What do you mean when you say that people live in the world? If for their own sake, it seems too selfish and too realistic. If it is the world, it seems too arrogant and unrealistic.
The meaning of life is vague, which makes us lose the motivation to struggle and live in the vastness. So, how can we discover the meaning of life?
If Ashin said that it was to make the family live well and be happy, would you object? If the family can't take care of it, what is the point of living a good life? If you raise a poor family, can your ambition to help the world really come true?
In life, people's own happiness is not happy, and the happiness of the family is happiness. Why did this author have this realization? Do you think I was influenced by Confucian filial piety?
Actually, no, I saw the meaning of life in Su Qin.
First, Su Qin is a small person, but he has big ideals and wants to do a big thing, just like you and me, so he takes the expectations of his parents and brothers and sisters to go outside, and as a result, the timing is not good, the ability is insufficient, and he is down. How tragic is this? The idiom "withering" is actually found in the "Biography of Su Qin", he is mixed together, not an adult appearance, and when he arrives home, he is not in human form.
The result? The most hated thing in the family was that his wife did not sew clothes for him, his brothers and sisters laughed at him, and his parents ignored him. The history books record: "Brothers and sisters all laughed", the family laughed at him, and said to Su Qin, you are not the material of the Zongheng family, you are an ordinary person.
In this way, Su Qin's "cone thorn strand" was read behind closed doors, and he had an epiphany about speculation.
In fact, everyone and the family will have all kinds of contradictions, full of misunderstandings, prejudices and incomprehensions. Also for this reason, family reunions become out of reach as conflicts escalate.
So, what should Su Qin do? Like many friends, have you broken up with your family ever since? In this way, he lost the meaning of struggle, and the failure of his own entrepreneurship brought great trouble to his family's life, and Su Qin believed that it was all his fault. According to historical records, Su Qin has a saying: A wife does not regard me as a husband, my father does not take me as a son, and my parents do not regard me as a son, which is a sin of Qin.
The indifference of my family is my Su Qin's sin, I am too weak, too naïve, so I want to become strong, yes, the closed door of the cone thorn strands of hard reading, in fact, is Su Qin's self-redemption, he must let the family live a good life.
Third, in the depths of his heart, Su Qin is the head of the family, and his heart longs for reunion. After realizing his thoughts, Su Qin bid farewell to his family again and went out to wander. Thankfully, this time, he really succeeded and became a successful person in the Six Kingdoms.
The first thing Su Qin did was to go home and reunite with his family. The concern for these big people is always inferior to the booing and warm greetings of the family, and the jade liquid is always inferior to the three meats and one vegetarian at home. Family is the meaning of your life.
The value of life struggle lies in letting the family have a good life, Su Qin said a word, to the family, he "scattered thousands of gold, gave clan friends", gave the wealth of thousands of families, and made the Su family rich. Su Qin once gave him a good friend Baijin to show his gratitude.
Do you think that's the end of it? In the history of the Zongheng family surnamed Su, in addition to Su Qin, there are Su, Su, Su, Su, historically known as the three Su, in fact, are Su Qin's brothers, are all family, Su Qin is also, Su Qin is also a well-known figure.
What about the world? The world was always laughing at Su Qin's private morality, but it did not know that Su Qin and the Six Kingdoms had joined forces, and Qin Soldiers did not dare to spy on HanguGuan for fifteen years. There are fifteen years of peace on earth.
In Su Qin, I found the meaning of life, people live for the sake of the family, live for the sake of the family, be happy for the sake of life, and be happy for themselves. If this is the case, the poor are alone, and the rich have a family.