In 2011, a "Biography of Zhen Huan" was popular all over the streets.
Overnight, the protagonist Sun Li transformed into a "niangniang" in the mouths of the people of the whole country.
Its effects have not dissipated to this day.
In fact, in the nearly twenty years since his debut, Sun Li has been active in the screen for a long time.
As early as 2002, he was well known for his peace of mind in "Jade Guanyin".
It seems that Sun Li has always been an infinite scenery.
However, behind the growth, Sun Li has unknown ups and downs.
As early as the age of 12, her parents divorced and her mother brought her up alone.
The living conditions are very difficult, and she hates her father for abandoning her.
Later, Sun Li decided to embark on the road of acting, in the first days of breaking through.
With no money and no background, she is struggling. So much so that in the end the house could not be rented.
On the verge of despair, he received a mysterious remittance twice,
It was with these two sums of money that Sun Li spent two extremely critical periods.
The source of the remittance had always puzzled her.
After many years, Sun Li accidentally learned the truth,
She was moved to tears, and the resentment in her heart for many years also dissipated.
Families full of contradictions
At the turn of summer and autumn in 1982, an ordinary family in Shanghai ushered in an extraordinary day.
A little girl was born here.
The girl's name is Sun Li, her father Sun Hongzhi is an ordinary watch repair worker, and her mother, Deng Lifang, is a salesman in the mall.
Neither husband nor wife has a high income and can only barely support the family.
Little Sun Li did not understand the adult world.
She is talented, lively and cheerful, likes to bounce around, and has a talent for dancing.
This should have been a pleasant thing, and of course her mother, Deng Lifang, saw it this way.
So she was bent on raising her daughter and sent her to the Children's Palace to learn dance.
But his father Sun Hongzhi disagreed with this, and his daughter's interests and hobbies were in his eyes.
But he thinks that the expenses at home are not enough, and he should not learn dance.
The two argue endlessly, one focusing on their daughter's future and the other worrying about the current predicament.
Each has its own reason, Teresa Teng has a strong personality, and she insists on sending Sun Li to the dance class.
Sun Li has extraordinary talent, whether it is cultural class results or dance results, are among the best.
Known as the Little Dancer in the Children's Palace.
By chance, the TV series "Girl Jammeh" needs young actors to be Jammeh's classmates.
Sun Li and many students in the class were selected to participate.
Sun Li was also arranged with a line, and although Sun Li was nervous like a log.
But she thought it was fun to shoot, so she secretly planted the seed of being an actor in her heart.
Due to the large difference in the personality of his parents, sun li spent almost his entire childhood in quarrels after studying.
Growing up in such an unstable family, her mother, Deng Lifang, was very worried.
She is afraid that her grandson will be badly affected, but if she divorces, she is afraid that her daughter will be hurt even more by losing her relatives.
And sun li, who is sandwiched between her parents, is even more panicked every day.
Every time she looked at her parents who were arguing, Sun Li was at a loss.
Especially when mom and dad argue about learning to dance, she will deeply blame herself.
So she had to study harder in school to make up for the trauma of her family.
At the age of 11, with excellent performance, Sun Li was selected to participate in overseas performances.
After Deng Lifang knew, she felt that this was a rare opportunity, even if she borrowed money, she had to go.
But Sun Hongzhi felt that this was even more unnecessary.
How can the cost of going abroad to perform back and forth be something that this already poor family can afford?
So he strongly disagreed.
"If you don't agree, you have to go"
Teresa Teng had no intention of consulting with Sun Hongzhi.
This made Sun Hongzhi, who was already weak, even more annoyed, and he said fiercely to Deng Lifang:
"Divorce when you go back"
Teresa Teng ignored her husband's threats.
With only her daughter in mind, she is willing to bear anything.
A lifelong relationship with a mother
After the mother and daughter returned from abroad, they did not wait for their father's kind greeting, but waited for the divorce agreement that had been prepared.
Although Deng Lifang has thought about divorce countless times, when the real day comes, she is still confused.
