After Sanmao and Jose got married, they would write a letter to their mother-in-law every week, however, she wrote for half a year and did not receive a reply. Suddenly, Jose said, "We have to go back to see Mom." Sanmao was startled: "Your mother, or my mother?" Jose blinked, "It's our mom." ”
Christmas Day is the "Spring Festival" in Spain, and it is natural that Jose will go back to visit his mother.
Sanmao was very reluctant to go, after all, she and Jose were married, and neither parent appeared.
Regardless of the country, this is very rude.
Although, Jose's family is very strange, 4 girls and 1 son married, without prior consultation with their parents. Jose and Sanmao married, it was his parents who gave 1 day's notice in advance, and his eldest sister wrote to his parents after getting married, and his second sister sat in front of her parents and quietly authorized the Columbia Church in South America to marry remotely across the ocean.
Fortunately, the marriages of these children are very happy, but as parents, they are naturally very angry when they are hidden.
They will not blame their sons, but they may not be angry with Sanmao as daughter-in-law.
Sanmao is a very spirited writer and has a great insight into human nature, so after marriage, she will write letters to both parents every week as a rule set in the morning and evening, in order to bear the sin of Jing.
Jose's father was very soft-hearted, and soon after Sanmao wrote the letter, he corresponded with Sanmao.
But the mother-in-law is different, Sanmao wrote for half a year, and she has not replied to a letter.
Fortunately, Emperor Shangao, Sanmao and Jose settled in the Sahara Desert, and even if the mother-in-law was not satisfied with her, it could not hinder her daily life.
However, winter came, and Jose suddenly said that he wanted to go home and have a look.
Sanmao panicked, tried to get a cecalitis in early December, hernia pain, stomach bleeding, bronchitis... But no matter how hard she tried, on December 20, Jose carried a suitcase and took her on a plane to Madrid.
Arriving at the airport, Jose's friends and family did not come to pick them up.
Sanmao was relieved, but he refused to leave at the airport.
She sat in the café for a long time, drank 3 sodas, and was still stuffed into the taxi by Jose. In the car, she secretly slandered herself: how can the E. coli in the soda not give me the whole acute enteritis!
Arriving at the door, Sanmao took a deep breath and said to Jose, "When you knock on the door, you say we have arrived." “
As she spoke, she couldn't help but tremble slightly in her legs, and her heart jumped out even more nervously.
It was the first time she had seen her mother-in-law.
But Jose didn't understand her little nine-nine, so he took out the key and opened the door.
Then he strode in, shouting as he walked, "Dad, Mom, we're back." “
It's completely different from what you think!
Sanmao was directly confused, standing at the door and did not dare to move, until a large group of people in the house rushed out, including father-in-law, mother-in-law, sister-in-law...
Then, she was taken into her arms by her mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law and Yan Yuexi looked at her smiling and squinting, but Sanmao did not dare to relax, and quickly apologized: "Father, mother, I have done something very sorry for you." “
She apologized for not informing her in-laws in advance of her marriage.
Moreover, she was careful in her wording, using "I" instead of "we."
In the words of Sanmao, "How can a son be guilty in the hearts of his parents?" He was abducted by me. “
Although the mother-in-law smiled and squinted, Sanmao knew that the woman in front of her was still angry with her, but the good upbringing made her not have a seizure.
At her mother-in-law's house, Sanmao was very cautious.
Every morning, when her mother-in-law got up, she got up in a hurry, and she absolutely did not dare to sleep lazily;
After getting up, she washed and brushed her teeth in a hurry, and then grabbed a rag and a broom before her mother-in-law;
She even took care of the Christmas dinner alone, making meals for 37 people, making sweet and sour meat, stir-fried offal, sauce fried duck...
After eating, she hurriedly cleaned up the pots and pans, and did not dare to relax at all.
Her efforts were rewarding, and when she left, her mother-in-law held her in her arms and couldn't help but cry: "Son! You'll have to come back soon!" The desert is too bitter, here is your home. Mom misunderstood you before and now loves you. “
Sanmao breathed a sigh of relief, she heard it, and the word "mother" came out, which meant that the previous stereotypes had disappeared.
But this Christmas day was too tiring.
As soon as she got home, Sanmao complained to Jose, she said, "I'm crazy, since I entered your house, I lost myself, I also lost you..."
Jose didn't understand.
He said confusedly: "They love you so much, love more than I expected, you are not satisfied?" You see, they eat the paste you make every day and don't complain a word..."
At this time, Sanmao opened the gift given to her by her mother-in-law, which was a thick copy of the "Spanish Spring, Summer, Autumn and Winter Seasons of Dishes".
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Even a transparent woman like Sanmao will also encounter problems with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so it can be seen that how to get along with her mother-in-law is a trouble for many girls.
However, although Sanmao was terrified, in the text she recorded, she could also see her enjoyment in addition to struggle.
Suddenly, I remembered a sentence - "What is active life?" The first is the hot pillow of visiting the known environment; the second is the courage to detect the unknown environment; the third is to find fun in oneself and the mediation of the environment. ”
I think Sanmao is indeed a woman who lives an active life.
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