On the fifth day of the Chinese New Year, Wang Xiaofei was rumored to be traveling with Internet celebrity Zhang Yingying in Hainan.
Zhang Lan indignantly refuted the rumors, and tried to explain that his son's moral level was not so bad, and he would not be so dirty.
However, the punch in the face came really fast, and on February 9, Wang Xiaofei was photographed and Zhang Yingying's ten fingers clasped.
The contact between two people in the picture is very natural, but it is not like a simple handshake between friends.
This time I'm afraid I won't be able to wash it again.
Before Wang Xiaofei said that the scandal with Zhang Yingying was a rumor by netizens, to sue one by one, to send a lawyer's letter, now it seems to have become a joke.
Netizens can no longer buy it, because Wang Xiaofei and Zhang Yingying are cheating in marriage.
To say that Wang Xiaofei and Zhang Yingying's scandal is not only this one or two times.
Although there has been no real hammer, but it has been photographed, they have always denied it.
As early as when there was no divorce, it was rumored that Wang Xiaofei and Zhang Yingying had a vague relationship.
Wang Xiaofei and Zhang Yingying met at a bar in June last year, climbed Huangshan Mountain in August, and were taken out of photos to travel together.
The two people also have the same necklace, but under this evidence, Wang Xiaofei and Zhang Lan still deny it.
On December 18 last year, during the divorce between Wang Xiaofei and Das, Wang Xiaofei was exposed to cheating in marriage.
Wang Xiaofei swore that he was innocent and still intimidated netizens online, and Wang Sicong scolded him for being a dead duck with a hard mouth.
It is reasonable to say that when there is a scandal, we should keep a distance so as not to repeat the incident.
But Wang Xiaofei and Zhang Yingying have been photographed repeatedly, and this time they directly hold hands with a real hammer.
And the big s side, indeed from the beginning to the end did not say a word Wang Xiaofei is not.
When the divorce began, the voices on the Internet were divided into two factions.
While scolding the big s not to love Wang Xiaofei at all, while scolding Wang Xiaofei's mother BaoNan, the business has been losing, the big s are constantly filling in the pit, saying that he is not worthy of the big s at all.
The two groups of people who support big s and support Wang Xiaofei have been deadlocked.
In fact, when couples reach the stage of divorce, it is difficult for outsiders to judge right from wrong.
Moreover, after 10 years of getting along, the enmity and resentment accumulated in it cannot be judged in three words.
Both sides have positions that say they are innocent and that they are the victims.
Emotional breakdown is not a shameful thing, and it is not a shameful thing to like someone else.
What is unseemly is the selfishness of human nature, and the attempt to cover up one's selfishness.
One after another, fooling the public, this side has just won the favor of everyone, causing everyone to take sides, and when they turn back, they brush and punch their faces.
Yes, it is Wang Xiaofei, who has the inferiority of men in his personality.
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I want to play and I want to be a good person
Wang Xiaofei has always denied the relationship with Zhang Yingying, and finally was caught with a real hammer, which is very scummy.
Not long after the lawyer's letter was posted, he quickly punched his face.
He is nothing more than afraid that the reputation of marital infidelity will be too bad and affect his career.
So although public opinion rushed to the big s at the time and said that she was ruthless, he still firmly denied cheating and took off his hat clean.
Because as long as he skimmed fast enough, he Wang Xiaofei could henceforth set up a miserable business against the poor man of an honest and good man abandoned by his wife.
There is no shortage of people on the Internet who sympathize with him, and netizens who support him have added people to him, which also makes the momentum of the big s on the mainland gone.
This time was exposed to cheating on the real hammer, netizens said:
"You should burn incense, when you meet a big s, you cheat and don't bother to meet with you in general, don't hammer your ex-wife." 」
"If it is really empathetic and not in love, it is generous to admit that it is disgusting to be full of lies!"
"You are not honest, and when you have a new love, you have to pretend to be a person, such a person is really tasteless, you are not worthy of the big s." 」
He wants to play with flowers, but he doesn't want to be a bad person, so he has to constantly set up people to disguise himself.
For Wang Xiaofei, how dare she admit to cheating in marriage?
After all, he can't stand the gossip of thousands of netizens, and he wants to stand on the moral supremacy and make people popular, sympathetic and supportive.
It's not just Wang Xiaofei, in reality, why isn't it true that men cheat in marriage?
It's all the same trick, as long as you don't catch the adulterer on the spot, you have to deny it to the end.
Playing a good father image of a spoiled wife and darling on the outside, but in private, he always takes his own desires first.
When I was with the third party, I completely forgot my responsibility.
