Author | Lee walnut
Anchor | Fan Deng Reading · Xia Han
At 10:30 last night, I had something to give my sister a video and found that my little nephew was still studying.
Isn't it already winter break? Why do you still work so hard?
The sister sighed:
"Afraid that he would be too crazy during the holidays, I assigned a little homework: practicing 1 page of words every day and doing 100 calculation problems.
Just this little bit of homework, early in the morning began to urge, dragged on for a day and did not finish. Now it's time to go to bed, to think of getting up and making up for your homework..."
I couldn't stop crying and laughing.
It is often said that the holidays are a critical period to open up the gap between children, and the indulgent holidays and the self-disciplined holidays are completely different after the school starts.
Boys, in particular, have slow development of the prefrontal lobe of their brains, lack of self-control, and are prone to distraction when studying.
Coupled with testosterone, they are naturally active and can't sit still, and it is difficult for them to sit honestly at their desks to study.
How do you keep boys focused and self-motivated to learn?
The following 7 cartoons reveal 7 laws of educational psychology that are believed to inspire confused parents.
The British educator Spencer said in his "Pedagogy":
"Remember that the purpose of your discipline should be to cultivate a person who can have self-control, not someone who needs someone else to regulate."
The most promising children in the future are not necessarily the children with the highest IQ, but the children who take the initiative and are self-conscious in everything.
It can make a child stand out among the mediocre people who do nothing, and let him have the courage to overcome even in the face of difficulties.
It is human nature to procrastinate, enjoy, and be lazy, and boys with insufficient self-control are even more difficult to overcome.
Learning some psychological laws can help us better understand the psychology of children and calmly cope with children's deficiencies.
The more you know about your child, how good your child can be.
Click "watching", may our children be self-conscious, self-disciplined, self-reliant!
Typography | Zheng to the north
Music | Stone Piano - you don't have to worry