The whole heart was as heavy as lead, and she held Sun Li's tears and couldn't stop flowing.
Teresa Teng found Sun Hongzhi:
"Daughter is too young and I don't agree to divorce"
Sun Hongzhi did not communicate too much, and at this time he was already determined to leave.
He argued that Teresa Teng could not argue, so he filed a complaint in court.
Seeing such a desperate husband, Deng Lifang's heart was broken, so she no longer insisted.
In 1994, the two ended their marriage under the mediation of the court, when Sun Li was 12 years old.
At home waiting for her parents to come home, she only saw her mother's shadow.
She knew what was going on in her family and what she was about to go through.
Mom said, "The sentence is down, he gave two thousand dollars."
Although he was still young, Sun Li was surprised by this number.
"How about two thousand dollars?"
Hearing her daughter's sigh, Deng Lifang hugged her daughter tightly and cried bitterly.
Although her heart was very heavy, she still said to her mother strongly:
"Don't cry, I won't get married anyway, the two of us will live."
Since then, Sun Li, who has always been lively and active, experienced the feeling of growing up overnight in this year.
She became taciturn, and when she got home, she didn't like to play with people, and sat alone in the house to paint, painting all day.
Deng Lifang's income alone is difficult to support Sun Li's tuition fees.
So after work in the evening, she will go to a friend's company to do cleaning.
Life was very hard, and later Teresa Teng was laid off, which made the mother and daughter duo worse.
Deng Lifang was only about thirty years old at the time, and this kind of turbulent and difficult life made it difficult for her to bear.
But she refused to remarry for the sake of her daughter, and Sun Li had become the whole of her world.
Looking at the painful mother who was tormented by life, Sun Li's heart was often full of mixed feelings.
She didn't understand why people got married and divorced.
Sun Hongzhi was very relaxed after the divorce, and it was not long before he married Huang Yuling, who was two years younger.
Huang Yuling's introverted Xianshu and Sun Hongzhi have similar personalities, and a year later, the two gave birth to a daughter, Sun Yan.
In a short period of time, they made up a family of three and lived happily together.
This huge contrast made Teresa Teng feel unbalanced for a while.
Originally kind and tolerant, she was also difficult to suppress her emotions, and often counted the sins of the two in front of Sun Li.
Subtly, Sun Li felt that the misfortune of herself and her mother was caused by this woman named Huang Yuling.
Her father's desperation and Xiao San's destruction caused the lingering hatred in her young heart.
He has a grudge against his father and cannot forgive him
Sun Hongzhi knew that sun li's mother and daughter had a hard life, and he felt guilty in his heart.
Therefore, he often sends some pocket money to Sun Li, but the stubborn Sun Li is willing to accept it.
There was no way, he could only hand it over to Sun Li's grandfather and transfer it to Sun Li through him.
Sun Li had a good relationship with his grandfather and often went to play with him, but sometimes he met his father who came to deliver pocket money.
Then she would turn and leave.
The hard life with her mother has made her grow up very quickly, and her mother's selfless love for herself has always been her greatest dependence.
There is a lot of dance training every day, and I am already exhausted by the time school is over.
But whenever I get home on the bus, I will see the figure of my mother in front of the stop sign.
No matter how tired you are, you must jump on your mother's back happily and step on the shadow of the moonlight to go home.
Once, when her mother walked on her back again, Sun Li felt her toes hanging on the ground.
She suddenly realized that she had grown up.
At this time, in her eyes, her mother's figure had become thin.
She knew she was going to help her mother hold up the sky.
After graduating from middle school, she was specially recruited by the Shanghai Garrison District Cultural and Labor Troupe with excellent dance skills.
Sun Hongzhi, who learned that his daughter had joined the army, was also proud in his heart.
He took his wife Huang Yuling to send Sun Li, and Sun Li looked at his father and another woman, and he was angry.
She did not forgive her father, and she could not accept Huang Yuling as her mother.
The words of farewell have not yet been said, and the eviction order is the next one first, which makes Sun Hongzhi and his wife embarrassed and sad.
