When Song Dandan appeared in the TV series "Beautiful Love for You" with a silver hair style, netizens began to sigh: it turned out that she had also reached the age of playing her grandmother.
Indeed, watching Song Dandan mingle with young people in recent years in popular topics such as "Strange Story" and "Fifty Kilometers peach blossom wood", people have long forgotten that she is an old artist over sixty years old.
Career is in full swing, and life is happy. Although the divorce with Yingda was full of storms, she became a happy woman here in her current husband Zhao Yuji, and the two were still like glue for 20 years.
Seeing Song Dandan, who has a double harvest in love, can't help but remind people of another actress who has faded from people's sight: Zhao Mingming.
Young people may not have heard her name, but she is a lot of white moonlight after 70 and 80. In that era when there was no medical beauty and no retouching, Zhao Mingming had already suppressed everyone without applying powder, and was recognized by everyone as the "first beauty in ancient costumes".
Under her interpretation, Zhao Feiyan, who has a red face and a troubled water, and the simple and pure village girl, are vivid and moving under her interpretation, and have become an indelible classic in the hearts of a generation.
Zhao Mingming and Song Dandan have many similarities: they are both actresses who were very popular in the 90s, and they were abandoned after marrying the Ying family brothers during the rising period of their careers. But now, one career love double harvest, one has become a single mother, fading out of the show business circle. The circumstances are so different, perhaps from the personalities of the two people can be glimpsed one or two.
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1983 was a turning point for the 23-year-old Song Dandan.
That year, the first love of 5 years left her, and she was not willing to continue to be trapped by love, and she was determined to start her career. Relying on her extraordinary talent and the real strength in her bones, in just one year, her career was really supported by her.
In 1984, Song Dandan won the first prize of the Ministry of Culture for his outstanding performance in the drama "Red and White Happy Event". It was the first award of her acting career.
The following year, she won the "Feitian Award for Best Actress" for the TV series "Finding the World Back", and her big-screen debut "Crescent Moon" won an international award. Her acting career has been soaring, and she seems to have been born to eat the bowl of rice of the actor.
During this period, Song Dandan also had a marriage, but the passion came and went quickly, and after only one year, the two parted ways. It wasn't until 1987 that Song Dandan met the man who had influenced her life.
At that time, on the rehearsal stage of the new Beijing renyi play "Arsonist", she met Yingda, who had just returned from the United States. Both had a short marriage, and they also loved their acting careers, and their feelings heated up rapidly.
In 1989, the 29-year-old Song Dandan became the happiest woman. Do your favorite business and marry the man you love the most. But she didn't know at the time that such happiness was fleeting.
After marriage, Song Dandan's career continued to hang, and a number of sketches cooperated with Huang Hong were deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and he won awards and won soft hands.
But what the people of the whole country do not know is that this comedy queen, who makes the audience laugh on the stage, suffers cold violence in marriage offstage.
Yingda, who was born into a famous family, is a young master with ten fingers that does not touch the spring water of the yang, and she can handle all the big and small things in the family. Sometimes a little bit of inadequacy, it will be counted down by Indah.
But in Song Dandan's emotional dictionary, since you love someone, you must give it wholeheartedly. At that time, she admired Indah's talent, so even if Indah treated her like this, she was willing.
Perhaps the favored people have no fear, and Song Dandan's efforts are not exchanged for Yingda's pity, but quarrels and cold violence. When she finally realized that marriage was not a person's effort, the relationship between the two had long since drifted apart.
In 1993, "I Love My Home" pushed Song Dandan and Yingda's career to a peak, and also made their marriage fall to the bottom. Because of this drama, Yingda and screenwriter Liang Huan secretly have a relationship. The triangle plot of dog blood, a fight is three years, and finally Song Dandan can't stand loneliness, red apricots out of the wall, this marriage ended dismal.
Nearly ten years of emotional torture have exhausted Song Dandan, but heaven has brought a new turning point in her life.
Six months after divorcing Yingda, Song Dandan met Zhao Yuji, a divorced businessman who was 7 years older than him, through the introduction of friends. In this mature and stable man, Song Dandan got the long-desired love.
She has always dared to love and hate, and she also played a straight ball this time, and the two met for 28 days and decided to stay together for life.
This was Song Dandan's third marriage, but it was the first time she was held in the palm of her hand, when she was 37 years old, and she was spoiled as a 17-year-old girl here in Zhao Yuji.
In this reorganization, the atmosphere in the family is also particularly harmonious. Zhao Yuji regards Batuu as his own, and Song Dandan also mingles with Zhao Yuji's daughter and even becomes friends with her ex-wife. This time, Song Dandan, who has experienced ups and downs on the love road, finally found his Mr. Right.
At that time, Zhao Yuji had been in the mall for many years and had accumulated tens of millions of net worth. But Song Dandan did not live the life of a rich wife leisurely after marriage, and the enterprising heart that was not willing to fall behind pushed her forward step by step.
In 1999, the sketch "Yesterday, Today, Tomorrow" with Zhao Benshan pushed Song Dandan's career to another peak. The classic image of "white clouds and black earth" is still talked about today.
In the years that followed, she shifted her career focus to film and television works, and starred in the sitcom "Family with Children" to accompany a generation of people to grow up.
