37 Mom's love is overflowing
Mom has always been a bodhisattva, loving, warm-hearted, and willing to help others. This is her kind heart and the quality of life that has been left in the bone marrow by grace.
I said that in 1956, when my mother graduated from high school, when she applied for a university, she went to her aunt Lu Shijia for help. Aunt Lu Shijia was already the founder of Beijing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics and taught at that time, and she had a good understanding of the country's need for talents and the situation of various universities. Lu Shijia said in a deliberative tone: "Lanzhou is the center of the country, there is a Lanzhou University there, go there to go to college, what do you think?" Then he suggested: "Depending on your personality, geography is more suitable, and the country also needs to cultivate a large number of geographical talents." Lu Jingsun listened to her aunt's words, applied for the exam and was admitted to her own volunteer as she wished, majoring in geology and geography at Lanzhou University, and she wanted to go to the Great Northwest to exercise herself.
Later in life, my mother and Lu Shijia's daughter Zhang Kequn had a very good relationship, often walking around and talking and laughing. In Zhang Kequn's "Flying", a fluid mechanics lu shijia, a chapter in the book "Small Things See big festivals", it is said: "Lu Shijia's brother Lu Xiang gave birth to 8 children. From 1956 onwards, she successively provided 20 yuan per month for lu jingsun, niece of ShanglanZhou University, and Lu Dachuan, nephew of Shangqing Tsinghua University, and asked them not to apply for bursaries, so as not to increase the burden on the state until they graduated from college. It seems that 20 yuan is not much, but her own children's college is only 23 yuan for living expenses. This is true not only for her relatives, but also for colleagues, workers and even people who do not know each other in the family difficulties." Mom's gratitude to her aunt will always be remembered, and her love and compassion are deeply imprinted on her heart.
So throughout her life, the qualities of compassion, kindness, bodhichitta, zeal, perfection, dedication, empathy, and adult beauty have run through her life, and she wants to pass on the love that her aunt has passed on.
Before her mother retired to Beijing, she did educational work with professionalism, peach and plum all over the world; she liked to be a "red bride" and achieve a beautiful marriage for others; she led by example, imperceptibly, set an example for her children and grandchildren, and achieved good moral character. After my mother went to Beijing, many people knew her mother's enthusiasm and went to work to help her mother, and her mother never shirked and helped one by one.
For example, Li Ying, the daughter of an old neighbor Li Dawei, had nothing to do after graduating from high school, and the economic situation in Jilin was not optimistic, so when her mother sent her sister Wang Xin to Beijing to develop, she also took Li Ying to Beijing and lived in her small room. Mom constantly looked for opportunities for Li Ying and talked about the real social situation. Later, Li Ying himself married in Beijing and opened up his own career. Mom was relieved.
For example, Hu Xue, the daughter of student Qu Lan, was admitted to an art school in Beijing, but at that time, the child left her parents without anyone to take care of her when she was young, and Qu Lan thought that her aunt Lu was in Beijing, so she sought care from her mother. Our family and the old Qu family have a very good relationship, like relatives, so my mother has the responsibility to start taking care of Hu Xue. Mom often went to school to visit, and every time she saw her mother, Hu Xue would cry with her mother in her arms and snuggle in her arms and shout "Grandma, Grandma" one by one. During the holidays, the mother took Hu Xue home to improve her diet, reassured her children to get along well with others at school, and constantly adapted to their independent life. Hu Xue has now become a talent, working in a state-owned enterprise, married and has a good life.
For example, Dai Yue, the daughter of Wang Xin, a teacher with the same name as my mother's colleague and my sister, entered Beijing to study at an art college, and Teacher Wang Xin entrusted her daughter to a mainland teacher. At the same time, the mother must take care of Dai Yue, so that the child feels warm and relieves the sorrow of leaving the hometown and leaving the parents. Now Dai Yue has married and lived a happy life.
Mom did these things without any intention or expect anything in return, only wishing to comfort her own gratitude and realize her own good nature.
Our children are deeply influenced by the good character of their mothers, and they have also formed a kind, upright, simple, sympathetic and understanding character. Although our brothers have experienced little life experience, they can persuade, help, and dissolve knots for friends and classmates.
Two thousand years later, the web began to prevail, thus bringing each other closer together. In particular, I opened a QQ chat room, I often go to the English chat room to try to chat with Chinese or foreigners to learn English conversation, at the same time, I also communicate with some of my peers about each other's attitudes towards life. Chatting online is a lot of fun.
At that time, there was a sister in Wuhan who had a very heavy heart knot: her mother died early, and her father remarried to pull their brothers and sisters to grow up. But she just doesn't resent her stepmother, as if her stepmother has taken her mother's place, which is why she shouldn't. I advised her, "Do you know that your stepmother loves your parents?" Did your stepmother make your father happy? If so, you also love your father, and your father is happy because of your stepmother, isn't that exactly what you want and can't give back? Can't you accept your stepmother yet? After the eldest sister listened, she was dumbfounded. I heard that she had sent her stepmother to the end.
At present, the party disciples of the same generation have developed well in other places and have become the bosses and technology masters of state-owned enterprises. When he first worked at the Western Heating Company, he was very depressed and could not perform. When he came into contact with him in the factory, he saw the situation and inspired him to go out and dare to "flutter" in the tide of the market economy, and he would have the opportunity. He really came out and became his current self. Maybe this has something to do with me, but it is also the talent and creation of others.
Now her peer Dai Shimei has started a family in Beijing and lives a happy life. She was initially depressed by the pressure of the water company, and was subjected to crises such as "buyout" and "departure" during the institutional reform, and the work in the water company was not suitable for her professional development, and she was still unmarried at an old age. Just at this time, I inadvertently had a meeting with Master Dai, and after chatting, I advised her: "The tree is moved to death, the people are moved to live, and there is no need to waste your life for a public office." There is no grandfather here, there is a place to keep the grandfather. Go out and maybe everything will get better." After handling the company's work, Dai Shimei went to Beijing the next year, and as a result, she met her true son in Beijing, got married and lived a happy life. This is the ability and creation of people themselves, maybe I have played a role in pushing, even if I have a piece of merit.
They all say that "good people have good rewards", but I didn't see any signs. But then I also got the help of my nobleman, the nobleman of two female classmates in the same class of college, to achieve my current "just right" life. That's a later story, to come back.
Following my mother's compassion, I am constantly doing public welfare, doing public welfare for the "pink ribbon" breast cancer sisters, leading them to face life bravely, and letting this group of "people who can't see the scars on the outside but are the most hurt" come out of their own wonderful. The younger brother Wang Qun has also been running in public welfare undertakings for many years, such as going to foreign countries to take voluntary films, taking photos and publicizing public welfare venues, recording good deeds and good deeds with the camera in buddhist associations, and so on, and striving to do good things within his ability.
Mother's love floods, pushing many people to give love, driving many people to be kinder and understand society and life.
Unfinished, to be continued.