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Editor 丨 Cui Yonghui
"Love at first sight" is a topic that many people can't avoid when looking for love. Some people believe in "love at first sight" and think that it is a kind of true love, while some people think that "love at first sight" is just "looking at the value" and is not very reliable. What is "love at first sight" and is it true love?
<h1 class="ql-align-center" > what the concept of love at first sight is</h1>
Literally, "love at first sight" is a very fast thing, how fast? The psychological research team at the University of Bamberg in Germany came up with the latest research this year: "Love at first sight" takes only 0.3 seconds. It's as fast as we usually blink our eyes.
The research team selected 25 systematically educated ordinary people to be tested, randomly showed them photos of a hundred people, and asked them to answer whether the people in the photos were male or female, whether they were interested in the people in the photos, and used professional instruments to monitor the changes in their cerebral cortex after seeing the pictures.
The results showed that after a person saw a human face, it only took an average of 244 milliseconds to identify the gender, and then it only took 59 milliseconds to judge whether it was attractive to themselves, and sure enough, it was in the blink of an eye.
< h1 class="ql-align-center" > is it called "love at first sight" just because it's fast</h1>?
Of course not. Some experts believe that "love at first sight" is a kind of "memory bias". To put it simply, we have a dish in mind, or a food, and it takes a lot of effort to finally eat it, but we find that the taste is a little different from the impression.
Time will dilute our memories and blur our memories, so is it possible that because we have a good relationship with the object now, we subconsciously beautify the memories of the first sight?
To confirm the credibility of this claim, researchers at the University of Groningen in the Netherlands conducted an experiment in 2017 based on the most popular dating websites of the moment.
A total of 396 people participated in the experiment, each uploading a smiling "Facebook" avatar for a blind date, after the participants saw each other's photos for the first time, the researchers immediately asked each other how they felt, whether there was a feeling of love at first sight. After the data were summarized, the researchers obtained four highly valuable answers.
First of all, love at first sight is not a simple memory bias, and a considerable number of people do say that they fell in love at first sight after the first meeting, hoping to continue to go deeper with each other.
Second, men made up a higher percentage of those who participated in the experiment and said they fell in love at first sight.
Third, "love at first sight" is often unrequited love, that is, most of the time this situation is not a two-way street, like Romeo and Juliet, the phenomenon of dry wood and falling in love is still relatively rare in life.
Finally, based on the participants' self-expression feelings, the researchers analyzed that when they said that they were "love at first sight", it was not actually love, but a very strong attraction, attracting them to want to know more about each other and start a relationship with each other.
<h1 class="ql-align-center" > men more likely to fall in love at first sight</h1>
Men's "love at first sight" lies in vision, that is, the first "look at the face", the first glance did not produce interest, then in the next, it is difficult to have the patience to go deeper, if interested, then he will continue to send a courtship signal to each other until the pursuit of success, this state can last for more than 18 months.
In real life, it is true that a considerable number of people are also in the acquaintance, contact, love for a year to three years, will enter the marriage, if not, give up, and then go to the "love at first sight" new goal.
And women's "love at first sight" comes from the worship of each other, for example, when they first met, this person happened to do a very attractive thing, at this time, women will be attracted. Of course, appearance is also important, if this person has both charm and appearance, it is perfect.
With such a foundation as a premise, then women are more eager to know more about this person in the next few days, which is what we call long-term companionship.
In the process of companionship, the female brain will secrete a substance called oxytocin, which will make herself slowly dependent on the person who accompanies her, then love will naturally arise.
Is "love at first sight" true love? In fact, this is still related to individual differences. Everyone's understanding and definition of love is different, and there are naturally many forms of love, and although the data is accurate, it is only a reference basis.
Therefore, I still want to bless all the friends that you can find your favorite other half, no matter whether it is morning or evening, whether it is love at first sight or not.
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