As the saying goes, generations are like mountains, people with different birth ages, the formation of three views and the way of dealing with the world will be different, the generation gap between us and our children still exists, not to mention the gap between us and our grandchildren. When the grandchildren began to go to school, this generation gap gradually became prominent, and many people wanted to have a good relationship with their juniors, but found that they could not understand the comic characters and video games that the children talked about. Of course, there is a solution to the problem, if we have also encountered similar problems, we may wish to try the following 3 methods, if you do it all, the relationship between yourself and the younger generation will be more harmonious, let's take a look:
First, learn to integrate into their world
Children's world is very simple, they will take the initiative to share their favorite things with adults, at this time even if we do not understand, do not interrupt their words, but to continue to chat along their words, do not understand the part can ask children, so that both can pull into each other's relationship, but also let their "vanity" be satisfied, which helps children consolidate knowledge, develop good habits, over time they will also treat us as true friends.
Second, choose topics that are of interest to the little ones when chatting
No matter how old a person is, they do not like to listen to others nagging themselves, saying that they are completely cold or even disgusted with the topic, children will not hide their emotions, encounter the above situation, generally directly ignored; but the elderly people always like to say that the parents are short, the younger generation of the practice of guidance, which is also one of the fundamental reasons why it is difficult for grandchildren to be close to us.
Don't feel like children are still young and they won't take anything to heart about themselves, the truth is just the opposite, their memory is stronger than anyone at any other age group, and they can also judge what they like or dislike.
When chatting with them, we try to talk about some happy things, such as praising them for the good clothes they wear, etc., don't ask why the homework has not been written as soon as they meet, why the exam did not play well, and so on. Slowly, we will understand their way of speaking, chat routines, etc., so that we can learn more about the new things in their mouths, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
Third, role reversal
When we have nothing to do, we can do a role change game with the children, that is, they are the elders, we play the minor, see how they do in each other's relationship, this is actually the children's eyes in the eyes of the elders, after understanding, I can know the needs of the children, and it can become easier to get along with each other.
All of the above are to help each other get along better, but in the end, we will always be their elders, so don't forget their identity, if they make a mistake of principle, everyone must point it out in time, doting or covering up can only destroy them, then our majesty is also difficult to establish, which is very detrimental to their healthy growth.