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Women are inherently powerful, women have been very capable since ancient times, and now women have more opportunities, which is a good thing.
--Wendi Deng
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The relationship between Wendi Deng and Mr. Cherry finally came to an end, and he has truly returned to his single state. At this time, Deng Wendi felt an unprecedented ease.
Meanwhile, the relationship between Wendi Deng and David Wolf is growing day by day. A woman in love, the whole person looks radiant. Wendi Deng took the arm of the man he loved and shuttled through various cocktail parties. At this time, Wendi Deng also changed his name to David Wolf. Although the two are not married, David Wolf's external status has been upgraded from "boyfriend" to "husband".
In the eyes of the outside world, Deng Wendi and David Wolf are a harmonious and happy couple. Except for not getting married, the pattern of getting along between them is no different from that of ordinary couples.
In 1993, Wendi Deng graduated with honors from California State University, Northridge, and then successfully applied for the opportunity to study at Yale Graduate School of Business. As a world-renowned university, Yale's tuition fees are very expensive. Although Deng Wendi has been engaged in social practice activities and work, the income is far from enough to pay for expensive tuition. David Wolf generously extended a helping hand to Wendi Deng, expressing his willingness to support Wendi Deng. In this regard, Deng Wendi is full of gratitude.
In 1995, with the full support of David Wolf, Wendi Deng finally walked into the once haunted Yale University Business School.
Many elite schools appreciate students who have expertise in sports. Because students who love sports are not only physically good, but also have traits such as resilience and the ability to endure hardships, and these traits are often the key factors that determine whether a person can achieve extraordinary achievements.
On the other hand, prestigious schools like Yale are also more inclined to those who are ambitious and motivated. And Deng Wendi is undoubtedly very suitable for this requirement.
To some extent, famous schools are also Vanity Fair, as a foreign Chinese female student, Deng Wendi needs to be introduced by people with considerable prestige and social influence. Previously, in social practice and work, Deng Wendi met many influential figures with his social talents of long-sleeved good dance. For Wendi Deng, it is not difficult to find people with social prestige to write letters of recommendation for themselves.
A professor named Daniel Blake referred to Wendi Deng as a "Super" student in his letter of recommendation, saying that Wendi Deng was not only focused on his studies, but also performed very well in all aspects. Professor Daniel Blake also predicted in his letter of recommendation that Wendi Deng "will play an important role in China's opening up to the West"
It turned out that Professor Daniel Blake's vision was indeed correct!
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After entering Yale University, Deng Wendi found that there were many excellent talents around him, and he was not the best. As a result, Wendi Deng spends more time studying. As the world's top university, Yale University's campus environment is particularly quiet, like a temple of knowledge that allows people to gallop and wander, and everything on campus makes Wendi Deng feel new and excited.
The experience of studying at Yale University was a very happy experience in Deng Wendi's life. So many years later, when Deng Wendi recalled the past, his tone was still full of nostalgia: "Being an MBA student at Yale University is really very happy, as if the best people in the world are friends together, sitting on a garden-like campus, talking about ideals and world events all day long, and everyone cares about politics, the world and the future." My horizons have never been so broad. For those who love to read, Yale is like heaven. And I always firmly believe that the most valuable wealth of people is education, when you do not have a face, youth, this kind of education will make you confident, open, knowledgeable people will be more open and brave in their hearts. ”
During his studies at Yale, Wendi Deng showed a fanatical love of the media and film, and often attended lectures at the Yale School of Drama. Deng Wendi's passion for film can be traced back to the girlhood, and a foreign film called "The Sound of Music" opened the door to film art for Deng Wendi, and also lit up Deng Wendi's dream of going abroad and embracing the vast world. It was also at that time that Deng Wendi understood a truth: only through the media, people can understand different cultures and different worlds, and understanding will eventually eliminate misunderstandings and make human culture richer and more progressive.
While paying attention to the media and movies, Deng Wendi also made plans for his future life. She hopes to enter the relevant companies after graduation, systematically contact with movies, and hope that what she has learned at Yale can be applied in practical work.
Unlike students who study in order to successfully pass exams and graduate, Wendi Deng studies any subject with a goal.
Wendi Deng threw himself into the new learning and had no time to take care of many things. She only occasionally thinks of David Wolf. When he first arrived at Yale, Wendi Deng also maintained frequent contact with David Wolf, sharing his new life with David Wolf. However, like most long-distance relationships that are difficult to cultivate, as time goes on, Wendi Deng's desire to confide in David Wolf is getting weaker and weaker.
