To send red envelopes to doctors is to harm yourself!

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A patient who sent a red envelope to the doctor during the hospitalization operation, and now that he is discharged from the hospital, when he comes back for re-examination, he asks: "The doctor forgot to receive the red packet, how to gently remind?" ”

This question is very interesting, reminding me of shen teng and Ma Li's father-in-law doing appendicitis surgery non-piston red envelope sketch.

Red envelopes are given, how to remind?

It seems that no matter how to remind, it is very embarrassing.

The person who reminds is embarrassed, and the person who receives the red envelope is also embarrassed.

But back to the point, is it really necessary to give red envelopes to doctors because of medical treatment?

The patient is hospitalized, the operation is prescribed, and the doctor performs the responsibility of treatment, which is a matter of course and can also be regarded as the established content of the contract. Why give red envelopes?

Dopamine does not dare to say that all doctors do not accept red envelopes, but it is certain that most doctors do not accept red envelopes, whether they actively refuse or dare not accept them.

Dopamine also dare not say that the medical ethics of all medical units in the country are very good, but it is certain that most hospitals strictly enforce the nine prohibitions, including receiving red envelopes from patients.

Of course, it is not excluded that a small number of people have committed crimes against the wind and accepted red envelopes, nor can it be ruled out that a small number of areas have the custom of sending and receiving red envelopes.

The so-called red envelope is bribery.

Patients are hospitalized, treated, and operated, and there is no need to send red envelopes.

Doctors will not treat you well because you did not send red envelopes, and they will not violate medical principles and deliberately create trouble for you because you do not send red envelopes.

In the current medical environment, there is no doctor who is not afraid of patients giving themselves a set, and no doctor is not worried about their hot search one day.

The most important thing for doctors is not that you send some red envelopes, but that you can cure your disease and solve your problems as soon as possible. When you are sick and seek medical treatment, the one who most hopes that you will recover soon is also your doctor.

The reason is very simple, the doctor is also afraid of not seeing the disease well, to find trouble for themselves.

Sometimes, when the doctor is faced with some red packets, he has to accept them temporarily. Because sometimes it is some acquaintance's affection red envelope, sometimes it is the special situation of the patient and/or family, the doctor does not accept it, and the patient's family is always suspicious.

However, after the doctor accepts the red packet, it is basically handed over to the relevant departments of the hospital, which will transfer it after the patient is discharged, or directly into the patient's hospital account.

In fact, giving red envelopes to doctors sometimes not only can not be beneficial to their own medical treatment, but will have some adverse effects.

Patients and family members may think: I sent a red envelope, the doctor should always give me a dedicated look, right?

However, they do not know that whether they send red envelopes or not, doctors will treat you the same, and they will treat you in accordance with the diagnosis and treatment guidelines and medical procedures.

For those who have sent red envelopes, the doctor should be careful, and even increase some psychological pressure.

"If this patient sends a red envelope, will he record and take a video and leave evidence?"

"This patient sent a red envelope, in case the treatment is not good, will there be trouble, or conservative treatment."

"This patient sent a red envelope, the medicine to be used is not used, the examination should be done or not, if it is not done, it is risky, it violates the principle, if it is done, it costs a lot, will there be an opinion?"

There was once a patient, during hospitalization, at night, in the doctor's office, not to give me a red envelope, and finally even directly dropped the red envelope, and the person ran away.

He ran away, but he hurt me badly, because I still had to contact the leader in the middle of the night to explain the situation and write some words.

There was once a family member who gave me a non-stop red envelope and explained it to me in every way.

Wherever I went, he followed.

Finally I hid in the duty room, where he was still waiting for me at the door of the duty room.

I said: Wouldn't it be nice for you to leave the money and buy some nutrition for the patient?

He didn't listen, saying he wanted to thank me.

Finally I put away my smile and told him solemnly: You gave me this to harm me and make me lose my job.

He was not willing to leave.

But in the end I received some gifts from the family, and on duty that night, he bought me some supper.

In the face of the food that has been bought, I have no way to insist on refusing, otherwise it will really be a little impersonal. I also worry that if I refuse even a little supper, will my family have other ideas, such as I want more things?

Similar psychological activities, psychological stress, everyone should be able to imagine, right?

Moreover, at present, the fight against corruption and honesty is very severe, and whoever violates the nine prohibitions and other regulations will have to drop their jobs and go to prison.

If you have to send a red envelope to the doctor, you are actually putting the doctor on the cusp of the storm, and you insult the doctor's medical ethics at the beginning.

Sending red envelopes is originally embarrassing for patients and doctors.

If you really want to how to treat your own disease more efficiently, there is actually only one way, that is, to communicate with the doctor as a friend, not to be humble, to listen to the doctor's arrangement, rather than showing an attitude of not looking at the disease before the disease is treated, and showing that you are an expert in the treatment of diseases.

For those who can follow the doctor's instructions, understand the diagnosis and treatment plan for the treatment of the disease, have the correct attitude towards the treatment expectations, and can have a sense of normalcy and gratitude, we usually call quality patients. In the face of such patients, even if they do not send red envelopes, many doctors are vying for it. Even if the family does not open his mouth, the doctor will take the initiative to help him.

And for those who are particularly assertive, like to drill the horns, do not have the ability to think correctly, believe in the network and neighbors, do not believe in doctors, think that they have spent money is God, do not listen to doctors' advice, and even put themselves in opposition to doctors, they are called patients without quality in ordinary days. Even if they send more red envelopes, doctors are avoiding it, and no one is willing to take the initiative to receive treatment.

The reason is very simple, the common sense of people, everyone should be able to understand.

So, dopamine takes this question to reiterate again:

1, see a doctor, do not need to send red packets, send red envelopes to their own medical treatment has no benefits, and even make doctors afraid of their hands and feet when treating diseases and surgery.

2, sending red envelopes, not only embarrassing yourself, but also adding trouble to the doctor, finding no pain, so that the doctor violates the law.

3, if someone takes the initiative to ask you for a red envelope, you should report him.

4, in order to have a better therapeutic effect, you must correct your own psychology and correct your own concepts. Don't stir the hair, don't make a cow two.

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