Author: Dream Deer
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Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian's divorce came so suddenly that when everyone was still immersed in the joy of Valentine's Day, she suddenly announced the news of her return to singleness on social platforms, and then immediately responded accordingly through her studio.
As the other party in the marriage, Zhang Yujian also mentioned Wu Qian for the first time in his social platform.
Maybe everyone has long been accustomed to celebrity divorce, but soon the comments of the two to social platforms have become polarized.
Everyone supports Wu Qian's divorce and hopes that she can regain her career, after all, she has a good face and talent, and there is no need to imprison herself because of marriage and love.
Compared with the carnival of netizens under Wu Qian's social platform, Zhang Yujian's social platform is not so elegant, netizens one-sidedly accuse this man of not taking responsibility, so that his former wife Wu Qian suffered a lot of grievances, and more netizens said that he was a "lower head man" and "second-hand man".
The marriage between these two people was actually not optimistic from the beginning.
When the two were together, Wu Qian's acting career was already on the right track and had little success, but the man Zhang Yujian was still a second- and third-line actor.
When the whole world knows that the two are together, Zhang Yujian still constantly emphasizes his single personality in the show.
Finally, when the reporter took a video of Wu Qian going out to play with her child, he had no choice but to stand up and admit it.
The statement at that time did not mention his wife Wu Qian, but still used the word child.
If you look closely, you will find that this response is full of disrespect, not only to the reporter, but also to his wife Wu Qian.
The subtext seems to be "blame you for having to take your kids out to dinner, this is good to be photographed, and the result is that I have to come out and admit that the relationship between us has affected my future career and development."
After all, in the entertainment industry, whether it is an actor or an actress, unmarried and childless is the best stage for their careers to rise.
In this failed marriage, Zhang Yujian is not a good man, at least he is not responsible and very selfish, but wu Qian really suffered grievances in this marriage and decided to divorce and engage in a career?
Maybe, not so!
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She once talked about her own concept of love in a public interview, she said: Love is indispensable in life; love is the only one who can accompany you for a lifetime, and the only person who really accompanies you to the end is the one.
Yes, she is indeed a love brain, and indeed regards love as an indispensable part of life, so she will resolutely marry Zhang Yujian and have a daughter in the rising period of her career, and will continue to lower her posture and dignity in this relationship.
Even if the "formalities are complete", still let the husband set up a single person outside, in order not to affect his hard-won career to choose a hidden marriage.
This is the understanding of marriage and love for every young girl who is full of expectations for love.
For the sake of love, she can become very humble, and she can let go of everything she once cherished incomparably. Just like when Wu Qian's career was in full swing, she gave up her career, put down her dignity and tried to wait for love, but in the end she did not get a happy ending, but only let her see through the truth of love and marriage.
As Li Bihua wrote in "Rouge Buckle":
"This is love, probably ten million people only have a pair of Liang Zhu, can turn into butterflies, the others only into moths, cockroaches, mosquitoes, flies, scarab beetles." 」
She also fully understood from this marriage that marriage is not only love is enough, but also requires mutual respect and mutual understanding. Understand better that love is not immutable, but will slowly fade with the passage of time, and finally can only become friends.
Although understanding this truth made her waste the most precious years of actresses, so that she missed the most dazzling years in the rising period of her career, after this failed marriage, she also completely let go of her attachment to love, feelings, and careers, and the whole person also got new growth.
But it is undeniable that she really loved Zhang Yujian at that time, and the photos of pregnancy fully explained her mood at that time.
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2 days after Wu Qian's divorce was officially announced, her social platform is still active, and there are many worried netizens urging her to make a comeback as soon as possible to engage in her career.
After all, the best way to heal from an injury in a relationship is to focus all your attention on your career.
However, will she really focus all her attention on her career and return to the peak moment before marriage, as these netizens wish?
Perhaps, netizens are going to be disappointed.
In an interview in the early years, Wu Qian once said:
She likes this state very much, long looking forward to a stable set hotel in a place, two points and one line is actually a bit like going to school, I think I like this state of life, very comfortable.
To sum up, Wu Qian is not a very enterprising strong woman, very Buddhist.
Whether it is marriage or career, or future life, she has no deliberate requirements, only hopes to have a particularly comfortable life, both come and go.
This probably explains why he chose to marry and have children during the period of making his career rise.
Aside from the little emotional budding of the young girl, what he wants is to follow the steps, follow the heart, and live without the slightest waves.
When she was disappointed in her marriage and chose to leave, her personality will not be as expected by the majority of netizens, putting all her mind on her career and striving to reach a certain height.
Yes, because this marriage has indeed given her a new growth and understanding of relationships and life, but the choice of life is determined by personality.
Wu Qian's indisputable personality has created the current situation of life.
Watching his official declaration that he was single again, smiling and taking photos with his daughter, you can see that he is enjoying the current state of life first.
Yes, too.
In the "Cautionary Tale", it is written: "The power cannot be exhausted, the blessing cannot be enjoyed, the cheap cannot be taken, and the wisdom cannot be exhausted." ”
The world is fair, she doesn't want much, so give her everything he wants.
It has always been emphasized that today's women need economic independence and spiritual independence in order to have the life they want and to embrace a better tomorrow.
However, all independence and pursuit should be based on knowing exactly what kind of life you want to live and then trying to practice it.
Wu Qian wants a comfortable life, wants to enjoy the current state with her daughter, as a bystander, we should not give too much pressure to let her live the life she wants.
Wu Qian, who has been in the entertainment industry for many years, can definitely see Zhang Yujian's scum, but she may have really loved him very much, and she would desperately and humbly guard this relationship.
Now when the feelings are not there, he also chooses to let go and try to protect the beauty he once had.
Wu Qian is the representative of independent women in the new era, and will not change everything she is pursuing at the moment because of the voice of the outside world.
Probably so, in the future, she will not concentrate on her career and become a strong woman as most netizens say, but will start a comfortable and wanton life with her daughter.
I agree with a quote from Jane Austen: You must be the best judge of your own happiness.
Only a lifestyle that you feel happy about is the best way!
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