned all the memories of and chasing Star Andy Lau.
Yang Lijuan also cried out to her father in tears, "I did not force you to die."
However, Yang Qinji could no longer hear it.
After her father's death, Yang Lijuan frantically accused the star of selfishness and indifference, and also sued Andy Lau, asking him to compensate himself millions.
It was finally rejected by the court.
Since then, Yang Lijuan has disappeared from the public eye.
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After 15 years, how is Yang Lijuan doing?
In 2014, everyone met Yang Lijuan on TV, and at this time, Yang Lijuan had regained her composure, and she warned everyone not to lose themselves because of star chasing.
At the end of the show, Yang Lijuan bent down deeply and said goodbye to the past.
In 2019, Lu Yu interviewed 42-year-old Yang Lijuan and came to the low-cost housing rented by Yang Lijuan and her mother.
The room is very simply furnished, a coffee table, sofa, bed, the floor is cement floor.
Although she is 42 years old, she still has no boyfriend and is not married.
Yang Lijuan, 44, is still not married, and she is still dependent on her mother, taking a salary of 3,000 yuan a month and doing ordinary work.
The staff around her all commented on Yang Lijuan as a kind person, and now it seems that Yang Lijuan has matured a lot.
But when it comes to Andy Lau, Yang Lijuan still wants to see him again.
But between words, Yang Lijuan had a hint of resentment towards Andy Lau.
When she talked about her father, a trace of sadness flashed on her face.
Lu Yu asked Yang Lijuan why her temper had improved.
Yang Lijuan was silent, but when File Luyu said, "Because the person who made you lose your temper is gone",
Yang Lijuan seriously flashed a trace of tears.
Yang Lijuan's approach is difficult for many people to understand, but her experience has sounded a wake-up call for us.
Excessive coddling and blind star-chasing destroy not only children, but probably an entire family.
Liu Dehua repaid the 11,000 yuan loan to Yang Lijuan, which is already the end of benevolence and righteousness.
He never saw Yang Lijuan for the rest of his life, but it was the only medicine that made Yang Lijuan sober.
It's just that when people are gone, they are really gone, cherish the people in front of you, and don't regret it after losing it.