People are really weird sometimes, always trying to find evidence that the other person loves you through clues. So I always wondered if he loved me or not.
Especially when you are in love, the three words you most want to hear should not be "I love you", but "I miss you". At that time, as soon as you opened your eyes, you would be able to see each other.
So you start chatting desperately, as if there are always endless topics and things that can't be talked about. Indeed, at this time, you must be the most in love with each other.
Then when your love period is over, there is no longer the passion you had before, so you will wonder if he is also thinking about me, whether he really loves me. You always want to prove that he loves you by discovering everything he has done to you. So can love or not love prove it in the end?
The answer is yes, out of the other party's actual action, more intuitive is your chat history, because the chat history is full of your love, which is why after the breakup of the couple, the first thing to do is to delete the chat history.
For what remains is proof of your former love. I have seen such a passage as "Whether a person loves you or not, it is really too easy to find and expose, and you will determine the other party's intentions for you from many tiny details." ”
In fact, it is very easy to understand, because a person who loves you, he will always think of you unconsciously, always want to know everything about you, and also want to tell you everything about him now. And the easiest and most direct way is through and your chat history. Because it may stick to you in this way.
I remember seeing a question before: when a person has what kind of situation, it means that he is leaving you.
One of the comments on this issue that I remember fondly said: "When a person goes from a large paragraph of text at the beginning, to a few words, to a few words, and finally only the words 'grace', 'ah', 'good', it means that he is going to start giving up on you." Because he has decided not to stick to you anymore. ”
Friend Xiao bai once said something similar, he said what kind of people will not pay attention to you, only those who do not love you will not pay attention to you.
He said that when your boyfriend or girlfriend goes from being particularly clingy to you to finally not clinging to you, you have to be careful because you may be broken up at any time. So, you have to know that when your chat starts to gradually decrease, you have to start reflecting on what makes your feelings fade.
Xiao Bai went on to give another example, another of his friends, Wheat, who had a girlfriend who loved him very much. We have been together for several years, and it is reasonable to say that we have not yet reached the so-called "seven-year itch". Wheat also loves her girlfriend, at least to us outsiders.
Only one day suddenly received a phone call from Wheat, and I think everyone can guess that he broke up. The reason for the breakup was later wheat said that in fact, he already had feelings, but because he was busy with work, he did not repair it.
Because his girlfriend decided to break up, she actually gave Wheat a chance, but Wheat didn't catch it. Maybe the two of them have been together for a long time, and sometimes Wheat feels that his girlfriend is doing something, and she is particularly clingy, as if when she is busy, she always looks for him.
For this reason Wheat and his girlfriend also quarreled several times. Maybe Wheat thinks her girlfriend won't leave him, and the matter has never been resolved.
Just a few months before they were about to break up, Wheat felt relaxed, because his girlfriend began to stop clinging to him, did not check his post, and took the initiative to chat with him less and less frequently. Wheat wouldn't send her a message, and she wouldn't take the initiative to find him.
Unbeknownst to Wheat at the time, her girlfriend had decided to leave him. So one day no contact, one week no contact, ten days no contact, and slowly finally there was no contact.
Yes, looking back at the end of all relationships, there are actually traces to follow, that is, in your chat. You started to care less about each other. Your interactions are slowly starting to decrease.
Chats are also getting less and less. If you still have chats with your ex, you'll find that in the months before you broke up. You may chat only once a few days, or even replace it with an emoticon. Sometimes you don't even respond to the other person's questions.
It's just that when the relationship breaks down, you start to be hysterical again and want to keep it. But when there were traces to follow, you didn't do anything.
People are sometimes like this, they don't cherish it after they get it, and they regret it until they lose it. In the face of love, family affection, it is so necessary to cherish. Know that emotions are complex, but love is mutual. Love or not love can be felt.
So if you want to know how your relationship is, just go and look at your chat history! Because it hides your attitude towards love.
Therefore, when you have it, you must cherish it well, and don't feel that the other party is annoying and clingy. Always want to know what you are doing, because that is all a manifestation of loving you, only people who do not love you will not care about your dynamics, will not be jealous of you. I will not take the initiative to chat with you.
Remember, no matter how long you have been in love, don't be perfunctory, tell him something, and chat with him should not always be impatient and perfunctory, because love can be seen from your chat. Finally, I also wish that all lovers in the world will eventually become dependents and live a lifetime.
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