Figure skating men's singles free skating, Yu Yu string challenge 4A, because stuck in the ice cave, mistakenly fell down, did not qualify for the top three.
He just smiled faintly and said, "I was hated by ice today."
And "I really liked the music of my show and loved dancing with the music, so (after that) I just enjoyed the game." ”
He once said: "Status, fame, money, are all external things." None of this matters to me.
Whether their original intentions, their own dreams, all this has been satisfied, in fact, there is not. ”
Therefore, as long as he shows it in the official game, he has no regrets.
Habuyuki is good-looking and has a nice name.
Yusei is a rare surname, and the knot string is raised by his father Yusheng Xiuli, hoping that Sagittarius he can be as loose as a bowstring. (This is a bit similar to some of the classmates I have met called "Zhang Chi" before)
Yu Yu is an artist on the ice rink, with both the feminine delicacy and the masculine domineering of a teenager, just like the male protagonist of the hot-blooded comic.
In 2014, when he was 20 years old, he was warming up before the China Cup when he accidentally collided with Yan Han, a mainlander, and his neck was cut by an ice knife.
At that time, he had a bandage ring on his head and a hemostatic sticker on his chin, and the game began for four and a half minutes.
Although he fell down and got up five times, and slid "Phantom of the Opera" into "Phantom of the Blood", the young ladies were heartbroken, and finally won the runner-up with a total score of 237.55 points.
He made the figure skating career a mission that was more important than life in his life - a lifetime of suspense.
Compared with Gu Ailing, a talented player who is outstanding in all aspects, Yusheng Yuxin is more like a brave person who burns his life to the highest point and heroically and fearlessly throws all his love for his career.
Yesterday, when I wrote "I was silent after reading an interview transcript of Gu Ailing's mother when she was young...", I knew that we and Gu Yan were not in the same order of magnitude from brain power to physical strength to financial strength to educational ability.
And Yusheng Yuxin seems to be just an ordinary child from his family background to his physique.
His dad was the director of middle school instruction and the school's baseball consultant, carrying all the financial pressure on the family, and his mom was a full-time housewife who lived in welfare public housing for low-income families.
Yusheng Yushin's physique is ordinary, his understanding and talent are relatively high, and he has a beautiful appearance. For example, Kenzan Youzhen came out of the competition, laughed like Wang Baoqiang, and the artistry had to slide down.
But after reading the report of Yusheng's parents, I was silent again...
Good guys, mothers inside, fathers outside, although they do not force children to do anything, but they know very well which set of educational methods children eat, and can invest all their energy to help children achieve their goals in life.
Parents of ordinary families are more likely to have two situations than they do, one is that they are too persistent in the ideological realm, and the other is that they may be unscientific and wrongly helped.
Although Yusei's mother was a housewife, the series of things she had done were really too powerful.
Yusei Yushin suffered from asthma when he was 2 years old, because he liked to stick to his sister who learned to skate, and at the age of four, he also stepped into the skating rink. His parents thought he could strengthen his body in this way, and there was no objection.
He is not the one who has a particularly good congenital physique, and he is also mischievous, often inattentive, often training to 5 minutes and wanting to play, but he does have talent.
The financial burden of learning figure skating is not light, not to mention that their family lives in public rental housing and has to raise two children.
(Yusei's mother was interviewed..... ）
Because the financial pressure was there, his father asked him if he wanted to learn, and if he didn't want to, he would forget about it (waste less money, learn baseball too).
Yusei figured it out on his own, identified this path, and then trained hard all the way to forge himself into a generation of legends.
Later, someone interviewed him: "If your parents had forced you to practice skating before, would you still stick to it?" ”
Yusei replied, "It will definitely be different." I think that even if you love it at the beginning, you will slowly become disliked, and I feel that I will not even like the game in the end. ”
I have a friend who used to play the violin a lot, and he really took an interest.
Later, her mother felt that she could take the exam by studying in this way, and the exam certificate would help to give extra points to the further education, so she took her everywhere to participate in activities and exams. Because of these very utilitarian help, she liked to play from the very beginning, to the disgust when she saw the piano later.
