A friend who is 10 years older than me told me that in this world, in addition to the people closest to you who deserve your sadness and unhappiness, don't affect your mood because of anyone, because those will become passers-by in your life, and it is not worth you investing too much in your heart.

People are different from each other, no one must deliberately please anyone, and there is no need to deliberately embarrass themselves to do something against their will in order to cater to others. Many people have a lot of things, and after you see them thoroughly, you will understand that there is really no one and things to catch up with your mood.
Life is a trip with no return, in this process, we have experienced a lot of people in the world's bittersweet, human feelings are cold and warm, more need to want to open, let go of everything, and communicate with people who are good to themselves, so that they can live a happy life every day. Put your mental efforts on people and things that are worthwhile, all the good will be your efforts in exchange, put the mentality flat, you will see through, let go of a lot.
After different degrees of tempering, a person will obtain different degrees of cultivation, different degrees of benefits, just like spices, the more crushed, the finer the grinding, the more intense the incense.