Everyone has their own dreams, some want to be scientists, some want to be doctors, some want to be soldiers, some people want to be bosses. Everyone who has a dream is great, but the corresponding thing is that they need to pay more efforts to realize their dreams step by step.
I remember when I was a kid, we would often be asked what your dream was. At that time, we almost did not hesitate to say the dream in our hearts, although we did not know how difficult it was to realize this dream, but we really hoped that it would be realized.
The dream is also divided into the so-called "tall" and ordinary differences, and for parents, naturally hope that their children's dreams are more "tall", and they can realize their higher value through their own efforts.
But people have their own aspirations, some children's dreams are indeed very simple, but he really likes such a life, so at this time, should parents support their children's dreams? Or is it strenuously opposed?
In this regard, we may wish to take a look at the practice of this parent in Guangdong.
Guangdong YiMengwa dreamed of being a cleaner, and her father responded by attracting praise from netizens
Youniu (pseudonym) is a little girl who attends kindergarten in Guangdong, and once in the process of reading fairy tale books at home, you suddenly told her father that she wanted to work as a cleaner in the future.
When he heard about her dream, her father was still a little surprised, but then he gently asked his daughter why.
She replied, "Because the cleaners can sweep the floor, our planet will be cleaner." ”
This response of the girl made the father feel very pleased, because her daughter was very kind at heart and had a strong sense of environmental protection since she was a child.
However, as we all know, there is still a certain gap between the job of cleaner and the so-called "tall" dreams, so most parents will not want their children to engage in this job, but hope that their children can play their own value on a higher and broader stage in the future.
However, the father of the girl did not directly deny her daughter's dream, but made some suggestions along the lines of her daughter's words.
Daddy said:
"Being a cleaner requires a lot of hard work, so you have to get into the habit of being industrious now."
"In addition to being industrious, you need a lot of energy, so you have to be active in eating now."
In this way, following the words of her daughter, her father put forward two good suggestions to cultivate the child's good living habits.
After listening to her father's advice, she will also subconsciously pay attention to the cultivation of these aspects of ability, because from her father's mouth, she knows that if she wants to realize her dreams in the future, she needs to be more diligent and need to eat well.
Therefore, many netizens have praised the response of the mother's father, because he did not directly deny his daughter and discourage her enthusiasm, but also took this opportunity to let her daughter develop good living habits, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
In fact, many parents can learn like your father, because there is no right or wrong in dreams, there is no high or low, as long as you have a dream in your heart, and you have been working hard to get closer to your dream, then this is a great behavior, we should give encouragement and support.
And we often say "360 lines, lines out of the yuan", so some of the professions that we were not particularly optimistic about at that time, as long as through hard work, they can be more brilliant. The key is that when you are engaged in a job that you are interested in, you will have more motivation and a sense of accomplishment in your heart, and it is easier to do some achievements in this position.