In modern society, many women are running towards independence and personalization, and no longer tend to have children, be housewives, or rely on the "alms" of their husbands to live in captivity day by day.
As those women who have successfully stood out by their own abilities, they are a kind of strong woman's benchmark in the eyes of everyone, and they have become a role model in the hearts of most women.
But the reason why those successful women are attracted by all eyes is because among the many women, after all, it is still extremely rare, and many people follow the footsteps of those who have succeeded, even in the face of the single wooden bridge robbed by thousands of people, they still spend their lives trying to pass.
When everyone tried to climb up with the most primitive way of fighting, there was a woman, but another way, with her unique vision, and a careful mind that did not match her age, overtook in the corner, and in the shortest time, became the world's top ten giants.
She is Deng Wendi, a very ordinary woman, no prominent family background, her parents do not have proud network resources, she does not have the face of the national color, but life can jump straight up. This makes many people wonder how such a strange woman is unique in this kaleidoscope of flowers.
Here's how she opened up her past and got a glimpse of her entire history of growth, as a way to explore how she drew her own brilliant blueprint for life.
01
Born and raised
On December 5, 1968, Deng Wendi was born in a family of intellectuals in Jinan, Shandong Province, his father was an engineer, because he had to go on a business trip for many years, so he accompanied her mother the most, who had read for several years and was also a cultured woman at that time.
Due to the needs of his father's work, shortly after the birth of little Deng Wendi, the whole family moved to Xuzhou to live, and from a young age, he has perceived the culture of Xuzhou, and it can be said that Deng Wendi is actually an authentic Xuzhou native.
Deng Wendi has three brothers and sisters, two sisters and a younger brother, she is the third oldest, her parents originally named her "Deng Wenge", from the name can see the traces of China's experience at that time, but also can see that her parents at that time hoped to raise her as a boy.
Although there are two sisters, but the housework Deng Wendi did not do less, more, is the strict discipline of parents, especially the mother, perhaps because of their failure to have the opportunity to finish the study, for the study of several children, is extremely attentive, the most placed in the home is the ancient poetry.
Because the mother attaches great importance to her children's reading from an early age, coupled with the fact that Deng Wendi has been talented and intelligent since she was a child, she was able to memorize many popular poems when she was not in primary school.
In 1974, Deng Wendi entered the Shaohua Street Primary School in Xuzhou City, and at a young age, she showed extraordinary talent, which was deeply loved by the teachers, and the big red flower was also the largest in the class.
In 1979, Deng Wendi was admitted to Xuzhou No. 1 Middle School, which is also relatively excellent in Xuzhou, until she entered high school and began a life experience.
Due to her father's job transfer, in view of Deng Wendi's excellent grades, afraid that successive transfers would affect her grades, after obtaining Deng Wendi's consent, he entrusted her to a local friend, and it was these three years of solitude that established Deng Wendi's independent and courageous character.
When Deng Wendi was in high school, she liked sports, and at that time, her height had reached 1.77 meters, which was a good seedling for an athlete in the eyes of the coach, and as Deng Wendi wished, she was selected into the school volleyball team.
Although the daily training was very hard, it was happy for Deng Wendi, and she also won the competition for the school, but an accidental ligament was seriously strained, causing her to leave volleyball.
Due to the decline in her grades due to her previous volleyball training, in order to reunite with her family as soon as possible, she chose a school that she could get down from the test, Guangzhou Medical College.
Perhaps the previous family influence and a person's three years of independent life have made Deng Wendi's thinking far different from her peers, and in her heart, it is more of a kind of unrestrainedness to life and the display of personality.
It was also in this way that there was the beginning of her legendary life.
02
The first leap in life
During college, she better showed her social talent, as long as she had time, she would participate in large and small social activities, it can be said that as long as Deng Wendi was mentioned in school, everyone knew.
At that time, many people held the American dream, hoping that in their lifetime, they could enter the country that made people all over the world obsessed, of course, including Deng Wendi, who had already planted such seeds in her heart.
Unlike others, others may just be a dream, more will change their lives through hard work, but Deng Wendi has planned a path to the dream early, such a path in her view, is an immediately feasible, most realistic, and nearest road.
In an off-campus activity, Wendi Deng met a couple from the United States, Mr. and Mrs. Cherry, for her who was "poor and white" at that time, and kept thinking about how to make her better in-depth communication with the Americans in front of her.
She began to take the initiative to propose that she take them to play in Guangzhou, and went out of her way to explain Chinese cuisine and history and culture to them. Then Deng Wendi's plan also began.
She told the Cherry couple that her English was not good and hoped to teach her English, and it was the so-called learning English that made her more closely associated with the two Americans.
One day a year later, the Cherry couple wanted to return to the United States, Deng Wendi finally said that she longed for the United States, hoping to help her study in the United States, and finally with the help of the Cherry couple, she obtained a student visa in the United States. It was this step that brought her closer to her dream.
Wendi Deng, who came to the United States, not only lived with the daughter of the Cheri couple, but also paid for their daily living expenses, and entered the California State University Northridge with the help of the Cheri couple, which can be said that the Cheri couple is completely equivalent to her parents.
