Raising a daughter is really tired, it is difficult to raise her daughter, send her to study until college graduation, the result is directly notified to her parents to bring a dowry to drink happy wine, even the man's face has not been seen, this is a real thing that happened to my uncle.
On New Year's Day 2022, my cousin just sent wedding photos in the circle of friends to inform relatives and friends that she and her boyfriend had received a marriage license and invited everyone to dinner in ten days! At this time, the uncle learned that the daughter took advantage of his absence from home, took the household registration book and obtained a certificate with her boyfriend, but he had not seen each other, nor did he understand the man's family, and the daughter only graduated from college and worked for half a year and got married, a little confused.
The uncle called his cousin to go home, but she did not return, went to the henan man's home, to know how far Henan is from Nanning, Guangxi, ah, but also let the uncle bring 100,000 dowries to eat a banquet, otherwise there is no face. My cousin was too hasty, and before she could bring her boyfriend home, she went directly to someone's house to get a license to take wedding photos.
On the day of the meal, my cousin held ten tables in a hotel in Nanning, and all the relatives invited were women's relatives, after all, the man's Henan, it was more appropriate to hold a banquet on both sides. The uncle brought 100,000 dowry money, the man gave 30,000 dowry, the cousin took the dowry money to buy gold and silver jewelry, and said that he would buy a house in Nanning, and when the down payment was time, the uncle would have to pay a part.
This was the first time the uncle had seen the man, and he had never even seen the other parent, and he was a little hesitant to agree to his daughter's request. But there is no way, who calls the daughter smart, their own salary is more than 10,000 per month, only half a year of work to marry directly, but also the father to accompany the dowry money, this wishful thinking is really good, no matter how the parents can not refuse the license.
It is said that the man's family is very poor, there are only a few bungalows in the countryside of Henan, and the university that he studied with his cousin in Nanning, the two fell in love for several years, graduated and worked together, and planned to buy a house and settle in Nanning in the future, so he let his uncle also pay a part of the down payment.
Since that time, the uncle has not seen the cousin, even the New Year has not seen the daughter and son-in-law back to the mother's home, our side of the custom, the newlyweds in the first year of the New Year must go back to the mother's house to visit their parents, but they did not return, but even more bluntly, wait for the uncle to give her a down payment first, and then return to Nanning.
This uncle is so angry that the daughter who was hard to raise will marry someone else after graduating from college, and she is really white. In fact, the uncle is a bit patriarchal, because the aunt gave birth to two daughters, did not have a son, so divorced, married to the second wife to have a son, and now also in his teens.
He usually did not take care of his two daughters, but he responded to every request, ate, wore, and lived without worry, and now the eldest daughter is married, and the second daughter is still in college, and she is about to graduate. On the second day of the first month of the first month, we went to my grandmother's house, my uncle and his son were there, my grandmother was more than 80 years old, I was glad that I had them to accompany them during the New Year's Festival, usually they lived in Nanning, and returned to my hometown several times a year, just to accompany the elderly.
It seems that it is still good to have a son, there are sons and grandchildren, much better than having a daughter, at least the son will bring the grandson back, the living expenses are all given by the son, if you give birth to a daughter, everything must be pasted upside down, and this life can not rely on the daughter at all.
Sad people, looking at my two daughters, angry not to fight, not allowed to marry far away in the future, look at my cousin, doomed to be unhappy in the future! The picture below is my grandmother's house, she is usually at home by herself, we only went to her house in the second year of junior high school, and my uncle and his son came back several times a year. #我要上头条 #
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