Wang Xu drove triumphantly with Qiu Yan to show off his "wrist" in handling Chen Daguang, and Qiu Yan tried to dissuade him, but Wang Xu was at this time proud and could not listen to other people's words. He drove Qiu Yan to an open-air square to watch a free movie, when he happened to see a little girl in front of him holding a large bouquet of roses and knocking on the car window one by one to sell.
Wang Xu did not like these flower sellers, thinking that they engaged in emotional kidnapping, but Qiu Yan felt that it was not easy for the little girl to come out to sell flowers on a cold day and it was not easy for Wang Xu to buy her one, but Wang Xu, who was used to searching, did not understand Qiu Yan's meaning.
When the little girl came over, she saw that the girl took out a sign that read, "Collect money to find Daddy." Qiu Yan recognized the flower girl Cai Xiaodan at a glance, Cai Xiaodan saw that the acquaintance was busy shouting to let Chen Lu run, Wang Xu heard Chen Lu's name and hurriedly got out of the car to chase, only to see Chen Lu also holding a large bouquet of flowers and a sign, which said "Brothers and sisters are scattered, pool money to find sister."
People say that the first impression is very important, and Wang Xu's first impression of Cai Xiaodan is: a liar who engaged in emotional kidnapping at a young age.
Ten years later, Wang Xu had a successful career, he drove to see his brother Chen Lu and a girl eating kebabs on the side of the road, the girl saw Wang Xu hurriedly hiding, Chen Lu came to greet Wang Xu, Wang Xu asked Chen Lu the identity of the girl, Chen Lu replied that it was his elementary school classmate Cai Xiaodan.
Wang Xu took Chen Lu to a secluded roadside, and he opened his mobile phone to show Chen Lu the family background of Cai Xiaodan, who had just been found. Chen Lu was inconceivable that Wang Xu had actually checked Cai Xiaodan in such a short time.
Cai Xiaodan's family conditions are not good, the family of five, rely on their father to make money in business, monthly income of about three thousand yuan, and her father's reputation in the mall is not good.
Obviously, Wang Xu did not have a good feeling for this girl who only had two sides, and he said to Chen Lu: We are a listed company, we are not allowed to have half a negative news, you know which is the trap, who will you in the back.
Wang Xu and Cai Xiaodan have never had direct contact, and just by virtue of a simple investigation and two long-distance encounters, they labeled Cai Xiaodan, a young girl, as a "bad person".
Why did he look down on Cai Xiaodan so much?
Is it because Cai Xiaodan is not good enough?
I think this is just Wang Xu's excuse for hating Cai Xiaodan.
Cai Xiaodan did not have an excellent birth, nor did he have outstanding education and experience, nor did he have outstanding ability, and the conditions in all aspects were very ordinary, and compared with Chen Lu at this time, it seemed a bit wrong. But can this constitute a reason for Wang Xu to hate a person so arbitrarily?
In fact, Wang Xu hates Cai Xiaodan, and it has little to do with Cai Xiaodan himself, most of the reasons actually stem from Wang Xu himself.
01. Natural prejudice against his younger brother Chen Lu
Does Wang Xu like Chen Lu? Nature liked it, it was his own brother. When Luo Yuzhu later taught Chen Lu, he also said: Your brother did not let you everywhere from childhood to adulthood, which shows that Wang Xu's love for his younger brother Chen Lu is obvious.
However, as the sons of Luo Yuzhu and Chen Jianghe, the two brothers Wang Xu and Chen Lu were obviously different. Wang Xu followed Luo Yuzhu around in his early years and suffered hardships, and then Luo Yuzhu and Chen Jianghe married, Wang Xu has understood things, his parents' hard work and entrepreneurship days he all saw in his eyes and remembered in his heart, and then later he himself went out of society to work and start a business, he walked step by step with great hardship, so Wang Xu is an ascetic monk who has suffered hardships since childhood.
And Chen Lu is not the same, he was born with diapers this kind of "high-end goods", there are aunts to take care of, grew up in a honeypot, the sky fell down with parents and brothers, he did not lack anything and did not have to worry about anything, it can be said that the typical rich second generation was born.
So in Wang Xu's eyes, Chen Lu is a child born with a golden key that has not yet grown up, he has never appreciated the advantages of his brother, and he has not treated his brother as an adult with mature thoughts, he loves his brother, but he also has a natural prejudice against Chen Lu, just as the poor people feel that the rich second generation should spend days and days to live, his positioning of Chen Lu is always "the young master of the rich family", so Wang Xu, the super vending machine mentioned by Chen Lu several times, has never had the patience to listen, Therefore, the women around Chen Lu were also reasonably regarded by him as "the young master's lace news".
And Cai Xiaodan, who is on the other side of the "lace news", has no superiority in all aspects, and is naturally looked down upon by Wang Xu, so Wang Xu said Chen Lu: You have seen the world, how can you even chase her.
02. Fatal flaw in one's own personality
Chen Jianghe once taught Wang Xu on the matter of Chen Daguang to learn to "tolerate people and tolerate things", but Wang Xu initially could not listen to his father's teachings, and felt that no matter what he did, his father would not look down on him, and later after the tempering of the disaster area, Wang Xu's thinking gradually changed.
But as the saying goes: Jiangshan is easy to change and difficult to move, although Wang Xu is becoming more and more mature, but when it comes to "rongren, tolerant things" Wang Xu is always more broad-minded than his parents Chen Jianghe and Luo Yuzhu, and even his younger brother Chen Lu, he always seems to be not broad-minded enough, and his attitude towards Cai Xiaodan is the same as that of Chen Daguang many years ago. Therefore, he subjectively drew a big fork for a girl based on his two-sided relationship and family background, which was caused by the fatal flaw in Wang Xu's personality that had not been corrected.
Therefore, Wang Xu likes that Cai Xiaodan and Cai Xiaodan himself have little to do with each other, even without Cai Xiaodan, there will be other classmates and friends of Chen Lu, Wang Xu and Chen Lu get along like father and son more than like brothers, so he can't empathize with his brother, plus his usual preconceived judgment of people, he can't appreciate his brother Chen Lu, naturally he can't appreciate the people around his brother.
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