But Huang Yuling, as a stepmother, was not angry at Sun Li's attitude.
Like her husband Sun Hongzhi, she can understand the pain of Sun Li's mother and daughter.
Life in the army was extremely hard, and when she was a child, she lived in poverty with her mother, but her mother did not let herself do heavy work.
But in the army, everything had to be done by one's own hands, and in addition to taking care of oneself, one had to accept the task of going to the countryside for training in the company.
All kinds of rough work and heavy work coupled with the feeling of longing made Sun Li physically and mentally exhausted.
After knowing that his daughter was suffering in the army, Sun Hongzhi could not sit still, and he prepared some delicious food to visit his daughter, but he was refused every time.
In particular, when Huang Yuling took something to visit Sun Li, Sun Li was even angrier.
Huang Yuling is sad and aggrieved, she is not a destroyer of other people's families, but now she is hated by others.
After that, Sun Hongzhi dismissed the idea of meeting his daughter.
"Since people don't want to see it, don't touch the moldy head."
Mysterious remittances
After coming down from the army, Sun Li decided to go out and break in, and Deng Lifang gave Sun Li her savings for many years and asked her to take care of herself.
Counting only two thousand yuan, it is relying on these two thousand pieces that Sun Li started his career in North Drift alone.
Life in Beijing is not good, Sun Li lives in a small room of 8 square meters, eating coarse tea and light rice every day.
Wander between the various crews, looking for opportunities to act.
But as a young girl with no money and no background, this is an easy thing.
The money given by her mother was quickly exhausted, and she did not want to make her mother work hard anymore, and planned to find a way alone.
The rent could not be paid, and the landlord issued several eviction orders.
Just when Sun Li was at a loss, he received a remittance of 4,000 yuan, but the name of the sender was not found.
Sun Li was excited and confused. But she couldn't manage so much, and first solved the urgent need.
With this precious four thousand yuan, Sun Li was able to temporarily gain a foothold in Beijing.
In 2001, at the age of 19, Sun Li went to Canada to participate in the competition, and she achieved good results in a beautiful and handsome appearance.
The most important thing is to be appreciated by Andy Lau, one of the four heavenly kings.
Andy Lau was of great help to Sun Li, and after Sun Li returned to China, he was recommended to sign a contract with the newly established Hairun Performing Arts Company.
Officially debuted as an actor.
It was also at the end of this year, on the recommendation of Andy Lau, Sun Li came to the "Jade Guanyin" crew to audition.
With her excellent performance, she was favored by the director group, and the heroine who starred in this drama was at ease.
Years of dreams are about to come true, so Sun Li is happy and broken, she feels that she has suffered so much for so many years and finally has to be bitter.
However, not long after the happiness, Sun Li encountered new problems,
Because the crew had to train the actors before shooting, there was no salary during the training period.
This was even worse for Sun Li, who was short of money at that time.
Just as she was once again embarrassed, something magical happened again, and she received another four thousand anonymous remittances.
Sun Li was stunned by the situation in front of her, the money came too timely, and she couldn't help but burst into tears.
She vowed that when she got ahead, she would find this person who helped her and repay him well.
The filming of "Jade Guanyin" was very successful, and this drama became a classic, and while winning numerous awards, it also became popular with Sun Li, who was in his twenties.
The young and beautiful girl left a deep impression on the audience.
After becoming famous, Sun Li's life has changed dramatically, and she and her mother no longer have to worry about life.
Mother
No more hard work.
She first bought a large house for her mother in the Jing'an District of Shanghai, and after settling in her mother, she was relieved to open her own business.
This girl who grew up with her mother in a Shanghai alley became a household name in the blink of an eye.
Learn the truth and reconcile with your father
Knowing that his daughter had become a star, Sun Hongzhi felt very relieved.
But he did not take the initiative to find his daughter, and a reporter found him who wanted to interview him and Sun Li, but he refused.
He said: "I am sorry for her, I did not fulfill my responsibilities as a father, I don't want to touch the light of my grandson, but I am very glad to have such a daughter."