It is worth mentioning that after marriage, Song Dandan still maintained economic independence. In order to let Batuu get a better education, Song Dandan sent him to study in Britain, and she paid for several years of tuition and living expenses. Even in those days when he couldn't receive the play, he didn't ask Zhao Yuji for a penny.
In this way, this strong woman has made her career flourish, and she has also run a happy family with her own gentleness.
In 2016, the I Love My Family crew reunited after 23 years, and people did not wait for Song Dandan's familiar figure, but unexpectedly saw Zhao Mingming, who had faded out of the public eye for a long time.
That year, Zhao Mingming was forty-six years old, less beautiful in his youth and more calm after washing away the lead. The aura on the body is long gone, and if it is not deliberately mentioned, it is as ordinary as a passerby passing by.
The more people lament her current situation, the more they miss the classics she created in those years.
Back in 1992, Zhao Mingming, a recent graduate, made two choices.
Her first choice, without signing an agency, went it alone, and with her unique charm, received the drama "Woman Is Not the Moon" and was nominated for the TV Golden Eagle Best Actress Award through outstanding performance.
In the play, she almost appeared in the film with a vegan face, conquered the audience with her natural beauty, and vividly interpreted the purity and shyness of the village girl with vivid acting skills. Overnight, the image of Zhao Mingming's pure jade woman was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
That year, Zhao Mingming's second choice was to enter the marriage hall with his university lover Yingning. Marriage in the rising period of career, even if it is placed today, few female stars dare to do it, but at that time, the two were very affectionate, despite the opposition of their families, they also wanted to be with Yingning.
In the hard days when they first got married, the two supported each other, and their love was stronger than Gold.
As Zhao Mingming became famous overnight and took the initiative to find a scene that came to the door, Yingning was willing to become his wife's agent, and the large and small film contracts were handled by him.
Under the control of Yingning, Zhao Mingming's acting road is getting smoother and smoother. In 1993, she made a cameo appearance in cousin Yingda's sitcom "I Love My Home", and although she played the fashionable female college student Jia Xiaofan, although she did not play much, it caused a high degree of national discussion.
In 1995, she starred in the film "Phalaenopsis Orchid" directed by Liu Shuliang, in which the fresh and unworldly image of Bai Huilan, a national female student, made Zhao Mingming promoted to "Goddess of the Republic of China".
But what really pushed Zhao Mingming to the top was 1997's "Han Palace Feiyan". In order to play Zhao Feiyan in "Yan Thin Ring Fat", Zhao Mingming, who is prone to fat physique, went on hunger strike for several months, and the height of 166 was reduced to more than 80 pounds. Her face was haggard and she almost fainted several times, but it was this soft and weak look that helped her successfully shape the role of Zhao Feiyan. Bright eyes and bright teeth with sickness, every smile is pitiful.
Years later, Tong Liya also played this role. But in the hearts of many people, they still only recognize Zhao Feiyan, played by Zhao Mingming.
With the popularity of "Han Palace Feiyan", for a time, the covers of major magazines were zhao Mingming's figure, and her acting career finally ushered in a highlight moment.
Careers are getting busier, but it also means less and less time at home. Her marriage to Yingning is superficially glue-like, but in fact it hides a crisis.
At the turn of the millennium, Yingning once said this about their marriage in an interview with the media:
I received a call from Ming Ming very early today, her state of mind is generally similar to mine, and she has a sharp mind! After pouring out her thoughts to each other, she brought the 'bad news' that she might not go home during the Spring Festival. Last year's Spring Festival, she filmed the TV series "Where is the Moon Round" in Toronto, Canada, and this year she filmed the TV series "Love in the Sea". What do parents think at home? I don't know, long live understanding.
When she returned, punish her for singing "A Letter from the Family" 10 times!
Yingning's words revealed his thoughts and love for his wife, but his complaints could be faintly read between the lines.
Due to the long period of filming outside, the two had to accept a long-distance relationship. In the end, they did not resist the test of long-distance love, and soon after, this marriage of "love is stronger than gold" ended with Yingning's cheating.
It is said that when the two divorced, the daughter was just born. But how sweet Yingning loved her, how desperate she was when she left. He walked towards Xin Huan's arms without turning his head, leaving Zhao Mingming's mother and daughter living alone.
After the divorce, Zhao Mingming also slowed down in her career, in fact, with the fame and resources she has accumulated over the years, it is not difficult to want a red in the end, but she chooses to fade out of people's sight step by step.
Once, because she was too busy with her career to spend well with her family, now she has to spend more time with her daughter growing up. Even though the path of a single mother is difficult, she still goes on without hesitation.
Quit show business when your career is in full swing, and divorce may just be an opportunity. Director Liu Shuliang, who is familiar with her, once said: "She can't play a bad woman, and she has hoped to live the life of an ordinary woman since she was a child." ”
Zhao Mingming's gentle and subtle, non-contentious personality may really not be able to maintain evergreen in the showbiz circle of fame and profit like the competitive Song Dandan.
Now this pair of former concubines, a fame and fortune, a dashing life; a far away from the noisy entertainment circle, living an ordinary little life. In the eyes of outsiders, it is a world of difference, but the son is not a fish to know the joy of fish?
Success is a kind of happiness, plain and simple. No matter what kind of way of living, life is what they want to be. The Ying brothers were the robbery of their lives, but after they passed, the two women lived more thoroughly.
Regardless of whether they can still be seen on the screen in the future, those classic roles they have created with their youth and acting skills will be lingering classics in film history.
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