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China's "first" sexologist Li Yinhe, married Wang Xiaobo, after marriage she said: "I came to support the family"

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In 1997, at the age of 45, Wang Xiaobo died young and died at home without warning of heart failure, and after his wife Li Yinhe went abroad to study, Wang Xiaobo was at home alone.

In the middle of the night, the downstairs neighbors heard Wang Xiaobo's several screams, at that time they did not care too much, the next day at three o'clock in the afternoon, they found that Wang Xiaobo had died, when he was curled up in the corner of the wall, there were many fallen off wall ash on the ground, and there was a blood mark on his gums.

China's "first" sexologist Li Yinhe, married Wang Xiaobo, after marriage she said: "I came to support the family"

No one knows what kind of torment he went through in the last hour or so of his life.

At that time, because Wang Xiaobo's brother and sister were abroad, his friend Hu Bei took the initiative to help with the funeral.

After the memorial service, they sent Wang Xiaobo's body to be cremated, who expected that the normal machine pressed the switch and did not respond.

The staff took one look at it and said to Hube, "Please do yourself a favor and put this gentleman's foot in."

Hu Bei found out that Wang Xiaobo was too tall, so his feet were exposed.

Once it's put back in, the machine is normal.

The people present could not cry, and they all said that Xiaobo was reluctant to leave.

Looking back at Wang Xiaobo's short life, life is like the splendor of summer flowers, and death is like the quiet beauty of autumn leaves.

He met Li Yinhe in 1977, when Li Yinhe was the editor of the Beijing Daily, and the two became acquainted with Wang Xiaobo's essay "The Green Haired Water Monster."

China's "first" sexologist Li Yinhe, married Wang Xiaobo, after marriage she said: "I came to support the family"

Li Yinhe was attracted by his talent, but after seeing his appearance, her heart was a little lost, in her opinion, Wang Xiaobo was too ugly.

Wang Xiaobo did not think so, he fell in love with Li Yinhe at first sight, and confessed his heart at the second meeting, after learning that Li Yinhe did not have a boyfriend, he was overjoyed and immediately asked: "What do you think of me?" ”

Li Yinhe thought in his heart, "You look so ugly, don't dream." ”

After being rejected, Wang Xiaobo was not discouraged, and he who was a master of seducing his sister forced the impossible into a possibility.

China's "first" sexologist Li Yinhe, married Wang Xiaobo, after marriage she said: "I came to support the family"

Li Yinhe thought he was ugly, so he said: You should go to the zoo to see, am I better looking than those reptiles? Besides, you're not that good-looking.

The other party was still unmoved, and he said: "Every time I think of you, my ugly face will smile." ”

Still unmoved, then start to express your determination: "If you don't like others, I will cry, but I will still like you." 」 ”

Already shaken, he added, "We should be together, otherwise it would be too unreasonable." ”

In this way, this interesting "ugly man" made Li Yinhe completely fall, and the two loved each other inseparably.

China's "first" sexologist Li Yinhe, married Wang Xiaobo, after marriage she said: "I came to support the family"

In 1980 the two simply held a wedding.

Wang Xiaobo is not a professional writer of novels, he studied science and can also program. In the many photos left by Wang Xiaobo. One was one that he was sitting in front of that big pimple-like computer and programming it, which was impressive.

Not very strong, science men cross-line writing, but also write so powerful.

Wang Xiaobo can be said to be a master of writing, and his first novel that is more out of the circle is called "Green Hairy Water Monster". The novel was very popular in Beijing's editorial circles at the time.

China's "first" sexologist Li Yinhe, married Wang Xiaobo, after marriage she said: "I came to support the family"

In 1992, Li Yinhe said to him: "You are so smart, just quit your job and concentrate on writing novels, I will earn money to support my family." "Just such a masterpiece of the Golden Age" was completed in that year.

This is a work that Wang Xiaobo spent nearly 20 years polishing, but the process of publishing it was full of twists and turns, because "Golden Age" Wang Xiaobo used a lot of ink to describe the love of the beautiful female doctor Chen Qingyang and the male and female love of Wang Er, who went to the countryside to know Qingqing, so he was attacked as vulgar and frivolous.

China's "first" sexologist Li Yinhe, married Wang Xiaobo, after marriage she said: "I came to support the family"

It sounds ironic, but this set of "Golden Age", which is considered to be Xiao Huang's book, was sealed overnight after Xiao Bo's death, and it spread all over the country, selling more than 10 million copies in just 3 months.

After I saw "Golden Age" at a friend's house, I borrowed it to watch it 2 times, but I was not addicted, and I bought the other two copies of "A Maverick Pig" and "The Silent Majority" to read it a full 3 times, only to find that the original classic is a classic because they all describe the eternal human nature.

Feng Tang said: "The Golden Age is a masterpiece that summarizes philosophy, economy, officialdom, and people's hearts, and it is the beginning of a business book that is incredibly good. ”

Ma Yun said: "The Golden Age five-part corresponding to the three stages of life, including Buddha, Tao, Zen, Yi, and Miao! ”

The ghost talent Jia Pingwa said: "The Golden Age Five" is better than my "Waste Capital" and "Temporary Sitting", and equal to Lu Yao's "Ordinary World".

China's "first" sexologist Li Yinhe, married Wang Xiaobo, after marriage she said: "I came to support the family"

Whether you are an entrepreneur with a successful career, or a white-collar worker working hard in the workplace, you can look at Wang Xiaobo's classic five-part, when encountering various troubles and confusion, think about Wang Xiaobo's solution, the first reading ~ make people laugh, read again ~ make people cry, three reads ~ make people sober!

At every point in your life, every time you feel exhausted and out of breath, there will always be a Chen Qingyang and a Wang Er who suddenly jump out and give you oxygen. This is the enduring charm of human nature.

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