And her mother, because she spent a lot of money on the way to take her to learn the piano, also complained about her: "I asked for a lot of relationships to find a good teacher to teach you, how expensive is a class, why are you so angry?" ”
Therefore, few parents can have a relaxed and moderate education mentality, like to put on their children in advance what they think is good, regardless of whether others accept it or not, if they are resisted, they will scold the child for not understanding things, white-eyed wolves. Shouldn't we first understand what kind of person the child is? How can you say that the child can listen to it?
Many people felt that Yusheng Yushin was very modest and asked him for advice on how to cultivate.
He said, "I'm not modest, I'm competitive." In addition, each child has the advantages of each child. ”
His coach once commented on him: "His greatest talent is nothing more than hard work".
In another interview, I saw that he was extremely demanding of himself, such as a complex movement, which was practiced 20 to 30 times by an athlete and 60 times by a bad student.
Yusei's father asked the whole family to be low-key, rarely showing up, and not many photos were found (below).
However, as can be seen from the following examples, Yusheng's mother is not afraid of difficulties and will try everything to overcome them.
On March 11, 2011, when a magnitude nine earthquake and tsunami struck Japan, Yusei Yushin said in an interview: "I can't do anything, I lie on the floor every day and look at the roof of the gymnasium, I can't sleep, I can't sleep, I am shaking in my sleep, and the aftershocks are constantly continuing, so I can't tell whether it's a dream or reality."
At that time he was depressed and wanted to retire.
His mother not only encouraged him not to give up, but also tried to find ways to contact the venue for training, and finally in exchange for "60 disaster relief performances", he could finally practice.
The cloud gently throws the choice to the child, and the parents who can help in life and training are indeed a minority.
Before Yusei won the Olympic Games, his competition uniforms were made by his mother.
The old mother was distressed that her son was too thin, and the costume could not be made too close-fitting, and tried to make a flowing fairy and in line with his style. How many parents can do this kind of help?
When Yusei yushin was in high school, he went to Canada to practice with coach Brian Oser, and accompanied his mother to make balanced Japanese dishes every day to replenish his strength.
Yu Sheng especially knows how to be grateful, which makes his parents' efforts into a driving force on the field.
He is also very nice to his fans and will thank him out loud every time.
He was also courteous to his competitors and used to help our country's players position the flag before taking pictures.
He even took the initiative to help the ice rink to do ice repair work.
As a result, his public image is very positive, with 23 endorsements in hand.
When studying, he is the kind of person who "doesn't have much concentration... The process of concentration is really hard..." (self-described).
In this regard, Yusheng's mother did not say "go to study", but asked him: "Is this all I should do now?" Is this good? ”
I think it's important to know which set of teachings my children eat, and it's useless to just yell at them.
After slowly observing my son's acceptance, I felt that it was the most labor-saving thing to throw him time and let him plan for himself, and I checked the results regularly.
Yusei Yushin later used the tomato time management method, split time to study, carry textbooks and reference books, and write homework in fragmented time between waiting for the plane during the competition.
His high school math teacher, Endo, said of him: "My grades are above 90, and I never default on my homework." Not only mathematics, but Chinese are also very prominent".
Escorted by his family, YuSheng changed from a child with asthma to a national outstanding athlete and a world-class super-first-class athlete, and the trajectory of step by step is clearly visible.
I really can't do what Yusheng's mother did, making clothes for my children by hand, and it is even more impossible to put down everything to accompany my children away from home, and study what to eat and what nutrition is best every day.
I was embarrassed to hide my face and reflect: behind every ordinary child, there must be an ordinary parent.
While we ask for children, we should also look at the parents of children who are full of praise from us, and do a few percent of each other.
We should not only look at the shortcomings of the child, but also see the advantages, learn how to correctly educate the child, and help him in the appropriate situation.
We must also let children know how to be grateful, know how to cherish the resources they have, and be generous.
One cannot unilaterally demand children, but turn a blind eye to oneself.
Finally, let's end this article with Chen Ying's words.
"Fortunately, I got to know the peach blossom noodles, and from then on, I was more warm and warm in spring." We are very fortunate to have met him at the best age of Yusei Yusuke. Time passes, eyebrows become books. Since then, our affection has not been betrayed. Every period of youth will grow old, but our memories will always leave a place for The Feather String. ”
Thank you Yusei for bringing us this educational inspiration.