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Life is really impermanent.
Gathering and dispersing, really follow the fate.
Once you, perhaps with hope and longing, you who have walked through half your life will have more emotions and vicissitudes.
As you get older, you will find that many things, you are really powerless, many obstacles, really have to go with the flow, many people, really want to gather and disperse with fate.
Because when the water arrives, it can be naturalized; the twisted melon is indeed not sweet.
In this lifetime, it is difficult for people to grow "wise" without going through things, and if they do not work hard, they will never know where their future is.
Therefore, if in the present moment, when your "things" have not yet been accomplished, take your time, don't panic, don't be too purposeful, and let yourself be at ease with the situation; if in the present moment, your heart is like a fire, and you are working hard for the goal, then sink your heart, whether it is success or failure, let yourself have an open-minded and optimistic heart.
Fate sometimes has to have it, and fate must not demand it at any time.
Know that it is yours, and the whirlwind will come to you; not yours, with all your heart, will also leave you and turn your back on you.
Whether you like it or not, the years are like this, in the dark, they are all fixed.
In the change of time, no one cares about the sadness in your eyes, and no one pays attention to the warmth and coldness of your life, only your inner affirmation of yourself and your persistence in the future.
So don't panic, let everything go naturally, and believe that God has his own arrangements.
-02-
The fate between people is written on the Three Stones and has long been written.
The person who truly loves you, he will come to you with his warmth and love, and the person who does not love you, if he wants to leave you, you can't stay.
Therefore, in this life, no matter who you meet, don't rush to confess everything, not to mention so many sea oaths, you know, in love, the more you go with the flow, the more you can meet true love.
No matter who you meet, no matter who you miss, don't be too attached, let everything follow the fate, and feel at ease.
Don't hold on to the past, don't put your heart in the future, cherish the people who are holding your hand and holding umbrellas with you.
The passage of time consumes only time, but it will precipitate the truest and most beautiful emotions.
The waves are floating and sinking, passing by is only bustling, but you will find the person who loves you the most when you are most lonely and bleak.
Fate is like a river, since you can't grasp it, you may wish to go down the river and float calmly. If one day the person leaves, don't hold on to it, suffer yourself, it is difficult to empty your heart for others, and you can wait until a new unexpected encounter.
It is true love, and it must be able to withstand the ordinary flow of years.
-03-
Man, this life is always constantly losing.
Parents will grow old, children will grow up and stay away, you want to keep, you will only be unable to do anything, nothing can change, can only choose to accept.
Years pass, and everyone is torn between gain and loss.
A lot of blank space, so that you can't feel it, too late to figure it out, there is already a thick ink and light color, the only constant is that we have been stumbling and walking, all the way up and down.
Therefore, fame and fortune are all predestined arrangements of heaven, don't fight, fight around, it is all an emptiness.
Just like in "The Biography of Zhen Huan", every woman wants to fight for a place for herself, but in the end, everyone only has a desolate heart and a desolate face.
We are not poets, we cannot depict each season the romance of "facing the sea, spring blossoming"; we are not singers, we cannot live every day to the heroism of "being a rushing wave".
Therefore, cherishing the present, living well in the present, and doing a good job in front of you is the best explanation for life.
-04-
There will always be countless conflicts between people and people.
Just because everyone feels that they are extraordinary, it is difficult to think from the perspective of others.
Buddhism emphasizes enlightenment.
The so-called enlightenment is actually to understand things, understand people's feelings, have a kind ordinary heart, and then be able to look down on it wisely and see everything in the world.
Therefore, when encountering anyone's provocation and encountering others' dislikes of you, don't pay attention to your heart, you know, people who know how to appreciate can be appreciated by others; people with good intentions can treat others with kindness.
Don't live in the eyes of others, we are all just a grain of dust in the universe of stars and seas, learn to be kind, learn to be grateful, in order to save ourselves blessings.
Don't take a critical eye, look for shortcomings from others, and blindly want to prove that "you are better than him", so that you are just limiting yourself to forced.
"Ru loves people, and people love them forever."
The ancients always liked to say that seeing the wise and thinking together means to use an appreciative heart to humbly associate with others.
Don't be vicissitudes for a long time, just forget that you want to live really, there will always be many uncertainties in life, want to avoid some malice, only to accept it naturally, expand your height.
-05-
Mr. Yang Dai once said:
A lot of things you try your best, it's enough, don't embarrass yourself, everyone will have a difficult time, don't torture yourself, everything will pass.
In this world, there are too many surprises, there are too many pretends to be strong, do not let some unnecessary people and things, to occupy your emotions, life is not bitter, bitter is to think too much, do too little.
We need a life that is not complicated and simple, we need no more and no less to have, we need to move forward without hurry, the simpler you are, the more inclusive you are, the more comfortable you live, the more you can feel more warmth.
In the "Six Records of Floating Life", it is said: Life is hard, it is short and long, but it is not dry and prosperous, and it is difficult to gain and lose.
Everyone is tossing and turning between ideals and reality, everyone is a strong person of time, everyone must taste the taste of life, so the years are made into subtraction, so that the red cherry, the green plantain's time, has its own cause and effect.
The long road is long, and there must be light in the heart to illuminate the future, and only in the dark can you light a long lamp for yourself.
The beauty of life lies in having hope, being able to enjoy the flowers in spring, listening to the rain in summer, watching the mountains red in autumn, and watching the snow in winter, so that different times, in your eyes, have different beautiful views.
A visit on earth, it was all worth it.
A good day is to let everything go naturally, there is a new life at sunrise, a gentle sunset, a feeling in the heart, and a taste of life.
For the rest of your life, may everyone be able to live well, love well, not be in a hurry, and go with the flow, knowing that all heaven has its own arrangements.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!