She was abandoned many times, but never gave up hope for life; she still had love in her heart despite her disability in both legs.
Life was always playing all kinds of jokes with her, but she never complained. She is the "creeping mother" - Feng Ni. Tell the story of the people, taste the taste of life, this issue of the child's child fun we ordinary people, just tell the touching story of "creeping mother" Feng Ni.
(1) Abandon again
Feng Ni, 39 years old, is from Lushan County, Pingdingshan City, Henan Province. Feng Ni was born with a congenital disability, and when her biological parents found out that Feng Ni's body was defective, she was cruelly abandoned in the wilderness.
Later, someone went up the mountain to collect firewood and found The swaddling Feng Ni and brought her home, but the history is always strikingly similar. When the firewood collector came home to find Thaty was congenitally disabled, he abandoned Herne again.
Things like this happen one after another. In the end, a kind couple adopted Feng Ni, ending the days of little Feng Ni's upheaval and displacement.
The person who picked up Feng Ni was a man who went around playing cotton for others, that is, Feng Ni's adoptive father.
The adoptive father picked up Feng Ni in Sichuan, and when he picked up Feng Ni, she was covered with maggots, and the adoptive father couldn't help but vomit when he saw it. But he still couldn't bear to abandon this little life again, so he took him back to Henan.
The adoptive mother Wei Cuiping also had extra pity for this child, wiped her body clean, and treated the wound, saving this little life.
Her adoptive mother, Wei Cuiping, was deaf and mute and could not speak, but she struggled to squeeze out a "Ni" word, which is the origin of Feng Ni's name.
Feng Ni's adoptive parents are good people, and they did not choose to abandon Feng Ni again and did their best to raise her. Feng Ni is no longer the abandoned baby who was pushed and shoved by everyone, she is also a child with a family.
Although she can only crawl and walk, her family has never abandoned her, and even if she goes to cook after crawling, her family is willing to eat.
Crawling is a very pants-consuming thing, and she has thought of many solutions, even tying the inner tube of the bicycle to the knee, but it seriously affects the crawling and is not convenient at all.
(ii) Fairy tale-like love
Many of her clothes were sent by friends, and she was a little embarrassed to say that in fact, she just put the good ones on the outside, and the inside was all patched. She also made herself two skins and cushioned them under her knees.
When she grew up, Feng Ni, like all girls, waited for love to appear. Her love is also as dramatic as her life. One day, Feng Ni crawled to the market to buy, and suddenly it rained in the sky, and Feng Ni hurried to find a place to hide from the rain.
At this time, a young man appeared, and like a prince in a fairy tale, he picked up his princess and took her to the side to hide from the rain. Also like fairy tales, they were together.
After more than half a year of dating, they entered into marriage. Feng Ni's husband does not care about other people's opinions, he likes this kind girl, will not give up being with her because she has a congenital disability, but more determined to accompany and care.
But shortly after Vonne got married, her adoptive mother, who loved her, died in an unexpected car accident. There is only one adoptive father left in the family, And Wheny's husband goes out to earn money to support the family, Feng Ni takes care of three elderly people alone.
Feng Ni and her husband gave birth to the first crystallization of their lives, Huo Guowang. Huo Guowang was also a child whose wings were broken by the heavens and was found to have cerebral palsy. When his peers went to school, Huo Guowang could only stay at home.
Because of physical disabilities, if you want to go to school, you must have a guardian to take care of it.
But that year was the most difficult year for The Feng Ni family, when the family had just built a new house, but the father-in-law accidentally fell and the eldest son was diagnosed with cerebral palsy.
The family has tens of thousands of yuan of foreign debt, she and her husband are worried about this huge debt, there is no time to accompany the eldest son to school, and the eldest son has to go to rehabilitation every month, otherwise if the thigh muscles atrophy, the eldest son can no longer walk normally.
At that time, Feng Ni even thought about sending her young son away, but after all, it was a piece of meat that fell from her body, and she had also experienced the taste of abandonment, and she did not want her child to suffer herself again.
(3) Laugh positively at life
She said that "only to enjoy endless blessings, there is no suffering that cannot be eaten, as long as you are willing to work hard, the future will be better", even if there are still many sufferings now, but she has never given up the hope of life.
Feng Ni hopes that the child can grow up healthy, and hopes to cure the disease of the eldest son, so that he can be as healthy as a normal child. She began to look for a job and take on the "pressure of love" with her husband.
She bought a second-hand disabled tricycle, and a factory in town that made plastic flowers asked Feng Ni to be her teacher, adding an income to the family every month. Feng Ni's hands had been worn out of calluses due to years of crawling, and her legs were also rheumatized.
He was injured and sick, and he also had to take care of three old and two young. Sometimes people are not easily defeated, only themselves can beat themselves, Andey has never been defeated by setbacks, and she has been actively laughing at life.
Now Feng Ni has family and friends, although life is a little bitter, but with her family it seems that it is not so bitter. Feng Ni remembered the birthday of the whole family, but she did not know her own birthday.
Because she experienced too many twists and turns when she was a child, no one knows what she was born into. The adoptive parents can only take the day they picked her up as her birthday.
In her dreams, she wanted to go back to the place where she was born a thousand times, not only to know where she was born, but also to see her biological parents, to ask them why they had abandoned themselves, why they had become what kind of body they were.
Although the eldest son is now actively in treatment, and the younger son is also very healthy, the family and Hele, but that thing is like a thorn in the heart, always want to know the answer.
Although Feng Ni was unfortunate, abandoned by her biological parents and was transferred many times, she was also lucky. She is also the heart of her adoptive parents, the sweetheart of her husband, the good mother of her children, and the good daughter-in-law of her in-laws. She never gave up the hope of life, even if the days were hard, didn't she survive it?
(iv) Be the best version of yourself
Many times people are fighting with themselves, defeating themselves and surviving, and failing to sink to the bottom. Sometimes it is great to see other people's things, but when it comes to myself, I think of giving up before I start.
Some days are when you see your head at a glance and see what your eighty-year-old self looks like. That kind of life is right, but I will do nothing for the rest of my life, and when I am about to die, I will take the hand of my children and say, The most regrettable thing in my life is that I did not do my best at the best age.
Looking at those inspirational stories, it was only a momentary sigh and emotion, and I never thought that I was obviously sound on all fours, but I was still not happy.
The old saying goes, "Life is not satisfactory nine times out of ten", but it does not mean that if you are not satisfied, you will shelve it, and you should think about how to turn unsatisfactory things into wishes.
Feng Ni is a shocking existence, not self-destructive, and has been actively living. The matter of giving birth to a new life is also a high-risk undertaking for Feng Ni, but it still gives birth to two new lives.
She did not give up exercising her right to be a mother because of her own physical defects, nor did she give up fulfilling her mother's obligations when her son was ill. Supporting the elderly on both sides, doing their best. Never wanted to go over and ask for life, but to meet all the suffering in life by yourself.
I believe that if Feng Ni's biological parents find that Feng Ni has not affected her normal life because of her legs, maybe she will be abandoned later! Parents who are born without support will also feel guilty about Feng Ni when they dream back in the middle of the night!
After listening to the story of "Creeping Mother" Feng Ni, have you reflected on it? Are you still satisfied with your current self? Do you also have the courage to face setbacks positively? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.
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