When having an affair with an Internet celebrity, the wife and children left their minds behind.
Really can't wait, should also get the divorce done, and then go to the affair.
But I also want to say that changing one's mind is not a sin, and that wanting to be a good person and wanting to do something against morality is itself a contradiction.
Be honest, admit that you don't love, admit that you have a new love, it is better than hypocritical and standing.
Women are never afraid of men frankly saying that they are in love with others, and they are afraid of men's greed.
While enjoying the blessings of the people, he also wanted to be a good person and secretly split his legs.
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Immature behavior
Perhaps it is impossible to distinguish between right and wrong in marriage, because the personality of the eldest s in "Happiness Trio" does seem to be more depressed.
Wang Xiaofei was a little timid, cautious, and sometimes a little impatient when she got along with her.
Therefore, it is not unusual for some people to see him live so restrained and take sides with Wang Xiaofei.
But after the divorce, Wang Xiaofei's behavior was supervised by the public.
Just like the big s once complained in the show that Wang Xiaofei is very tasteless, once he can't control his emotions, he will vent to innocent people.
On the Weibo post where Wang Xiaofei sent the lawyer's letter, some netizens commented:
"Let your lover keep a low profile, every day on the hot search, is not it a mouthful of love for your daughter?"
Yue'er is literate, right? Every day watching dad put his arm around the divorce before the small three on the hot search is very funny?
Know that you want to market in order to open a store, but beware of the opposite! ”
As everyone said, when the scandal was entangled, he did not pay attention to avoid suspicion, and was photographed again and again.
And if you really love your daughter, you should think that your daughter has learned to read, and her gossip will always leave traces, and sooner or later she will be seen by her daughter.
When the child grows up, what should he think of looking at his father?
In addition, at every turn to intimidate netizens, as soon as they drink, they send emotional words, regardless of the living environment of their wives and children, a 40+ man still thinks that youth arrogance is a teenager?
In contrast, the big s, although a little pretentious, is really calm and decent.
For another woman, cheating on his wife hammer in marriage, he should have been infamous long ago.
Although from now on many people will start to call him a scumbag and a wrong party, but these blames are of little use.
Big S himself thought very openly, when it was exposed that Wang Xiaofei had a girlfriend, and she was also a blessing attitude.
Time will prove a person and expose some truth.
Just like Bai Baihe and Chen Yufan in the beginning, the spectator can only look at the surface, and people can perform.
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There is no man's responsibility
Men never seem to understand how important honesty is to marriage.
Men always know their polyamorous habits, so in intimate relationships, it is always more hidden.
In real life, it is not uncommon for men who are full of lies and can coax people.
Like Wang Xiaofei, obviously not so fond of big s, on Weibo can also send out a series of words of obedience to his wife.
It seems that in his world, wife and children are the most important.
But this is not the case, and the lace news between him and internet celebrities has not stopped.
Big S once explained in an interview that if a man were to change his mind, she wouldn't do anything because she couldn't decide who her partner's heart really loved.
But Wang Xiaofei is really instigated and selfish.
Some people always ask, why not admit it generously?
Because admitting infidelity is equivalent to admitting a mistake.
In many broken relationships, right and wrong are always more important than feelings, and when the feelings are gone, only their own interests are considered.
So big s in this matter, she can completely take advantage of it for her own interests, but she does not.
On the contrary, Wang Xiaofei is in a position of power, repeatedly fooling netizens, lying, and setting up people.
From this point of view, he really has no responsibility.
Whether a man is responsible or not depends on his personality level, saying that he is a mother treasure man is really not wronged, zhang Lan also came out to help his son hide the fact of xinhuan.
Can the man who can make the big s carry three children, the big s really not love?
As a woman, having children one after another, this is not love what is it?
The reason why big S insisted on divorce may not be that she does not love Wang Xiaofei, but that she cannot feel Wang Xiaofei's love at all.
Perhaps he had long known that he was cheating, he spent his heart, and she could not stand the final bottom line and had to end the marriage.
However, the outside world rumors that the big s can't look up to her husband, and Wang Xiaofei has no results in retaining her and has become an abandoned man.
This is also no responsibility, he does not mention his own happiness, divorce is estimated to be in line with his wishes.
Therefore, a man does not take responsibility, and it just so happens that at this time the husband and wife are exhausted, he will not care about people's lives and deaths, but will only expand the favorable side of himself.
Between husband and wife, even if they are separated, they should be honest and decent, and they should be unashamed, which is the basis of being a person.
Author | Fei Yu A person who likes to explore himself, with growth as the goal, experience as the road, sincerity as the heart, and live a life of maximum freedom.