But there is a saying: there is no love in this world for no reason. Just when many people were puzzled by the Cheri couple's care for Deng Wendi, finally one day, when Cherie's wife was sorting out her clothes, she found photos of her husband and Deng Wendi playing in Guangzhou, and deng Wendi's figure in the photo was unobstructed.
Finally, under the pressure of his wife, Mr. Cherry admitted that he was indeed deeply in love with this Chinese girl, in fact, from the very beginning, Deng Wendi had an underground affair with this man who was nearly 30 years older than her, and Mr. Cherry's unreserved help to her from beginning to end was also reasonable.
Soon, under the angry anger of Cherie's wife, she and Mr. Chery moved outside, and in February 1990, the two received a marriage license, when Deng Wendi was 22 years old and Mr. Cherry was 53 years old.
In fact, Mr. Cherry can no longer help himself to continue to dream, and the reason why he married him is to repay Mr. Cherry's love, and the second is most importantly, to get a visa in the United States, which also lays the foundation for her long-term residence in the United States.
03
A second leap in life
If she can enter the United States and get closer to her dream, thanks to Mr. Cherry, then the next time she can enter the famous Yale University in the United States, it is necessary to mention another man, Wolff.
Wolf is no longer the bad old man he was before, what is shown in front of Deng Wendi is a veritable rich and handsome man, who was only about 20 years old at the time, and Deng Wendi met him because of a work opportunity.
At that time, she came to work at a gymnastics academy run by Li Ning, mainly engaging in coaching communication with customers, while Wolff was the manager of the venue. Deng Wendi constantly looked for opportunities to get close to Wolff, and slowly Wolfe was attracted by her talent and femininity.
Over time, she developed a relationship with Wolff, but said nothing about her relationship with Mr. Cherry, and it turned out that Wendi Deng chose the right choice this time, and she successfully passed Wolff to enter the prestigious Yale Business School, and later obtained an MBA, which laid the foundation for her next step.
Later, as soon as Wendi Deng got a U.S. visa, he divorced the previous Mr. Cherry, in fact, Mr. Cherry also suffered from her "mental torture" in the years after his marriage to her. Because he knew in his heart that Wendi Deng was just using him from beginning to end, there was no emotion between him, and there was only one thing that was true, that is, Mr. Cherry was indeed fascinated by such a woman.
After receiving her MBA from Yale University, Wendi Deng began to think about the development of the financial capital of Hong Kong, and on a plane to Hong Kong, she had the honor of sitting next to Zhuo Zhiren, a director of the Murdoch Group, the world's largest multinational media conglomerate at the time.
At this time, Deng Wendi showed social talent again, talking with Zhuo Zhiren all the time, from homely chat to career, Zhuo Zhiren looked at the high-achieving student who graduated from Yale University in front of him, listened to her previous work experience, and slowly became interested in this woman.
It was also on this plane that Deng Wendi got the favor of Zhuo Zhiren and easily found the opportunity to intern at the headquarters of the satellite TV company, that is, this job gave her a qualitative leap.
She gradually climbed to the top through her own continuous learning at the bottom of the company, and at a meeting, when everyone was facing a more difficult problem, Deng Wendi introduced herself and put forward her views and suggestions in fluent English, which made Murdoch's eyes light up.
Through this prominence, in Murdoch's subsequent visits and visits, Deng Wendi followed him without a chain, and also increased her chances of being alone with Murdoch. Wendi Deng was both his entourage secretary and his nanny in life, and it can be said that Later Murdoch felt that whether in life or work, he was completely inseparable from this all-round woman.
In June 1999, 69-year-old media mogul Murdoch married Wendi Deng on a private yacht. Murdoch also knew what had happened to Wendi Deng, so he signed an agreement when he got married, and Wendi Deng had no right to inherit any of his property, unless the two could have children, and the children could get part of the company's shares.
It is also this latter sentence that allows Deng Wendi after marriage to successfully give birth to two daughters through scientific and technological means and IVF, and it can be said that the two daughters were born and shared hundreds of millions of dollars of property, of course, it is equivalent to what Deng Wendi has.
Not long after the marriage, in November 2012, Murdoch and Deng Wendi ended their two-year marriage, although the previous agreement required that she could not get any of Murdoch's property, but after the divorce, she and her daughter were given a three-story penthouse apartment in Manhattan and a courtyard house on the edge of the Forbidden City in Beijing. The preliminary valuation of the courtyard alone is more than 100 million.
So far, Deng Wendi has been ranked among billionaires, her life, with wonderful is not enough to describe, and her step by step to the top also gives us some thinking.
Many people scoff at her step-by-step approach of crossing the river and demolishing bridges, believing that women should not learn from her, more to climb by their own ability, and many people believe that Deng Wendi in order to achieve the goal, the means do not have to be extreme, there is no shame at all.
But no matter what kind of person she is, she can see a point from her, that is, to continuously improve her cognitive ability, in each level, she knows how to first bitter and then sweet, delay enjoyment, through continuous improvement of herself, let the other party see their own value, by getting the appreciation of the other party, so as to let themselves fly higher.
From Wendi Deng, we can completely take the essence of its dross, and she tells us an iron law with her wonderful life: opportunity is always reserved for those who are prepared.
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