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There is a Zen master who said, face it with a smile, stop complaining, do as you please, as you please, as you please.
Smile in the face of this cruel life, smile at the humanity of the human heart, no longer complain about everything that has been experienced, no longer complain about the trivialities of life. Perhaps, with the intention and fate to do things, we will live more and more happy.
Many people will wonder, what exactly is "random fate"?
In fact, the real fate is to let us obey the fate to deal with people, don't think about everything, let alone worry about the sky. Because of your fate, it will guide you to a better future.
When we were young, we studied hard and wanted to get into a good school. However, since there are people with gold list titles, there must be people who have fallen behind Sun Mountain.
Don't laugh at the people who fall into the sun mountain, and don't think that the people with the title of the gold list are elites, everything is just the guidance of "fate".
His life is suitable for taking the road of scientific research, then his fate will guide him to go to a prestigious university for further study. His life is suitable for taking the middle way, then his fate will not let him go to extremes.
Even if we are looking for a partner, we need to "follow fate". People who should belong to you, even if they are far away from the end of the world, will come to your side. And those who do not belong to you, even if you plead bitterly, are meaningless.
Only when people come to the end of their lives will they understand that these eight words are the great blessings of life when they follow fate and do not argue.
02
Fate is a realm.
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian said that the origin of the cause is extinguished, and the fate is thick and the edge is weak, which is not something we can control. What we can do is to cherish that short time in the time of karma.
When fate comes, we can't stop it if we want to. For example, the fate of your wealth, or the fate of your marriage, is the blessing that fate has arranged for us.
When fate leaves, we can't stay if we want to. For example, his broken marriage, or his bankrupt career, that is the experience that fate has arranged for them.
For fate, we only need to do the eight words of "cherish the present and live in the present".
There was once such a boss, he was particularly depressed when he was young, and he was not from a famous school, anyway, he mixed very badly. However, he met a woman who loved him.
With the encouragement and help of that woman, this man's career actually rose. Later, these two people became bigger and bigger, and their net worth was almost hundreds of millions.
When others interviewed him, they asked him, why are you so successful?
The boss only said this sentence: "Fate allowed me to meet my wife who loved me, without such fate, I could not succeed." In fact, the wife has to take seven points of credit. ”
Many times, fate is such a thing, when it is good, it will make you start a family, and when it is bad, it will make you unlucky. In fact, being a person follows fate, don't dwell too much, is a big realm.
03
Man, for the sake of not arguing.
When we become more and more dependent, I believe that we will eventually become people who "do not argue for it".
Many people feel that being a person "for the sake of not arguing" is the most cowardly act. In fact, this understanding is biased. You know, for the sake of not arguing, that is the beginning of a person's stronger strength.
Lao Tzu wrote in the Tao Te Ching: "The husband is indisputable, so the world cannot argue with it." ”
You look at the stream flowing in the valley, it is always in a low position, there is no contention at all. However, it can become the king of the valley, and any beast needs it to survive.
Why? Water, not always crashing on the shore, but used to maintain a calm flowing state. But what we don't know is that it silently accumulates strength underneath.
It can not only give people the shock of the thunder on the ground, but also make people feel the beauty of calm as a mirror, that is the king.
What is the "Inner Saint and Outer King"? That's the outer circle and the inner square. We must be round on the surface and not to argue, but in the heart, we set good goals and adhere to good principles. In this way, we can achieve things by being introverted.
Introverted and sharp, secretly exerting strength, doing everything according to fate, doing their best, then how can such a person fall?
Don't be fooled by the superficialities of things. The more people who do not argue with fate, the more they have the ability to fight. And this kind of struggle will exceed the imagination of ordinary people.
04
Everything goes with the flow and goes with the flow.
In ancient times, a farmer went up the mountain and asked, and saw such a couplet in front of the temple:
Shanglian: Origins and fates fall on the road of life
Downlink: Fate comes and goes
Horizontal batch: comfortable life
A thought arises, a thousand waters and a thousand mountains. A thought is extinguished, and the vicissitudes of the sea are mulberry fields. The origin of the cause is extinguished, and the fate is scattered, which is providence. No matter how much we dodge, it won't help.
For example, if someone is about to start his career, no one can stop him, because his life trajectory is like this.
For example, if some people are about to fall lonely, no one can change the end of loneliness, because his fate has come to an end.
As long as we look back at our own lives, we can understand that what we get is something that is related to us. If there is no fate, then how can they come to us?
People, there is no need to fight too much. As Bai Juyi said: "What is the dispute on the snail's horn, the stone fire is parasitic in the light of this life." ”
Life is too short, we just need to be ourselves. And the rest of everything, there is no need to fight too much, and there is no need to think too much. Wild thinking will only affect your quality of life in the end.
Everything follows fate, and you will eventually see a hundred flowers blooming overnight. In order not to argue, you will eventually experience a journey of blossoming.
Wen/Shushan has deer