In 2007, Sun Li filmed in Shanghai, and the crew drove home alone after work.
On the way she saw a familiar figure, and as she approached, she saw that it was her father.
At this time, Sun Li has long been different from the past, and she who originally vowed to make her father regret it has achieved this goal today.
Her resentment towards her father had not been dispelled, but when she saw the familiar figure sitting lonely on the side of the road, she was still faintly in pain.
But thinking about how she treated herself and her mother in the first place, she didn't stop.
Later, it was learned that his father had also been laid off and made a living by selling groceries.
Stepmother Huang Yuling is seriously ill, and her father went to set up a stall precisely because of this, but Sun Li still did not plan to take care of it.
Later, hearing that Grandpa was not in good health, Sun Li hurriedly put down his work and went to visit Grandpa.
Grandpa's face became old, and in addition to his heartache, he helped to pack up his things while talking to Grandpa.
Suddenly Grandpa asked, "Have you gone to see your father?"
Sun Li did not answer
Grandpa said, "I should go and see, he's always thinking about you."
"And you Huang Mom, she has always regarded you as a daughter"
"A few years ago, after knowing that you went to Beijing alone, your father was even more worried that he could not sleep."
"Knowing that your mother only gave you two thousand yuan, I felt that it was definitely not enough, so I took your yellow mother to the hotel to wash the bottles.
A total of eight thousand yuan was earned and sent to you in two installments."
Grandpa's calm words turned into a monstrous wave within Sun Li.
The corners of her mouth trembled uncontrollably, and she couldn't believe that the benefactor she had been looking for was the person she had always resented.
It turned out that Dad had been silently caring about himself.
The man who had hurt himself had never forgotten himself.
Sun Li said with tears: "I saw him setting up a street stall that day, how did she do?" ”
"Your father was laid off, your yellow mother was sick, and neither of them has any income now"
Sun Li is not a narrow-minded and vengeful person, she knows how to be grateful, and she knows more about love and tolerance.
When her mood stabilized, she settled down with her grandfather and rushed to her father.
Father and daughter, who had not seen each other for many years, were stunned by each other for a few seconds when their eyes were facing each other.
Sun Hongzhi didn't speak much, and could only smile and lead Sun Li into the house.
As he walked, he took what Sun Li had in his hand.
Sun Li did not say a few words of greeting to his father, and then he entered the house and saw The Topaz Bell lying down.
Due to economic hardship, Huang Yuling, who was already seriously ill, was even more emaciated.
After Sun Li learned about the situation at home, Sun Li turned around and took out the money he was carrying, and first let his father solve the difficulties in front of him.
After going back, she and her mother talked about today's events, and her heart was full of emotions.
She said to her mother, "I want to help them."
Mom: "Yes, no matter how he is your father."
Sun Li asked her mother, "Do you still hate him?"
Mom said something unforgettable:
"Just because he gave you to me, I can forgive him for all his mistakes"
Later, Deng Lifang also said to Sun Li:
"No matter how much you resent him, one thing you can't deny is that he gave birth to you, he was your father, so you have to repay him." 」
The mother's tolerance and generosity made Sun Li very moved.
She immediately took her stepmother to the best hospital and covered all the medical expenses.
In addition, she also bought a big house for her father, so that her father and stepmother, who had worked hard for half a life, could enjoy their old age with peace of mind.
For her half-sister Sun Yan, Sun Li never rejected it.
Instead, like her sisters, she pampered her, promoted her, and used her resources to help her get opportunities in the show business.
"Hate a person, you can never get happiness, and love, can make your heart get real peace"
This is what Sun Li later recalled, from the time her parents divorced at the age of 12, until now, decades of family rifts have been deeply stinging her.
So she chose to forgive when she learned that her father was full of guilt in her heart.
To forgive others is to let go of yourself.
Now that the family is reconciled, Sun Li, who is already kind and tolerant, has accepted everything in the past.
Dad, mom, stepmother, sister, re-established as a family, there is nothing better than family harmony.
This is the happiness of a lifetime.