David Wolf also left the United States due to job changes, came to Beijing to work and settle down. It seems that the feelings of young people always have a certain instability, and the big boy who once could give everything for Deng Wendi has completely lost his original impulse to this relationship.
Perhaps the distance has blocked the intimate love between the two in the past, or time has diluted the endless affection of the two, or it may be based on some practical reasons. Deng Wendi yearned for a wider world, and dreamed of going abroad as a girl. Now, that wish has finally come true! David Wolf, on the other hand, came to China, fell in love with the oriental country, and planned to live in Beijing for a long time.
In Deng Wendi's life plan, she does not plan to return to China in the short term. For her, the outside world undoubtedly has a greater appeal.
In this way, the relationship between Wendi Deng and David Wolf came to an end completely.
Like most couples, the conversation begins with nothing to talk about and ends with nothing to say.
In the relationship, Deng Wendi does not have the sensitivity and vulnerability of ordinary girls. When a relationship ends, she rarely feels of loss, sadness, and discomfort. Neither the end of the marriage to Mr. Cherry nor the breakup with David Wolf seemed to have upset her rhythm or had an impact on her life. In Wendi Deng's concept, feelings are an important part of life, but not all, and there are many things waiting for her in the colorful world.
Therefore, when love begins, it is fully devoted; when love is over, everyone waves goodbye in a friendly way, without resentment, without regret... Wendi Deng will never allow herself to indulge in negative emotions for a long time, so she will not be as difficult as some girls to get out of the shadow of lost love, or even lose the ability to love from then on.
Although the once beloved David Wolf is in the past, Wendi Deng still has good expectations for new feelings.
Since then, wendi Deng has completely sunk his mind and immersed himself in Yale University's coursework and strong learning atmosphere.
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Yale brings together elite students from all over the world. At California State University, Wendi Deng was a "super" student in the eyes of teachers and classmates. But in the talented Yale, Deng Wendi no longer has the dazzling light of the past. But Deng Wendi did not have a gap because of this, and people with strong hearts can always quickly adapt and integrate into different environments.
Yale respects traditional education, but the course selection system is very loose, and there is no core curriculum, so students can start more from their own interests and hobbies. At the same time, whether it is a large lecture or a small discussion class at Yale, it is very interesting and exciting for Wendi Deng.
Learning and communicating with very good classmates every day makes Wendi Deng both excited and feels an invisible pressure, but she transforms this pressure into a strong motivation to learn.
Wendi Deng was originally a person who was good at learning and willing to learn. Coupled with this just right amount of pressure, almost all the potential in Wendi Deng has been stimulated.
It is often said that "interest is the best teacher". Only by loving a thing from the bottom of your heart can you do it well, and the same is true for learning. For Wendi Deng, learning is a pleasure, not a kind of hard labor.
Wendi Deng's interest in learning stems from the respect for knowledge in his bones. Knowledge can free one from ignorance and become wiser, more open, and more inclusive. Deng Wendi has always firmly believed that it is reading that broadens her horizons, affects her thinking, and then changes her destiny, and reading can provide help for the development of society and all mankind.
At Yale, Wendi Deng is also a very smart student, who can learn from each other and apply what he has learned flexibly. In addition to being good at studying, Wendi Deng is also very good at exams. Many years later, Wendi Deng graduated from Yale, and when she recalled this experience of studying at a prestigious school, she said frankly to the media: "I am the best at the exam." The tone was full of pride, and at that moment her expression was like a playful and clever child.
The true disposition that is inadvertently revealed makes many people like this woman who seems too powerful and independent.
Wendi Deng has always been a woman with strong learning ability and ability to accept new things. In the era of knowledge and information explosion, the world has new changes every day, and the speed of information update in any discipline or industry has reached an unprecedented state.
For people in the new era, a very important point is the ability to learn and accept new things. Only in this way can we continuously improve and improve ourselves, so that we will not be left behind by competitors and even the entire era.
Learning is the biggest competitiveness – Wendi Deng naturally understands this. Even if she has the aura of a famous school, and even later becomes the world's top giant, she has never stopped learning.
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Excerpt from | "Wendi Deng: Women Can Live More Wonderfully"
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"Wendi Deng: Women Can Live More Wonderfully"
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