It is no exaggeration to say:
Now an ordinary 10-year-old child's IQ, emotional intelligence, information collection ability and language expression ability are equivalent to the previous level of 15 or even 18 years old.
I have a forty-year-old colleague in my company, whose children are 12 years old and in the sixth grade of elementary school.
Often silenced him, he had a headache and felt that he could not control the child at all.
Our post-80s generation also rebelled when they were young, but to their parents is nothing more than saying "I don't", "you leave me alone", "why are you so annoying" and other gambling words.
But today's children are different, they will specifically pick the most painful places for their parents to attack.
The existence of the Internet has allowed children after 05 or even 10 to obtain too much information in advance.
And this information, some of which they cannot digest at their current age, is still intuitively placed in front of them.
Because their worldview has not yet been fully established, the surging knowledge will cause tearing apart their three views.
Children stand unsteadily washed away in this wave, with the confusion, confusion and anger characteristic of teenagers.
This sentiment bears the brunt of their parents.
Because of my work relationship, I know many blue-collar workers working in various manufacturing factories, as well as service industry workers such as delivery workers, couriers, and chauffeurs.
They are around 30 to 40 years old, with high school or junior college education, and the better ones also have undergraduates.
This age group is the mainstay of today's society and the most stressed group.
For various reasons, they do not achieve "success" in the secular sense, doing ordinary jobs and paying meager salaries.
Barely supporting the family's expenses, they work hard and are tired.
But more than once, they were intimidated by their teenage children, and they wondered every day where this child had learned so many sharp words.
Here's a few things I've heard, and after listening to them, I feel like these kids are really cruel.
I wonder what kind of world they are in.
Case 1
Parents ask their children to study well, such as their children in the first year of junior high school, parents say:
"The first year of junior high school should be grasped, read and write homework seriously, and don't lose at the starting line."
The child answered:
"You are my starting line. Where do you think this line is? ”
"Reincarnated in this county, this village, this home, I have lost."
"What if the starting line outperforms?" My finish line is someone else's starting line. ”
"Rich people are born to have everything without working hard, and there is no point in me running as fast as I can."
"Daughter of a star, the 8th birthday present is a Hermès bag, do you think I have to study hard to afford it?"
Case 2
The child is against the parents everywhere, and the parents complain:
"How did you become a little disobedient, you weren't like that when you were a kid. When you were a child, you knew better than you do now. ”
The 14-year-old answered:
"Mom, the reason you think I was more sensible when I was a kid is because I wasn't self-aware when I was a kid.
What you think of as "obedience" is not a virtue, but actually doing what you say.
But that's not a person, it's just your marionette at best.
The so-called "rebellion" of your adults is actually the inability to accept that your children have self-awareness. ”
Parents:...... (Speechless)
Case 3
There is a boy in the second grade of junior high school whose academic performance is in the middle and lower reaches of the class.
His father told him to study hard and said:
"It's hard to get into high school now, and only about 50 percent of middle school students can get into high school. You'll at least have to get into the upper middle and upper reaches of your class. ”
"No, I'll just go to technical school in the future."
The child's father is angry:
"How can you be so unambitious?!"
The child replied calmly:
"Going to high school doesn't necessarily make it to college. Even if I went to college, the school girls couldn't look up to me, and our family conditions were here, and the house couldn't afford to buy.
It is not as good as the last secondary school, in the future to find a girl who is right at the door, such as the milk tea shop clerk and the like, the requirements are not high, everyone is better. ”
Dad was speechless.
Case 4
There is a big sister in her 40s, the eldest daughter is already working, and the younger daughter is in junior high school.
The eldest daughter is quite competitive, majoring in computer science at 985 University, and now works for a large Internet company.
The younger daughter's grades are not good, and her mother advises her to study hard so that she can find a decent job like her sister in the future.
The little daughter replied:
"Can I compare with my sister?" When my sister was looking for a job, it was the most developed time in the Internet industry, and you really thought that the dividends of the times could last forever? ”
You read it correctly, the four words "times dividend" are from the mouth of this little girl, word for word.
I really don't know where they look from, and they are skillfully used to rebuke their parents.
Case 5
A friend's son is in the sixth grade of elementary school, is very tall, and likes to play basketball.
Friends said that you should still study more, at this stage you should first do a good job in your studies, basketball can not be done as the main business.
The son asked him:
"I love playing basketball, it's up to you. Didn't you also enjoy playing basketball when you were younger? ”
Friend answered:
"But I didn't take playing basketball as my main job, I always studied hard, and then I was admitted to college."
The son snorted:
"You study hard, and the result is that you have been working for others now?" What does that mean. ”
Case 6
My friend's child is 15 years old, has a gloomy personality, and does not like to talk.
Parents try to hope that their children will become more "sunny" and more "outgoing".
The child was impatient and said:
"Why can't you accept that people are different?
The world is originally made up of different people, some extroverted, some introverted.
I'm just introverted, can't I? Am I getting in the way of others? ”
discuss
Now the post-05 and post-10 generations are sharp-tongued, often making their parents unable to speak, but they cannot refute it.
What do you think of this phenomenon?
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